The child is 4 years old and is afraid of some sounds in the toilet, what should I do?

You need to find out why you don't go to the toilet before you can help your baby. For example, the baby is afraid because of the sound in the toilet outside, or is he unwilling to go to the toilet outside because he is not used to it. If it is the former, you can listen to him more when you are at home, or take him to a noisy place such as a supermarket when you are outdoors, if it is the latter, you can take him to the toilet outside, and slowly let him get used to various toilets and sounds made inside, and maybe your baby is shy, at home he is familiar with the toilet that is himself, but there will be more people outside or in kindergarten, he may feel embarrassed.

Whatever it is, you have to find the real reason first.

I think parents should accompany their children when they go to the toilet outside.

It's good to try more, maybe I'm not familiar with the toilet outside, and I'm a little scared.

Encourage your child!

You should have a clear understanding of your child's psychological condition.

You can try to ask him why he is afraid.

And then the right medicine was prescribed to help him overcome the psychological obstacles.

Fear of illness in the heart. Normal, as the child grows up, it's fine. By the age of 12, my cousin was still afraid to be at home by himself and to sleep alone.

But after junior high school, everything can be solved, and it is more daring than anyone else. So don't be careful, it's better to let it develop naturally.

You should take the opportunity to ask the child, if he is suddenly like this, I think the child must have encountered something in the toilet... Or someone said something similar that caused him not to go to another toilet.

I have been teaching nursery classes for three years, all of them are about three years old, so I have experience in this area, many children are like this, afraid of squatting pits, every time I meet such a child, I first have a good relationship with him, often hold the child to play, usually try to take him with his own child, pull his little hand, and then when I go to the toilet, he is not afraid of me, it didn't take a few days to be very familiar with let me take to the toilet.

I went to kindergarten at the age of four, and I can't really do it, and adults usually pay attention to teaching.

Sometimes you need to tell him, when you want to boo, tell him, tell him, teach your child slowly, be patient.

A 4-year-old child will not cry out for food when he is hungry, nor will he urinate and urinate himself.

Parents need to be patient and guided.

I don't know if the child's words are true or false. Maybe he wants the men's bathroom, maybe he doesn't want to sleep and wants to go out and play. In this case, then remind Xiao Ming to go to the toilet every day before napping. This way it won't show up, and he's always clamoring to go to the bathroom.

Xiao Ming always forgets to go to the toilet during naps, you can go to the toilet with him in advance when he is napping.

Then take him there, after all, is he a child, but remind him often, next time remember to go to the toilet before lying down to sleep.

The teacher reminds Xiao Ming to go to the toilet before napping.

Take her to the bathroom, children and adults will have different situations, which is a very normal thing.

This is a common psychological manifestation of children. There are not a few children with such introverted performance, so there is no need to worry about it. What needs power is to teach him how to communicate with people.

It stands to reason that when he integrates into an environment, he will be able to let go, and if he changes to an unfamiliar environment, he will be a little introverted. In the long run, it's not easy to be sure of your child's personality when they grow up. So it's definitely not wrong to start small.

Everything needs to be exercised. From training him to communicate with people, communicating with teachers and children, to letting him help his family to buy things. Over time, it will definitely pay off.

During the holidays, help him invite some children who are still with him to come to the house, because at home he will put himself in the leading position, and with the increase of contact, it will change.

A little introverted , don't worry, introverts can avoid many injuries.

Find a child of your friend, spend more time with your child, let them get acquainted, and then go to a kindergarten together, let that child take your son, and let him integrate into the group as soon as possible.

Take him to play with his friends and think of some fun games to entice him to play with the children.

Bring him a diaper. Ask the teacher to tell him that it is not ugly for the child to wet the bed when he sleeps, and the teacher will help him and tell him to sleep peacefully.

Children must have formed a habit.

Be patient with your child.

Or give your child an analogy.

So that the child will understand.

Don't reprimand your child.

My child is also 4 years old, and he knows when he pees, but he doesn't talk when he poops

Measures to pee your pants during the day.

1.**Urinary tract infection: If your child is found to have a urinary tract infection, use antibiotics to control the infection immediately.

2.Enlarge bladder capacity: If your child's bladder capacity is found to be small, bladder function exercises:

Urge the child to drink plenty of water during the day, try to extend the interval between urination, and encourage the child to interrupt urination in the middle of urination, counting 1 to 10, and then exhaust the urine to improve the control of the bladder sphincter and gradually increase the bladder capacity.

3.Solve the problem of your child being nervous: If your child does not have a small bladder capacity, and he will have diapers when he feels nervous, anxious or excited, then relaxation training for your child is the key.

Once your child learns to relax, the overall level of tension in his body decreases and the diaper disappears automatically.

4.Solve the problem of children peeing their pants due to playfulness: Some children often wet their pants when playing outdoors because they are so happy that they are unaware of or ignore the bladder's signals to urinate.

The solution to the problem is that the child thinks it is time to urinate on his own, and can actively interrupt play to go to the toilet. If you are an older child, you can get up and go to the toilet on your own, so you have to find ways to correct your overly playful and diapering behavior, such as setting a time for your child to play outdoors. If the child is too young to take care of himself, the parents help him to set a schedule for him to come back to the toilet regularly, and the parents are responsible for supervising the child until he can return to the toilet on his own.

5.Overcome your child's disability to go to the toilet outside: Some children are not used to going to the toilet outside or are not used to using a toilet with a different urinal than at home.

If you think this is the reason for your child's diaper, you must first find out what the child is afraid of, afraid of dirty? Afraid of bacteria? Afraid of being locked up in the toilet?

If your child thinks the toilet outside is dirty or unhygienic, you can teach him some remedies, such as putting toilet paper on the edge of the toilet; Wipe the toilet bowl clean with paper before using it; It is also possible to change to another toilet. If your child is also allergic to the way the toilet is used and smells clean, you must go to the toilet with him to find out the reason for his fear, let him relax himself, and then let him look at the filth and smell the smell until he is no longer allergic.