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Well! If you take advantage of this special relationship, maybe you won't have too many conflicts together, because you didn't quarrel often before, and you should know each other's personalities very well. Happy bro.
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You can love, but the responsibility and obligation must prompt you to do something that does not violate your conscience, to be worthy of yourself, to be worthy of other people's families, and to be worthy of the future...
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She's probably interesting to you,' she's single now.
If you're interested in him, try to pursue it
I wish you all happiness.
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Love is about being family one day.
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Isn't it good now? Why dwell on the past? It doesn't make any sense for you to do this, maybe people don't mean that, but recently I felt that I wanted someone to talk to, so they found you, so why take it so seriously?
It's all in the past, and you yourself say that your current girlfriend is very good, so why don't you dwell on the present and have to dwell on the past Everyone lives in the present, and you are very irresponsible to your current girlfriend.
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Your question is somewhat similar to the one I encountered, so I guess it's a deep feeling.
I think you should first consider how good the relationship between you and your current boyfriend is, whether you think that you are the one you want to be with for the rest of your life. Secondly, the conditions of your blind date are much better than yours, and he doesn't want to let go, for what, whether he likes you or something else. Third, what are your boyfriend's conditions?
If it is not as good as the conditions of your blind date, will you regret it after you and your boyfriend are together in the future.
The relationship between you and your current boyfriend is pure affection, and there are no other factors, but the current relationship between you and your blind date will be based on a house and a car.
I think your parents don't want you to marry far away, because they are reluctant to let you go out and suffer too far away, their thoughts are also for your good, I think you should sit down with them, calmly talk to them about your thoughts, if you really identify your current boyfriend, you can tell your mother what you think, I think she should understand, although she is resolute now, but she is also sincerely good for you, What parent in the world would make their child feel pain? Also, I don't think you should leave home now, as your parents' opinion of your boyfriend will definitely deteriorate as soon as you leave home. Also, Have your parents ever met your boyfriend?
If you can, if you can let them meet, your parents will see people more accurately than us, and if your boyfriend is really good, your parents may agree.
If your parents have seen your boyfriend, but are firmly opposed to you associating with him, then you can have a good talk with your parents, see that in addition to thinking that your boyfriend has no car, no house, no money, but also think that your boyfriend is not good, if they think your boyfriend has a bad character, you can follow your parents' advice and leave your boyfriend, if it is not a bad character, just because of the house, car and no money and want you to choose your blind date, then you can insist on your own choice. Also, I think that since you and your parents are now having their own opinions, you might as well put things aside for now, don't rush to this time, and wait until everyone is calmer and then talk to your parents. And in the case of your parents' disapproval, you can't get separated, otherwise it will only make things worse.
Also, can you get your boyfriend to come to your house and get a job?
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Why don't you let that man come to you?
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When faced with this problem, you have to make a rational choice.
It's nothing more than an emotional problem, our parents have given us too much love and we can't repay it even if we spend our lives in it. But his other half is with him for a lifetime. to get married and have children.
Even if we go away, it doesn't mean that we will forget the kindness we have to our parents. Come back a few times a year to see your parents, don't you come back a few times a year at most when you work in other places, right? You should stick to being with your boyfriend of 6 years, but through good methods, wait for the right time, and if there is an opportunity to bring your boyfriend home directly, let him take the initiative to get your parents' consent.
That wouldn't solve the problem, would it?
Your situation is still a common phenomenon in society, you have been together for many years, your boyfriend has just graduated, at this time you can create happiness with him, make a detailed plan, how many years to have a house and a car, and then a series of efforts will definitely make your parents affirmed.
I don't agree with it, I ran away from home because of my feelings, and although I got my own home, I made another family uneasy. Correctly understand the problem, solve the difficulty with objective facts, come on.
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Be cautious, falling in love is not the same as getting married, and many girls regret it after they get married.
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After reading it, I won't scold you.
You've done a lot of things you're sorry for, and you're sorry for the person you're with.
Your parents tell you to go on a blind date, and that makes your parents feel like they have a door, you know. So they think it's just that you haven't seen it yet.
The man you like, if you go a few more times, you will definitely be able to meet him.
If you want to marry your former boyfriend, go to Shandong to find him, and tell your parents that it's not him, and I won't marry.
Because no one can interfere with such a thing as marriage.
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If he really loves you and knows your current situation, why don't he come to Henan to find you?
Even if you don't know, but you're not young anymore, hasn't he talked to you about getting married?
You know what he was going to do? Obviously, you don't know.
Don't be stupid, sister. A woman can't blindly give in a relationship.
Let's talk to him seriously, and if the two of them have a firm goal, go on together!
If you can't agree, don't hurt your parents' affection for you.
No love can compare to father's love and mother's love! Cherish!
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Our situation is very similar ... Actually, I'm also annoyed... But I don't think we can fall out with our parents no matter what, after all, our parents will always love us.
You can face it together and let your mom see that you can live well and that your boyfriend is genuine to you. No matter what, you have to follow the feelings in your heart, so that you will not have regrets ...... in the future
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If you date your new boyfriend for a year, you will slowly become estranged from your boyfriend in Shandong, don't believe you try it, this is the reality, if you marry your boyfriend in Shandong for a lifetime, you can also be happy, feelings are cultivated by time, even if you have no feelings for a long time, you will unconsciously have a ...... feelings
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Your parents don't seem to be flexible. But I don't know if there are any other opinions besides not wanting you to marry far away. The answer is only to wait for change, the relationship of six years is quite difficult, and it must be cherished.
If you come hard, you will end up with a reputation for unfilial piety. If you give up, your happiness is over. In life, the so-called happiness is only two things, one is love, and the other is career.
If you lose half of it, your life will not have much meaning. If you insist on not going on a blind date, in a few years, your parents will be more and more worried about your life's events, and only then will they be resolved. Of course, there is a risk, your current boyfriend just said to wait, but he didn't say that he had to wait for you.
In fact, this is also a test of your love, as long as the two of you are united. But this kind of love is really bitter, and I feel very understanding.
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Tell your boyfriend the truth, see what he will do, if he still loves you, he will definitely come to live with you, if he doesn't come to you...I hope you plan for your future happiness.
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Heart. But don't force yourself with your parents.
Or you can ask your boyfriend to go to Henan for development. After all, boys reassure their parents. 、
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Do you have any siblings? If there is, if you love your boyfriend very much, decisively go up to Shandong to find your boyfriend, and then often call the family **. After a long time, the wood is ready, and it will be fine.
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See how much you love him, if you like it very much, and you think it's worth it, then do it, and do it bravely. Bless you.
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