My girlfriend broke up with me, what should I do? It s messy

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're going to be sad about breaking up. But this mood will slowly fade with time. Slowly you will find out too.

    You can't dwell on this broken relationship forever. You also want to start a normal life. You also have to face a lot of realities.

    A breakup doesn't mean it's a death sentence. First of all, you have to cheer yourself up. How can you do it if you don't have faith?

    Try to forget the past. Start a new life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I am very touched by reading your article, my boyfriend treats me like you do to her, I often ignore him when I am angry, and then he will coax me for a long time, and he will also say that I have confidence in him, and he will say that he will change everything... But I have never failed to pick up him**, even if I only snort twice, then I must take it, because I am afraid that he will not find me and I will be worried; I didn't say anything about breaking up, only once I got angry and he called me out and I said I didn't want to see him. Later, I learned that this made him very sad.

    I think couples can quarrel and make awkward conversations, but they can't say those hurtful words, let alone break up when they are excited, it's too hurtful. I love my boyfriend so much that I don't want him to be sad even if I'm angry. I feel like your girlfriend doesn't love you very much anymore and wants to break up, so she just doesn't want to look back.

    If you are reluctant, you might as well ask her, carefully ask her if she is determined to never be with you again, it is best to emphasize that after you ask this time, you will never mention this matter to her again and never bother her again, showing that you have already thought about it, just give the two of you a chance at the end. Look at her attitude. Maybe she really doesn't love you anymore, but maybe it's because she loves her that she keeps doing this to you.

    If you are sure that after the breakup, she tells you not to go out, a man is undignified like this, and you also need time to repair your mood and move on with your life in the future. Good luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ay... Man, that's it, I'm like this, every time I get angry with my girlfriend, I don't like to talk to her, but in the end, I still have to coax her, I can't help it, who calls them women, I want me to think that if she really wants to break up, she will bring it up directly, after all, they have all lived together, and they have loved and hated, and they have hated, so what's not to do.

    If you want me to say, don't be soft-hearted, be ruthless, wait for 4 or 5 days, don't look for him, you see that she can't come to you, the more you push her, the more you spoil her, the more the situation suffers, of course men have to learn to endure We are much more generous than girls Don't think that every time they get angry with us, we have the right to be angry with them Slow down first Don't look for her If she really loves you, she will self-reflect in a few days and come to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Many times since it's over, let it pass, I understand your current mood very well, and I've also experienced it, give yourself some time, there are many good women in the world, you have suffered and suffered, but only you know, be good to yourself, no matter at any time, only you will not betray yourself.

    Trust me, time can dilute everything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What is yours is yours after all, and it can't be forced if it is not yours!

    Let it be, don't go to her too often, that will have the opposite effect.

    You're right, all you have to do now is wait.

    When things are at the worst they will mend! Believe in yourself!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Landlord: I know it's my fault, can you give me a chance? I'll feel sorry for you! If you're in love with someone else, please let me be your best friend, okay? I will always love you and take care of you! Please don't leave me!

    If he fails you, it doesn't matter, my shoulders are empty for you! I will always protect you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because now that you've broken up, it's embarrassing that you can't be friends with her!

    Because you once loved her deeply, you can't be an enemy with her You can't bear it!

    So you can only be the strangers you know best, friends! I'm in a similar situation to you, at first I was like you, but then I realized that memories are useless, men, it's not good to procrastinate, it's good for 2 people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Xiao Bisheng is newly married, don't stick together every day, so you will get tired of it after a long time, I meet my boyfriend once in a while, he said that every time I see me, I feel very fresh and excited, so, I think the appropriate distance is still beneficial.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I were to dump her, I would say: Get out! What a

    The more you accommodate her, the more she thinks you're a bully, break off with her, and women are all over the street

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Look if she still loves you. If you still love it, chase it back... If not, be good friends

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm looking for one, if you can't find it, then it's no wonder that people don't want you, (others don't want you either).

    It's good to find it.,She's not that blessed to have you.,I can't change the QQ password of my own.,I suggest you don't have illusions.。

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's be friends first, and see if there's a chance to redeem something.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Throw it away. Women are what you are used to.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Thinking too much! How can it be smooth sailing!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it's a man, be happy, what are you afraid of?

    There is no grass at the end of the world.

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