Do unmotivated boys make girls stay away?

It's not all right, some girls are born to change boys, conquer boys, they will feel that being able to transform a boy is a sign of their own success, so it depends on whether you are willing to be transformed, men will not look like this, hehe.

In real life, there is almost no aesthetic fairy tale love. There is a saying that "the economy is the foundation, love is the superstructure", and this sentence may be the most suitable for lovers in today's society. After two people get married, they face life, not just love, a boy can't even give the most basic sense of security to a girl, so do you think a girl will be happy with this boy for a lifetime?

Self-motivation may indicate that boys and girls will have a better and better life in the future, but not being self-motivated does not mean that there is no good life, but it will be a dull life!

Girls like self-motivated boys because they feel secure, otherwise they have to help him with everything, which is a very embarrassing thing. What's more, boys will have to bear the burden of the family in the future, so they must be motivated now to lay the foundation for the future. If girls are more motivated than boys, won't boys feel embarrassed?

Generally, what impresses girls the most is that boys dare to take responsibility and have a sense of responsibility. Therefore, most girls will choose responsible boys.

Today's boys are becoming less and less motivated.

Some boys and girls have different education methods, resulting in many girls no longer relying on boys, and girls have gradually become strong women, everyone's personality is different, and the education is not the same, which also leads to many boys not being motivated.

Many men are content with the status quo, feeling that they don't need to support others to eat and drink now, they just need to support themselves, so they are very unmotivated, get by, can mix day by day, immature minds, unmotivated men, and even gnaw at the old, China has a deep-rooted patriarchy, especially our parents' generation, grandparents' generation, are very important to their sons and special love, resulting in boys increasingly unable to take responsibility, although can not be generalized, But we can't ignore the fact that this kind of education will lead to more boys being unmotivated. On the contrary, today's girls are more on their own, no longer rely on men, financially independent, no longer a traditional woman who can't live without a man, now women are out of the hall, under the kitchen, and will be very disgusted with unmotivated men, rather than looking for an unmotivated boyfriend, it is better to live alone, more chic and comfortable, no financial troubles.

Nowadays, the mental age of girls will be older than that of boys, and their minds will be more mature than boys, so girls don't like to find boys younger than themselves, for self-control.

Girls will be stronger than boys, therefore, boys must learn to be self-motivated, no self-motivated boys are very unlikeable, no matter what era they are in, self-motivation is essential, he can make our future see hope, hard-working, responsible.

Self-motivation is the basic condition that boys have, and self-motivated people will naturally have high work ability, good academic performance, and will also be favored by girls.

So how to have self-motivation, first of all, we must have an upward momentum when doing things, constantly motivate ourselves, work hard, be strict with ourselves, do not give up when encountering things, and persist in doing it.

Because many boys have no sense of responsibility, are more selfish, and have no goals, let alone lofty ambitions, they are naturally not self-motivated.

There is no responsibility. Nowadays, many boys are not responsible, they don't realize what they have to bear in the future, because their parents give too much, too comprehensive, so they don't know that they have become men.

This is because there are many boys who do not have a very positive outlook, are not self-motivated, and lack enthusiasm, so this situation occurs.

I feel like I'll hate unmotivated men, because a man is the pillar of a family, unmotivated, mediocre life is not something that all girls can refresh and accept.

Yes, even if you don't say it, you will despise it in your heart.

Maybe those women have a lot of desires and high requirements, and want the boy to be promoted and rich as much as possible, and if the boy can't meet the requirements, they think that he doesn't want to be motivated.

This is because there is a need for more material needs for girls. Therefore, Hui Tuanxiao feels that boys are not motivated. And in the eyes of girls, there will also be a heart of comparison, and I feel that there is a big difference between boys and other wells.

For a married person. I want to say something to girls who are not married. It is said that when a girl gets married, she is reincarnated for the second time.

It doesn't matter if you didn't read the book well. The most important thing is to marry the right person. First of all, be clear in your heart.

The person you want to marry is a person. It's not his family, his family background. Nor is it his personal relationship.

This is the most important point. Marriage is the most important thing in a woman's life. If you marry right, you will be happy for the rest of your life.

Brother Pingqing doesn't have to worry about food and clothing on the day. The old man in the family is kind. His own children are very sensible and well-behaved.

It shows that you are very happy in your married life. Opposite. If you look away, marry a particularly hypocritical.

Particularly lazy, unenterprising people. Then your life will be particularly unsatisfactory. You will feel particularly aggrieved and aggrieved.

Life like this, the more desperate it becomes. There is no hope in this man. There is no future.

That's why girls are looking for boyfriends and looking for marriage partners. Be sure to pay attention. Looking for one.

Come with a kindness. Have a stable job. And one more.

I try to go to the heart on the sail stall. Sunny personality. It's not time to summarize.

And a boy who is particularly responsible. Be a husband. In this way, life will be comfortable.

Find such a husband and live a life. You will be happy and satisfied. It was especially meaningful.

In this way, you will have hope for your future life. This is a married man. Advice for women who are not married, girls.

I hope for those. Girls can find one. People who love themselves, love themselves, and understand themselves.

Happiness to old age.

The main reason is that you can't earn money and can't give a woman the life she wants, which should be the main reason.

Some time ago, I had a good girlfriend who posted such a paragraph in WeChat: I don't dislike my boyfriend who has been dating for more than three years, his family is not wealthy, and his job is unstable. But her family persuaded her to break up with the boy because he was not motivated and had nothing to do all day.

Then my girlfriend was more entangled and asked me. I asked the girl, "What do you really like about this guy?"

Why are you reluctant to break up? ”

My best friend replied: "Although she is not self-motivated, she is really good to me and always takes care of me in everything, so I will be entangled." ”

If a girl really faces a boy who is not motivated but treats herself well, how to choose? In fact, the real answer is only known to the person concerned. For girls, before falling in love, you must think about what kind of life you want before you fall in love?

If you are not empty for yourself, there is only me and me, there is no firewood, rice, oil and salt, only the idea of love, and there is no plan to get married. It's good to find a guy like that, after all, he's good to you.

If you are very good and rich now, and you don't need the help of a boy in the future, or even you can support this boy in turn, then you can also choose to continue this love. If you want to have a better life in the future, and you yourself are an ordinary girl, then it is better to give up the relationship.

It is very realistic when getting married, the mortgage hand smiles, the children's tuition fees, and the alimony of the elderly do not need money all the time. And the touching words "I love you", "together", and "good to you" need material support in addition to giving emotional care to each other. If a man is really good to you, he may be penniless now, but he will not lose his self-motivation, because it is a happy thing for a man to fight for the woman he likes, no matter how hard and tired it is!

In fact, it's really not terrible to be poor, what is terrible is to let yourself be lazy even though you know you're poor. We can accept a man's temporary poverty, or we can accept a man's dissatisfaction after paying, but as long as there is a self-motivated heart, there is hope.

Your definition of not being motivated is that he is not good enough, at least he has a job and is quite stable? You can also see that he is good to you, isn't that enough? Or are you unwilling to accept that your future partner is not good enough to be worthy of you, and you are worried that you will look down on him in the future?

Have the right mentality, if you like him very much, and he treats you very well, then be together, if you really mind that much, talk to him well, communicate your thoughts to him, and express your own opinions. As long as you like each other, what can't you say well?

I don't know if you've noticed that the more reliable men are, the less motivated they are, they are content with the status quo and content with a simple little life. If you break up with him, you may be able to meet a man who is better than him and more motivated than him in the future, but you may not be able to meet a man who cares more about you than him, and an ambitious man will also have requirements for the other half.

I know you're conflicted and very uncertain about what the future holds. So before you think about breaking up with him, should you study hard and make yourself better? Your boyfriend will also have a sense of crisis when he sees his girlfriend so good, and in order for him to study, you need to be angry with him before; Now, if you let him see your efforts, he will probably work hard with you.

When you are better, you have found a better job and have better development prospects, he still does not want to make progress, the two of you are no longer at the same level, this is when you need to make a choice. It's a little early for you to think about breaking up.

Discuss with him and tell him that after you get married, you will be mainly responsible for earning money, and he will be mainly responsible for housework and children. If he is happy to accept this kind of life and does not produce negative emotions, then you can really get married together. If he doesn't really want to get married, or isn't very happy about being a family cook, then you need to break up with him.

Finally, don't use being nice to someone as a reason to get married, it's something anyone can simply do.

No, what girls want is a sunny and motivated boy, blindly pleasing themselves, it is useless, only positive can live a good life in the future.

will not choose, because girls need not only emotional satisfaction, but also material satisfaction.