Let s talk about the problem of emotional communication

You talk to everyone in a single way, talk to them about your opinions, let them know that you are their child and have the right to control the family, you don't have to talk around the topic of fighting when chatting, chat casually, and then talk about each other's good in front of each other, communicate with them a few more times, and finally let them talk to themselves. See if it works.

You'd better not adjust when they're arguing, because they'll get louder and more fierce! When the matter is over, you can find them separately, help them find out where the knots are, and solve them one by one, then they can calm down and listen and think, and the problem will be much easier to solve.

Just when they were about to quarrel, one of them was called away, as the saying goes, a slap can't make a sound, and a person is gone. Then when they have calmed down, talk to them and see what they want, and you just need to help them convey their intentions. Just start a messenger in the middle.

I have the same problems as you.

My mom and dad also got into fights a lot.

I've been watching it for a few years now.

I have a deep understanding. First of all, you should figure out the root cause of their quarrel.

Why noisy. Once you figure out the cause, you'll know how to solve it.

Don't take sides.

Whoever is wrong must say that it is wrong.

If it's noisy if it's okay.

Tell them directly, they're all so adults, and this = such a temper tantrum, and they will be reconciled after every quarrel.

What's the point of that noise?

It's better to start with you and me.

Talk to them when they're in a good mood.

Also tell them.

Mom and Dad quarrels can affect your own marriage.

I don't know if you're married.

Tell them that if you get married in the future, you might be influenced by them.

So they are doing you harm.

They'll think about it.

This kind of experience is really terrible, but there are some things that can only be handled by the person concerned, and inappropriate help will go the other way. For example, I once read the story of a chick coming out of the shell in "Reader", to the effect that the chick has to go through a painful struggle when it comes out of the eggshell, and it is this struggle that makes the chick's mouth a little harder, and the strength is a little bigger.

Everything has a reason, find the right crux of the problem, the right medicine is easy to work, I think if you can, you should calm down and talk to your parents, analyze where the problem is.

You said to your dad, my mom married you and it hurts, and you play a song - dad I'm back.

The only thing they have in common now is you, so let's see for yourself.

Flip through old photos and let them think about the happy old days

Bless you!

Communication means that both parties should take out the problems in their hearts and talk about them, treat each other honestly, and answer questions. Don't hold everything in your heart, if no one speaks, there will be nothing to say. What is Communication? Communication is to explain in time when there is a misunderstanding, put forward opinions directly, and admit each other's mistakes when there are contradictions.

Why communicate?

Without communication, there is a gap between people, and there is a distance between hearts.

Between two people, there is no continuity without communication, and there is no affection without connection.

If one doesn't ask, the other doesn't say, no matter how familiar the person is, they will gradually lose their common language, and no matter how deep their feelings are, they will gradually find no fulcrum.

I don't even have the desire to talk and listen, and the relationship is almost over.

70% of the communication between two people is emotion and 30% is content.

If the mood is not right, the content will be distorted.

Without a good mood, you can't speak your heart, and you can't listen to your true words. The speech is yin and yang, which makes people mistakenly think it is a provocation. The temper tantrum turned communication into a quarrel.

If you want to communicate, you have to be sincere.

Calm mood, sincere tone.

The one who cures your temper is the one you love;

The one who can stand your temper is the one who loves you.

If you can control your emotions, you are the one who takes the initiative;

Controlled by emotions, you are doomed to be passive.

Sometimes, life is a compromise, a forbearance, an accommodation.

Not everything is suitable for-for-tat and sonorous power.

Toughness has the advantage of being tough, and forbearance has the advantage of forbearance. Compromise doesn't have to be all weakness, and tolerance doesn't have to be incompetence.

Learn to communicate with others, learn to control your temper, learn to adjust your emotions, never get angry with the person who loves you the most, and never make the person you love the most sad.

Opening up and saying what you want to say is communication.

Summary. The emotion of communication is of course right, because only communication can experience each other's hearts.

Is the emotion of emotional communication right?

The emotion of communication is of course right, because only communication can experience each other's hearts.

Why is it so wrong every time you ask about the time?

This means that you don't communicate with each other, okay, that's why this happens.

She said he grew up from 160 to 167, can you believe it.

I just want to give up the hypocrisy and live a normal life.

This means trusting each other.

Since he said that he could grow up167, we have to believe in him.

Why my biggest dream goes with it. Why did she appear in the saddest time. It's just to protect her. We're both growing in the process.

In terms of time, she was right on the train.

Originally, each other was for each other's growth, and they kept improving.

Keep the worst for yourself and the best for each other. I just want the other person to feel it.

That's what we did.

Summary. My dear, communication and feelings are the same thing, feelings are inseparable from communication, two people get along without communication, communication is the primary condition for two people to get along, only communication can know whether they are suitable for each other, only communication can be more in-depth understanding of each other

Dear, communication and feelings are the same thing, the maintenance of the relationship of Qichun is inseparable from communication, two people can get along without communication, communication is the primary condition for two people to get along, only the ditch head of the troubled generalist Chong can know whether they are suitable for each other, only communication can understand each other more deeply

Communication between two people is fundamental, good communication, two people's feelings will be good, even if the feelings are not good, through timely communication, through communication, the spear with sail shield will be more and more open hail and smaller, timely communication to solve the problem, the feelings between the two sides will be more beautiful.

If you want to be in a relationship for a long time, I think in addition to true love, you also need communication. Someone will tell you a lot of ways to love, but sometimes it doesn't work for you or doesn't fit your actual situation. Many things need to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis so that there is the best solution.

So in a relationship, we must learn to communicate and communicate, why is this?

1. How many feelings have been lost to silence?

Some people say that two people often quarrel, and this state of getting along is the easiest to be estranged. In fact, two people who don't quarrel are more likely to be estranged. Arguments can be a shortcut between two souls.

The argument is not terrible, the terrible thing is that there is no quarrel, there is only silence between them. You know, silence is always the beginning of a relationship estrangement. In a relationship, the scariest thing is that you don't want to communicate, you don't want to bury all your words in your heart.

Many times, it is not a heated quarrel that breaks a relationship, but years of indifference and alienation. Communication should be the first step for two people to walk together, not the last; The latter has reached the point where it is complicated, confused, and tired of mending relationships. They can't tell if they have anything to say and prefer to give up.

When two people don't even have the most basic communication, they are silent with each other and have nothing to say, which means that the relationship cannot last long, and many relationships come to the end in silence.

Second, it is difficult to empathize without communication.

When two people are together, it is impossible for them to be in a happy atmosphere. They will always quarrel over some things, but it can't be said that quarreling is not love. In love, I am not afraid of encountering problems, and I am afraid that the two of them will not take the initiative to communicate and solve them.

If neither of them is willing to give in, they will only push the person they love further and further. In love, tolerance is needed. Sometimes, what can you do if you argue about right and wrong?

Taking the initiative to tolerate does not mean that you are wrong, just because love exists. The concession of one party will naturally make the situation better, say a few good words, get the favor of your lover, and make things better, why not! Some people, it is not easy to meet, don't let small things affect each other's feelings.

3. No matter how good the relationship is, communicate in a timely manner.

Many times, not communicating with each other will only lead to misunderstandings and rifts in feelings. The so-called heart is clear, even if it is an intimate relationship, you can't guess what the other party thinks. Anger and apathy will eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

No matter how good the relationship is, it is necessary to communicate and explain it in a timely manner. We must always remember that communication is the most important thing in intimate relationships, and at all times, timely communication is always the best way to resolve misunderstandings. In any relationship, there is no communication, there is no mutual silence and silence, and over time, there will be fewer and fewer topics to talk about with each other, and misunderstandings will become deeper and deeper.

In the end, even if you want to save it, it will just be powerless. After most of my life, I lost contact with many people, and finally realized that the two most hurtful words are always silence. Between people, the most valuable thing is to be honest and relative.

If you have something to say to each other, don't worry about suspicion and estrangement. No matter how good the relationship is, a lack of communication can alienate each other. No matter who you get along with, communicate in a timely manner.

Because communication is the key to building a bridge of communication, there must be a topic to talk about between two people, and only two people can tell each other what they think in each other's hearts, so that they can make each other understand themselves better, which is more conducive to the relationship between two people.

Because this can better solve problems, better cultivate feelings, avoid many contradictions, and make feelings better.

Because if you learn to communicate and exchange, the relationship between two people will be deepened, and some contradictions and troubles will be avoided.