The blind date is a little depressing

Blind dates rarely fall in love at first sight, so the slow heating process is normal.

You can only take your time to get to know each other, make an appointment to find a few friends to go there to play, and you can also ask the friends she invited to go with you. But don't embarrass yourself by playing friends. Let's just try to be friends. Now in this society who doesn't need friends.

If you go out and play together, you can talk about the topic with great hope. If you have to go out a few times to no avail, you can say that this woman is not interested in you.

In this case, this girl is still a big deal for you. It's so common these days that you can't even talk about it online, let alone have something in common in real life. After all, it is a person who wants to continue walking, and he must find someone who is more comfortable thinking about himself.

Believe in love, and you don't have to be in such a hurry. When you meet someone you like, confess boldly.

If it's convenient, it's best to make an appointment to meet first, so that you can have an intuitive understanding after meeting, and you can't talk about anything

Hello dear! When it comes to blind dates, you feel depressed, and this situation is usually because you are very disgusted with this kind of thing. 1.

The reason for anxiety and depression on a blind date may be that there is slight social anxiety, so I feel that blind date is a very embarrassing thing. Social anxiety is an emotional experience of feeling nervous, uncomfortable, unnatural, and even fearful when interacting with people. If the level of social anxiety is more severe, let alone a blind date, even taking the initiative to talk to strangers will make them feel very nervous, scared, and afraid.

2.Anxiety and depression on a blind date may also be that the speed of psychological development has not kept up with the speed of aging. Psychologist Erikson proposed the theory of stages of psychological development, which he believes that individuals are in early adulthood, that is, when they are 18-25 years old, and their task is to establish intimacy and reject loneliness; In adulthood, between the ages of 25 and 65, the task is to gain a sense of reproduction and avoid a sense of stagnation.

Oh brother, this depends on you, or you are angry and mind their contact, but you like it a lot, and I heard that his father definitely disagrees with them, and you want to fight for some opportunities, I think, the girl is also struggling, whether to choose the original, or you, in my opinion, there is no need to drag the time, just ask her.

Loving each other is the same as fighting. The time, the place, the people, you now have people and the place, it will be a day away, as long as you don't let go of the time can change everything.

Giving up is like you're a bad person, destroying people, yes, you're innocent.

If you like it, go for it, otherwise give up, it's up to you.

watching the fire from the other side; Look; If it's an ex-boyfriend; You're going to chase it.

That's why you're too psychologically fragile!

It's going to hurt your self-esteem, you're completely asking for trouble. I'm very old, I've been on blind dates many times, and other women don't like me. If I want to go on a blind date in the future, I will also go, and if it is successful, forget it if it doesn't work, what is this? I didn't do anything wrong.

As for the man himself who left first, it was because his quality was not high, and you were still worried about it, in the eyes of outsiders, you would only despise him and think that he had no quality. You've done nothing wrong and you're still grieving here, fainting.

A lot of your troubles are actually self-inflicted.

The reason why you have so many troubles is because you are afraid that people will not look down on you on a blind date, and you are afraid that people will not like you, and then you will be hit when you encounter such a thing. If so, what else are you going to go on a blind date? Blind date is consensual, since this is the case, people may not look down on you, you may not be able to look at others, mutual willingness to look at it all of a sudden, maybe the first blind date will become, maybe it will take many times to become it, what do you say?

Maybe some people have never met each other on a blind date in their lives, and maybe they have found a suitable one outside.

Don't writhe and pry, worry about yourself, and feel sorry for yourself. Do what you have to do. Otherwise, the more you think about it, the more sad you become, and then you can't extricate yourself.

That's not the right setback? There is always someone who is suitable for you, what is there, there are still many people and things you will meet in the future, but remember not to be too focused, it will not be good for you, think about it, that's it, take your time.

Keep up the good work, don't be discouraged, find a guy who likes you. If it is easy to find the other half, it is estimated that there will be many setbacks and ups and downs in life in the future. The hard work of love is also a joy and happiness.

This...Actually, you're here to chat haha

Uh, it's sad....

My girlfriend and I met in junior high school and didn't experience ...... blind date

It's normal not to feel it, it's wrong to feel it.

First of all, you have to figure out what factors the "feeling of love" comes from, remove the more realistic economic, status and other considerations, it is generally nothing more than "external appearance" and "experience of getting along", but it will fall to the step of blind date, if you are young, it is difficult to exceed the "posture of the middle" in the image, and the "external appearance" is not much more than that, and the first time you meet, the "experience of getting along" is even more nonsense.

If you think about it, such a person, the appearance will not make people have too many hormonal impulses, and they don't know anything, it is no different from a stranger on the street, if this also feels, then there is no need to go on a blind date, it is called a person, as long as it is the opposite sex, still alive, the age is not so outrageous, it is not mentally retarded or the limbs and facial features are not sound.

So, on a blind date, it's normal not to feel good, and you can't refuse the other party because of this - unless the other party rejects you first or you meet a more suitable one, anyway, being idle is also idle, slowly let the relationship gradually warm up, get along with each other for a few months, and then say whether you feel it or not.

I feel that your heart is too high, can you lower your blind date standards? That way, you'll be able to find the perfect one in no time.

This kind of thing can't be rushed, the more anxious you are, the more you can't find it, everything is fate, you will always find it, maybe he appeared inadvertently, in this regard, I have always thought that it is better to lack than to abuse, after all, it is to be responsible for your own life.

Your fate hasn't arrived yet, and it feels like sometimes it's slowly occurring in the dating time, so try to date.

Still fate hasn't arrived, don't be impatient.

Don't go on a blind date in a very good place.

Have you seen it, don't disturb if you're not sincere, Ge You's acting.