How do girls in their twenties deal with scumbags over thirty?

I don't agree with ordinary women still dealing with this kind of person, the experience is not enough and the emotional intelligence is not high, and the woman is very stupid, you still have to leave quickly, if you want to deal with it, there is a risk of paying the price, he does the same for him, show his charming side, women must be ** good, dress themselves up beautiful but not ostentatious, gentle and delicate but not sticky.

Work hard to improve yourself, it's best to do a career, let him regret it. What this kind of man lacks is money, and if you have money, he will come to you obediently, and then you will naturally know what to do.

The reason why you are being played by a scumbag is because you have the habit of relying on him, and from now on you get rid of the bad habit of relying on anyone and live independently on your own for three months, when you will find a new version of yourself. When you completely don't rely on anyone, you will find that you are truly getting further and further away from the scumbag from the bottom of your heart.

Let him feel that you are not so loving him, and in turn he will have a trace of regret, which will also elevate your status to some extent. Otherwise, if you take the opposite approach, you will not be able to do without him.

You can't be indecisive, you have to be ruthless, he will be afraid if you are strong, otherwise weakness will only make him kick his nose in the face.

Expand your social circle and travel. This is not to make you anxious to find the next object, but to tell you that there are many good people in the world, so that you can understand the world better, and when you see more, you will naturally be relieved.

If you are not beautiful enough, then change your image quickly, if you don't have a job, find a job to support yourself, in short, live yourself.

Let's go as far as we go.

With a madman, do you think about what to do with him? A scumbag is like a madman, you never know where his bottom line is, you never know how scum he can be, unless you don't have a bottom line, he is more inhumane than him. Otherwise, you can only be yourself, control your feelings, block and don't send, don't care, don't be cheap, don't give a little sweetness and be soft-hearted.

Women are not ruthless, and their status is unstable.

First of all, when I see this problem, I deeply sympathize with you, and as a psychiatrist, when I see such a thing, I will analyze the cause of the matter more rationally.

First, a 30-year-old woman, looking at the topic is that she is not married, but is just talking about friends, and women at this stage are called leftover women in this society, and second, 30-year-old women are not married at this age, what is the reason? Is it an emotional run? Or amnesia in love? Or maybe you haven't been able to find the right person?

Third, a 30-year-old woman is a period when her sex life is more vigorous, and the hormones released by her body are relatively strong. Is it more dependent on scumbags?

For various reasons, it is because of his self-confidence, your sister should be relatively lacking in self-confidence, and there is also a lack of thorough looks.

That's how she lives. There is no access to higher-level talent. Today's social atmosphere is like this, those handsome guys who are stubborn are also scumbags who gnaw at the old. She can't always live in a TV series.

Emotional things are incomprehensible to outsiders, and it can only be said that your sister fell in love with someone she shouldn't love, and now she is tall for others! Even if you want to die, you want to die, which means that your sister is too single-minded, and your sister can't do anything about it.

It's hard to say, it's also a choice, sometimes you know you're wrong, and you have to make a mistake to the end.

Why do you always encounter it, just like why it wasn't you who won the lottery, I can't explain it. I can only keep my eyes open and look good, and may the years be gentle on kind people.

The reason is that your sister is good at this mouthful, masochistic type.

Maybe the scumbag is more good at flirting with girls.

It also has a lot to do with her own personality.

Who knows why, I don't understand.