I feel like roommates with my mom

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
54 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Lack of communication! I'm making a bold guess here, the subject's mother should be a person who is not good at expressing or communicating, and is relatively taciturn, if that's the case, here's a brief analysis:

    In fact, as young people, we should not blame them, let alone blame them, after all, they lived in that era, and the environment created their character. Now that we have reached adulthood and matured our minds, we have the responsibility and obligation to guide them appropriately, let them have more contact with this society, and take the initiative to communicate with them, not only to let them feel our care, but also to make them feel that they are not left behind in society. In fact, there are many such families around me, and most of them are due to the lack of guidance and patience of their children, in fact, parents are willing to learn, but many times we do not have the patience to communicate.

    Here I would like to make a few suggestions:1Teach them to learn to use mobile phones or computers, WeChat, don't find it difficult, don't always think they are stupid, you know, when they were young, they also taught us like this; 2.

    No matter what kind of way, ** or WeChat voice call, talk to them every day, you can't do it every day, two or three times a week, the time can be slowly extended, don't feel that you have nothing to say, I will teach you if you have nothing to say, just ask some old-fashioned questions, what to eat, what to do? I sometimes can't figure out why many people can talk to a stranger for a long time, and they have nothing to say to the person closest to them, and to put it bluntly, they don't care! If you feel that you have nothing to say, open the voice or ** there, feel the existence of the other party, feel that you are with your parents, you do your things, cultivate the context, and slowly have something to say, after a long time, you will find that you have endless words to say with your parents.

    That's how I am!

    In the end, mom is a mom, not a roommate!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can really be good friends with your parents, then you are the happiest person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe your mom wants to talk to you, but she doesn't know where to start.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Are you male or female? If you are a man, you are indeed different, so it will be derailed from society, and it is recommended to change more to adapt to the ...... of lifeIt's too classical if it's a woman, but it's possible that there will be boys who know how to pity.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't care about the eyes of others, establish the purpose of your own behavior, do everything with a purpose, magnify your position in life, learn to look down on others, be self-centered, use your sun to shine on the earth, and constantly change yourself.

    It's not scary to be cowardly, because it's still weak, and it's scary that you don't have the heart to get stronger.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is mainly caused by a lack of calcium in your heart and bile qi. This situation has a lot to do with your nature. Everyone's inheritance is different, and this situation will improve as you grow up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello, I personally think that this is a psychological problem, you have to try to change your mind, divert your attention, read more books, travel, and make yourself more extroverted.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try to communicate with your classmates and take your time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You haven't left mama since you were a child, and if there is something that mama has helped you a lot, you have formed a sense of dependence, and of course part of it is that your mother loves you too much. Therefore, in the future, you have to learn to be independent, try to do everything by yourself, and exercise yourself, which is not a bad thing after entering the society.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Me too, I can't live without my mom.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you go out to practice, you can't stay at home all the time and go out with friends

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How old are you? Try to leave home and get out of your own city......Very effective.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because you haven't been exposed to the outside world.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is it that you don't dare to touch people's eyes as long as you talk to them?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're about to be a sophomore, in addition to escaping or escaping in the face of society, everything is still borne by your parents, it's true that your parents are not good, and you have a problem educating you, you can use this excuse to drive them out in the future and occupy everything from them, you just stay at home, how cool, and punish your parents.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't have a temper, you will have to buy a plane if you go abroad, and learning knowledge is a stepping stone for your future work, and it has nothing to do with others Mentally retarded

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are no longer a child, college students are fully capable of supporting themselves, reaching out to the family to ask for money, but also adding a burden to the family, and running away to escape when things do not agree, it is really not responsible.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You have a problem, why does your mother provide you so much. You retreated, and your future was ruined. Can't make money if you go to school?

    Odd jobs. Students are amazing?? Students can't make money??

    You can do nothing if you take the status of a student?? I want to be financially independent and ask your mother for money to rent a house?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your family is not financially well-off, it is your fault that you have to waste money. If the family is okay, just talk to your mother about making money and paying her back in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your parents have a bit of a problem with me, and I feel the same way.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hope is beautiful, reality is cruel.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1 Your parents should think about it from your point of view.

    2. There are pros and cons to renting outside.

    3 Don't drop out of school, completing your studies is also a skill.

    4. Calm down and think about it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Your parents are fine, it's you who have your own problems.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't be presumptuous, study hard.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Society is very realistic, and so is family, and I am a bit like you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your mom is good for you, you know?

    Teach you to respect your elders, first of all, did you eat zhi rice and call your family to eat dao together? Specialize in helping your grandfather move.

    It's a stool, why don't you want to? The old man loves children, and he is also polite, of course he said no, you can't hear it?

    You may be lazy, or you may not pay attention to some etiquette details. Elders are elders after all, and they have to be respected and honored.

    And your mother is now educating you, saying that you are hungry for food, it must be angry, but she mainly hopes that through punishment you will remember this truth, respect and honor your elders, otherwise when you go out of society in the future, you don't even know the most basic politeness, how to get along with people? Don't hate your mother and grandparents, if they don't love you, they don't bother to say that you are angry with you, because they want you to change for the better, so they preach one by one, which sounds disgusting to you, because they have been pointing out your faults, but they mention these things just to hope that you will get rid of your bad mistakes, understand? Take pity on the hearts of parents all over the world, and understand parents more.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Probably the same is true for me, often by my dad.

    Scold. I'm very well-behaved and sensible at home. Generally, my dad has a bigger temper when he is under pressure, although he also has a big temper.

    I have a younger sister, my father Hongyun's mother doesn't talk about her often, but my grandmother doesn't like her even more. Adults, don't fight, the more you fight, the worse it gets, just listen to it. Just pay attention to it later.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When the old man talks, he likes to turn over the old accounts, and it can be said that he has been going through the whole day. Adults too, in fact, very small things can be magnified in their eyes. Mom's education is right, Mom said, be polite, but Mom is also wrong because she doesn't take your feelings into account.

    and that your actions were not intentional and not rude. It's really unpleasant to be scolded, and it would have been a good start to the day, but it must have been very unhappy to be scolded because of a breakfast.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I have a university room.

    Bai You is also such a family du, he doesn't go home every time he has a holiday, when he is gone, he does.

    DAO is a bystander or very clear, you still lack communication between your subordinates, your parents are still at that stage of ignorance of you, and it is also related to your parents' cultural level, so what! It is recommended that you do not negatively face the maturity and stability of the show in front of your parents, and talk less. I hope to adopt.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Sounds a bit excessive, if that's what you're talking about. I can't think of any good way to communicate with them for the time being. You can talk to someone, for example, think about it now, although it is only a temporary help, but it is better than a backlog of illness in your heart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It must be that you don't do housework at home, just eat at some point, everyone feels annoyed, and another is that your mother is very upset now, and there is something on her mind or the money at home is tight and there is nowhere to be angry, and she wants to use the topic to play when she sees that you have a little action.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There is no way, only I have the ability, so leave this family quickly.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Your family is really not doing right, you should be considerate of the child, but we must also do it respectfully, find a suitable way to communicate with your family, it will be better, I believe you can do better cheers (

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You can sit down with your grandparents, have a good talk, and ask them why they are biased against you or can you say that you are doing something wrong. It can be changed. Otherwise, you can ask the community to mediate. I hope to adopt.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Do something so that they see your politeness and strengths.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't think too much, I don't think it's okay to isolate me, maybe it's because of the personality, maybe their personality is like that.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think the elders seem to be like this, and you can't talk back about what he says, even if it's wrong

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Alas, it's okay to endure it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's all normal, everybody's going to be like that, every parent is too, and usually everything is back to normal after the Cold War.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You should make it clear to your family.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's normal and okay, because you may not be used to leaving your parents for the first time, I think you can take your time, actively campaign for work in the class, participate in school volunteers, and meet more people, of course, I don't think you can talk about love because you are lonely, you and your parents should also be in constant contact, what problems do you encounter try to solve on your own, my roommate is worse than yours, one of them is a lesbian, I still have a good relationship with her, so people must learn to tolerate, Don't exclude others, I hope you can change the habit that you can't get along with people with different personalities, because when you enter the workplace, your colleagues are not something you can choose, you have to learn to adapt.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    When I first entered the university, there are many activities that will allow everyone to get to know each other, the first is military training, and then there are group activities in the dormitory, classes and so on, and school activities, and the courage is enough to participate slowly from an early age, the clubs are very fun, and you can meet all kinds of friends. Girls are more complicated than boys, but generally a dormitory will find more than one girlfriend who can play with him, no matter whether he is looking for a boyfriend in college or not, your girlfriend must be treated well and sincerely.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Take the initiative to communicate with others,,, look for people everywhere without a boyfriend, and talk more if you don't get along with your roommate.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    How many people are there in your dormitory, can't they all get along?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It means that you have a good relationship with your parents, and you can do not do this with other people.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Flowers in the greenhouse... You should exercise yourself and get out and see a lot.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Pampered princess, it's going to be hard for you to survive like this, and you can't live without your family.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Get rid of the sense of dependency! Otherwise, there will be a lot of social scum that will deceive you when you leave school in the future! Disguise yourself.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I don't know what to say, it's not light.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    How old are the people, adults should have adult responsibilities and responsibilities. It's a waste of time and a waste of life, and it's really entangled in divorce.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It's really tangled.,Study hard.,If you get a scholarship, life shouldn't be too nervous.,The problem between parents is determined by personality.,I think it's more difficult to change.,Enlighten your mother often.。

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I just want to say that you can't take care of this, you don't have to worry about it, you just study hard.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    What you can do now is to learn and have a good future for yourself and your mother. Your mother is a poor person, so have time to comfort her.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    May your parents reconcile as soon as possible, and let those stinky juniors die......

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