I broke up with my girlfriend, but I still love her, and he said that she values a person s abilitie

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Obviously, in your relationship, your surface can no longer attract her, she said that she values a person's ability in all aspects, and this is not seen in you at least at this stage. In fact, women also value men the most, which is easy to say, but not easy to do. The possession of this ability means that only men can have the basis for social and family responsibilities, and of course, they must also have a sense of responsibility.

    Men should plan their lives well, make their careers prosperous, and give people a sense of security. Men always want to put their careers first, and if they take their children's love too seriously, they will lose their fighting spirit.

    Since she is not happy with you, she does not believe that you will become strong one day, and does not give you a chance, so you bless her! Cherish what you once had, give up what you should give up, and bless her if you love her, after all, she is the woman she has loved. Failure is the mother of success, so let's make a show for her.

    When one day you are really strong and she comes to you again, maybe you still don't agree, maybe you already have your own happiness. Believe in fate, sincerely hope that you will get out of the haze of emotions as soon as possible, I wish you smooth and happy, raise your head and look into the distance, you will find a beautiful scenery ahead!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Even if you keep her now, can you guarantee that she won't leave in the future? It's yours that can't run, it's not yours that you can't come. Only if you are strong can you keep the people around you, and there are men who are sometimes domineering, it's not bad at all, you know?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What else can I do if I work hard to improve myself?

    Men have to be strong enough to keep their other half.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It means that she has grown, and you should try to make yourself better.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's good to go around and around.

    Dizzy, bai.

    Maybe it's because she's more infatuated, give her some time

    continue to be nice to her

    Slowly influence her inside.

    She will realize your good looks. Gradually transfer the feelings to you, love you and be good to you.

    Since she loves her, what do you care about giving and returning? Don't be miserable, it should be a very happy thing to be good to the person you love.

    Also, the relationship process between boys and girls is usually different.

    Boys are: very much love - love - like - still a little feeling - cold - no feeling girls are the opposite process: no feeling - cold - a little feeling - like - love - very love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm in the same state as your girlfriend right now, she's just insecure, let him understand your sincerity, give her a 100% sense of security, not saying I love you, but it's another thing to do.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Break up bai, my former boyfriend du also told me the same thing, he zhi

    Won't love anymore, say break up dao

    At that time, he also said in front of me that his ex-girlfriend friend had a child and was gone (his ex-girlfriend married someone else), and later said in his chat history that he had ruined at least 8 girls, I couldn't accept this at the time, and now I think about it, I really want to slap him 2 times, I am his classmate, he knows that he is sick, and he still doesn't let me go, to be honest, I really don't like him at first. I'm the kind with a lot of self-esteem, so I'm not going to treat him as a friend in my life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    But you can believe it, it's just an excuse! Such a woman is not worthy of love!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Bear with her! The pig's head is here to smack you! Such a female self-person is more likely to be true and use bai

    Heart-touching! Du is just like I was touched by my boyfriend, but I also appreciate a lot of men, but now I also hope that my boyfriend can give me more security, let me know and understand more love! Hopefully you can figure it out

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You still try the big brother upstairs, but not a few times? Once or twice is fine, too many times, you don't know if it's true or not!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your girlfriend is also very similar to me, we are afraid of getting hurt, and a few people upstairs are right1Fear of injury.

    2.Revenge on society.

    3.You showed up too early.

    4.Nor will he care about others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe it's because of the two boyfriends she had before.

    didn't really treat her, she was taking revenge on society, and such harm could only be herself.

    You should know more about her and why she is like this.

    Then encourage her, at least her life will not be so directionless.

    Even if she doesn't love you, she needs someone else's attention.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, love is just a feeling

    So he falls in love with you because he has this feeling for you, and he instinctively treats you well and makes you happy, on the contrary, he doesn't love you because he no longer has this feeling for you, so he no longer has the heart to be good to you and make you happy.

    Love is giving and understanding, understanding and tolerance, it is he who is happy so I am happy, it is two people who are attached to each other to face every laugh and sorrow.

    From what you say, it shows that she doesn't love you, but just has a crush on you. You're just his jumper, and if there's anything better than you, she'll leave you right away.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This kind of woman is vain and very selfish, and you think carefully about what exactly you love her. Now there are too many women, there is no need to have the right to hang, when you are more mature, you will feel stupid, people live to enjoy a good life, but you are suffering, for an impossible hope, what she said is, she is not unable to show the heart of love for you, she is actually very small now, even look down on you, it is better to let go of her, live a life of your own first, and then consider whether it is worth it after a period of time. It's hard to say that you love this thing, don't imply in your heart that you love her.

    In my experience, even if you can be together, you are just a "wallet". The best way: give up, be cold to her, don't trust her, don't care about her feelings in everything you do, so that you will be more comfortable.

    Men have to think about their future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's better to split up. Not good.

    Du girl. Why hang yourself on a tree.

    Oh do people want to be happy when they live Oh version of the o

    So. If I have the right, you don't think it sounds good.

    Then it's up to you – no matter what, just don't let yourself regret it

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Keep going and you'll only get hurt more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think there's a girl like that.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    For love, to be honest, it's really rare now, people nowadays are materialistic and realistic, but there are still some girls who are not like that.

    Personally, I don't think two people are happy at all if they don't have love together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You hit her ** and said: "I promise you will never disappear in front of you for more than 7 days, and the three most important words in your life are not "I love you".

    Rather, it's "together." "Tell her a story:

    Full dialogue between fish and water.

    The fish says to the water: You can't see my tears, because I'm in the water, the water says to the fish: I can feel your tears, because you're in my heart, I'm not a fish, you're not water, can you see my lonely tears?

    The fish said to the water: I will never leave you, for without me I cannot live, and the water says to the fish: I know, but what if your heart is not there?

    I'm not a fish, you're not water, I can't leave you because I love you, but do you have me in your heart?

    The fish said to the water: I am lonely, because I can only stay in the water, the water says to the fish: I know, because I have your loneliness in my heart, I am not a fish, you are not water, I am lonely because I miss you, but can you feel it in the distance?

    The fish said to the water: If there are no fish, what is left in the water?

    The water said to the fish: If there is no you, then how can there be me?

    I'm not a fish, you're not water, and without your love, I'll still live well, but living well doesn't mean I can forget you.

    The fish said to the water: I can't go out to see the outside world for a lifetime, it's my biggest regret, the water says to the fish: I can't dispel your idea for a lifetime, it's my biggest failure, I'm not a fish, you're not water, now I just want a lifelong commitment, but, can you afford it?

    The fish says to the water: How many fish have I been in your life?

    The water says to the fish: You are not the first fish in the water, but the first in my heart, I am not a fish, you are not in the water, we are not the first in each other's lives, but, you know? You're the first person I want to cherish.

    The fish says to the water: Do you believe in love at first sight?

    The water said to the fish: The moment I realized that you were a fish, I knew that you would swim to my heart, I am not a fish, you are not water, I thought that my love for you would not last long, because it was love at first sight, but I was wrong, feelings are like wine, the more sealed the stronger and longer.

    The fish said to the water: Why do I ask you every time?

    The water says to the fish: because I like to let you know my heart in the Q&A, I am not a fish and you are not water, why do you always make me wait?

    Don't you know that waiting to lose confidence and give up?

    How nice it would be if I were a fish and you were water, always know what a fish thinks, because fish are in water, but I am not a fish and you are not water, and you never know my love.

    Finally, he said casually, "Shall I go to restaurant A or B for dinner at noon?" After two seconds, you then say, "Okay, go to Restaurant A."

    Remember to give points.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then let's break up and see first, now even if you say that the sky is falling, she may not believe it, let time change all this, if she still loves you, she will turn back, if not, you will die! If you take out your heart, she will only treat it as a pig's heart bought from the vegetable market!! Let's take a look!

    That's how women are!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    So many people like to take up the network with boring questions

    If you want someone to comfort you, go to your friend, and if you think you are capable, go on the two boats, what's the point of asking.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Prove that you can't be trusted. Therefore, you can't make a wrong step, and it's hard to save if you make a mistake. The only way now is to stalk your girlfriend (if your girlfriend loves you and will tolerate your stalking, otherwise, it will be dangerous).

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Have you ever heard of the Pigeon Biography? That's all I can do for you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Call ** or text or meet, begging her to give you one last chance, saying that you will prove your love for her with practical actions in the future. Also, don't say ambiguous things to other girls in the future, girls are very sensitive!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    That girl he doesn't trust you, he is more childish, and he doesn't give people a chance to explain, even if he reconciles now, there will still be a similar situation in the future, since you think it's right, and you have worked hard, I think the rest is to consider the question of whether you are really suitable!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can only meet her in person, ** and chat can't solve the problem, more contact, move her with practical actions, make her forgive you, believe in you, and it will be redeemed.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Girls should be hot and cold, be cold to her all of a sudden, ignore her for a few days, and be very good to her again, she will think you are very good, the most important thing is that you have to have your own career.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Read more, and you can memorize some of the classic words. When speaking, you can sort out an idea and highlight the key points. The most important thing is to say more, it's okay to say the wrong thing at first, but be sure to keep trying, so that you will get better and better.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Read more and enrich yourself.

    Arm your mind with culture.

    Also pay more attention to the details of what others say. Learn the merits.

    May you no longer bother with talking tomorrow.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Read more books, communicate with people, and most importantly, be confident!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    She is reminiscing about the past, but in fact, when she recalls the ignorance and simplicity of the past, it is beautiful. But memories are memories and memories are now. In fact, what she wants now is to pave the way for her future career, so that she has the financial conditions to pursue love.

    Or you should work hard and accompany her to grow up. Otherwise, you will find someone else to fall in love with. That's it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then you let her and give her a space, people will doubt everything at a certain time, and when they suddenly realize it, they will find that what they want is not far away.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you love her, you will find her back. It's simple.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Now at this time, it is the time when you are needed, you should give her confidence, show that you have the ability to protect her, and give her meticulous care and love, women are very sensitive and fragile, and they are easily moved, come on.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Love doesn't have to be together, love doesn't need to be vigorous, love doesn't have to promise forever.

    Love is in the bottom of my heart, in my feet, and in my smile

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Falling in love is like making a movie, not a TV series.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It is estimated that the two of you are not love, but friends, and if this continues, there will only be separation

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Confess directly and say I like you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Since it's a girlfriend, of course you have to do your best to take care of her, so isn't it very happy to see her happy because of her care? If you really love her, then I think you'll want to be happy.

    Your girlfriend, you really have to love it, you love and care for her, she will have a sense of security, I think, your girlfriend shouldn't be a person who doesn't know anything, maybe she shows her woman's demeanor in front of you.

    She may be thinking about having a boyfriend, so she should be loved by her boyfriend, so you have to love your girlfriend, I am a woman, I understand the mind of a girl.

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