Should we tolerate the lesser evils in our lives?

1. Everyone has their own guidelines and bottom line. You have to be offended, will you forgive it? If they keep forgiving and winning people, then they don't know how to repent, and they will make bigger mistakes and hurt more people.

2. Of course, it should also be different from person to person, and it should be based on facts. To be tolerant of others is to be kind to yourself; To give others a chance to mend their ways is to give yourself a broad space. If you occasionally commit a minor sin, forgive him!

Forgiving others is not difficult for us, but it is not easy either. The point is how the mind chooses, when a person chooses hatred, then he will spend the rest of his life in darkness; And if a person chooses to forgive, then he can shine the sun on the earth.

3. Do the same with yourself, but be strict, otherwise you will have no guidelines.

Tolerance is a must, and you also said that it is a small evil, so why not give people a chance to mend their ways. People make mistakes, and if you don't forgive others, who will be considerate of you when the time comes. Besides, take a step back and open the sky, a little thing, why bother to take it to heart, make everyone unhappy, as long as he doesn't commit it again, he should be as tolerant as possible.

Looking at it separately, if it is a personal character and no malice, then his character should be respected.

Malicious, do you want to bite back if the dog bites you?

When you say this, it means that you can't understand in your heart that such a thing exists, that you are a good person. But you don't understand, such a person and such things exist, if he knows his mistakes and can correct them, that's a good thing, if he doesn't think that he has done something wrong, you don't tolerate him, and it's not you who suffers. If it violates your interests, be sure to warn him.

If you hurt yourself by talking to him, he won't lose anything, but you'll be angry, so tolerance is tolerance for yourself.

Why forgive small evils?

Personally, I think it should be.

Little New Story A story about tolerance: I'm sorry I misunderstood you!

There is one person who is particularly selfish, he never thinks about others! So the one he loved didn't love him anymore! She felt tired with him!

He couldn't forget her, but she didn't want to return to him, and in the end he chose to leave this world, and he saw God, and he asked God, why didn't she love him anymore! God says because you are not forgiving enough! He understood, it turns out that to love her, you have to learn to tolerate her!

Personally, I feel that the three visits to the thatched house also have the meaning of tolerance.

During the Three Kingdoms period, the state of Shu appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the government after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is named Yang Xi, who has a withdrawn personality and is reluctant to speak. Jiang Wan talked to him, but he only answered.

Some people couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi, this person is so snub to you, it's too unreasonable!" Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said:

People have their own temperaments. Let Yang Xi say words of praise to my face, that is not his nature; Let him say in front of everyone that I am not, and he will think that I can't get off the stage. So, he had no choice but to remain silent.

In fact, this is the preciousness of his human being. Later, some people praised Jiang Wan for "the prime minister's belly can support the boat".

Guilty of pleading. Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing because of his meritorious work in "returning to Zhao", and he was above Lian Po. Lian Po was very unconvinced and threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru in person. After Lin Xiangru learned about it, he tried his best to avoid and tolerate it, so as not to conflict with Lian Po.

Lin Xiangru's disciples thought that he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said: "The Qin State did not dare to invade our Zhao State because of me and General Lian. I tolerate and give in to General Lian, I put the danger of the country in front and my personal enmity in the back!

When Lian Po heard this, there was a story of Lian Po's "guilty plea".

Renyi Hutong. During the Ming Dynasty, Dong Duxing, a native of Jiyang, Shandong, was an official in the capital. One day, he received a letter from home, saying that the family had a quarrel with a neighbor over the foundation of the house, and hoped that he could use his power to intervene to solve the matter. Dong Duxing immediately repaired the book after reading it, and said:

Thousands of miles of books just for the wall, I can't help but laugh and break my bowels; You are kind and righteous to marry your neighbors, so why not give up two feet. After reading it, the family felt that Dong Duxing was reasonable, so they took the initiative to give up a few feet when building the house. And when the neighbors saw the Dong family like this, they also felt something and followed suit.

As a result, the two families gave up a total of eight feet of space, and after the house was built, there was an alley, which was known as "Renyi Hutong". Liszt's Yi accepted students.

Guan Yunchang forgave Cao Cao in Huarong Dao, and many years later, Cao Cao and Sun Quan teamed up to attack Jingzhou and kill Guan Yunchang.