How can such a marriage go on? How to go on with marriage

First of all, looking at the attitudes of both of them, it seems that if they file for divorce, the man doesn't seem to care? The woman wants to maintain the family, and there is no mention of children in the article, indicating that the two parties may not have children because of the economy to reduce the burden. It is recommended to let the woman and her husband live separately for a period of time, and the newlywed distance will produce beauty.

If there is nowhere to go to the woman's house, she must point out her husband's shortcomings before leaving, so that he understands that he is not vexatious, and wants him to know why he is leaving.

If the husband regrets his mistakes, he can reconcile if he admits his mistakes to the woman, and it is best to have a child after reconciliation, and the marriage will be more stable.

If the husband does not admit his mistake to his wife and takes the opportunity to distance himself, then there is no need to save the marriage. Looking at your introduction, this husband just hurts people with his mouth, and he doesn't have the habit of beating women, so forgive him for his mistakes. But he must point out his mistakes and let him know his wife's grievances, don't you say that he won't understand, understand?

I just want to say to you, it's not a kind of person who doesn't enter the door, it's a law. You have a good idea but you may not be able to help her, if you are I can also suggest that you leave, if it is your friend, I think let her go, you can give her a reminder. The secret of a long-term couple is that both parties will respect and understand each other.

Be fair.

After reading what you wrote, I would like to ask: do they really love each other?

If you truly love each other, you will be tolerant, understanding, and put yourself in each other's shoes. Even if the other party is at fault, he will not make a big fuss, even if he is a selfish person, he will be tolerant and understand the other party psychologically.

So, I'm thinking: they don't really love each other.

If this is the case, I suggest that you calm down and think about it, then communicate calmly, find out where the problem is, and live together if you can solve it, if you can't solve it, then you should divorce as soon as possible. Because if this continues, maybe in the future, it will hurt each other even more, and more people will be hurt.

Agree with the opinion upstairs, such a man is Dese, hurry up and ignore him, the hotter you are, the more he feels that he can't live without him, women should be dignified, ignore him for a few days and see how he reacts. I think there is one, he didn't love your sister before he got married, and he didn't know why he got married; Second, he has a woman outside, and the woman outside can give him tenderness; This kind of man can't get used to it, look at what he means, it's a family when he gets married, and he treats your sister like this, daring to love husband and wife is an enemy, it's really not worth it for your sister.

Such a man is too selfish and stingy, I don't think he really loves your sister, it's really not worth a year of marriage with such a man, just separate, find someone who is really worthy of your love and love you too.

I'd suggest that the two of you sit down and have a good conversation, because it's about the rest of your life, and give each other a chance. Wouldn't it be better to take a step back from each other?

If you can't talk about it, then divorce it, don't want a man.

This kind of man is used to it, anyway, it won't get better if he blindly gets used to it, it's better to break the kettle and ignore him, if he really wants to leave you, it's useless to please him If he wants to keep it, he will naturally change.

The second floor is also very reasonable, give this man a hard one, if he can't leave, (call him), if he really doesn't cherish your sister, it's not necessarily a bad thing to leave, if you can know your mistake, you should cherish your sister.

In marriage, both parties need to tolerate each other, tolerate each other, and change each other in order to be happy for a long time.

First, is it tolerable or intolerable?

There is also a bottom line for forbearance in marriage, if it exceeds the bottom line, it is resolutely unbearable, and it is unforgivable to tolerate it once in exchange for a hundred times, and your forbearance will only make him more excessive.

Second, marriage needs to tolerate and tolerate each other.

In married life, the two people have different personalities and different living habits, and it is inevitable that they will have all kinds of unhappiness and many conflicts together, which every family will encounter. There is no right or wrong in this kind of contradiction, and everyone can solve it in their own way, and there is no need to fight for the high. The other party has a bad temper, put up with it yourself, and wait for the other party to calm down, and then reason.

A good marriage is that both parties tolerate each other together, run in with each other and become more and more stable.

Third, a happy marriage is a change in the personalities of both parties.

No one's marriage is smooth sailing, and marriage is to change oneself while operating. Change your self-righteous personality, accept and tolerate each other's shortcomings, and let yourself be open-minded. Many couples have lived for a long time, and their appearance has become more and more similar, which may be caused by their common joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

Mutual understanding and tolerance are the fundamental reasons for a long and lasting marriage.

It's confusing, thinking too much, it's really disturbing.

The husband and wife have a good talk together, if there is still a relationship, then get along well, if the relationship has broken down, then the sentence is separated.

Two people support each other and trust each other.

Dogs can't change their eating.

Resolutely divorced, with children, the old man is reluctant to have children, so let his son have sex with another woman.

Go on happily, don't worry too much, and be good for your beloved, which people will definitely feel.

Find out the root of the problem first, and then both parties take a step back, thinking that it will definitely not go on if the other party changes the marriage first.

Husbands and wives trust each other, understand each other, and take responsibility together, so that they can go further.

Pro, marriage is the beginning of two people, but the life of two families, so you can't be willful, you have to treat things not people, husband and wife should respect each other, trust each other, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be harmonious, try not to live together, which will reduce friction.

Two people understand each other a little more, are willing to give a step, don't always quarrel, and trust each other. Don't cheat.

Marriage is a difficult road, so you have to walk carefully. Running a marriage is a tricky technical job, hehe, if you don't manage it properly, you will part ways.

Hold on, make up and get by, it's not easy to meet, don't give up easily.

I see a lot of problems in this area today, and being able to be together is fate, mutual understanding, and mutual support!

Marriage is originally the grave of love, if there is really no emotion, there is no room for redemption, it is better to end the marriage, rather than being miserable all the time, it is better to release yourself as soon as possible. If neither of you wants to divorce, then try to communicate, try to change yourself to understand each other, put yourself in the other person's position and consider it in his way, maybe it will be rewarding.

Friends, marriage is run by both parties, life is live, not mixed, this is what I often tell my husband, as long as there is love, everything can be discussed, both parties should love, respect, understand each other, and trust each other!

One thing that all marriages have in common is that if there is love, you will find a way to solve the problems between you, if there is no love, then everything is in vain, because the heart is gone, and there is no heart to maintainLike you, leave, it's not who is away from who really can't live, women have to love themselves more, like now, I know that some of my husband outside may be I can't stand it, if it weren't for not seeing, I didn't catch it or I would have left early, women think more, because the child is because of the family, but he doesn't want to, he wants him to be comfortable, why bother.

？Two people respect and love each other and support each other.

To be considerate and tolerant of each other, we must learn to read others.

There is no specific description. Husband and wife trust each other and understand each other. But also self-discipline.

Why is marriage like this? A good marriage has to be managed.

If you want to repair your marriage, you can't let yourself doubt it infinitely.

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What kind of marriage is it, you can tell me clearly.

Say nothing probably.

Netizens can't help you.

Marriage is to see two people run together, to be considerate, tolerant, caring, and to discuss together when something happens, not to make decisions alone.

Can you describe the situation clearly, only when you explain it clearly, can you give you advice and provide the help you want.

I don't know the situation and you can't make up your mind, and you don't have to say anything specific. Reading between the lines, I feel that there is something wrong with your marriage, sometimes it is easy to say but difficult to do, especially in marriage, there are many problems and things involved, which requires you to use your wisdom to solve them one by one, if you can't solve it all at once, you might as well look at other people's stories, and you might as well put it away, and then make plans when you calm down.

Is it a conflict within the family, and there is no way to choose between separation and integration?

Or is it something else?

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Look at each other to have a two-part attitude, for example, some small shortcomings in him, I think if you can accept it, you can accept it, you can tolerate it or you have to tolerate, because each of us has our own shortcomings, but if this shortcoming is hurting the muscles and bones, and hurting the fundamental, then the separation will be separated, and there is nothing to regret.

Hello! Everyone takes a step back and opens up the sky, endures the calm for a while, tries to change themselves, lives a good life, and has a complete home for the children!

If you can change it, you can teach it, and if you can't, you can't do it.