What should I do if I can t tell if the other party is a human or a ghost?

The most important thing is to be yourself, and don't change into someone. Dealing with people is based on personal charm and ability, good expression and communication skills, rather than always trying to play tricks, which will only make you have a good relationship for a short time, but it is difficult to maintain, and in the end it is more empty. The true self is the most important, you don't have to deliberately change your own characteristics, and you naturally reveal your emotions that people are not perfect, and the true self is the best.

There is a saying"Honest people are often annoying".

Haha, to be quiet to kill the move, people are like this, as soon as you say something, you can feel what kind of person he is, from my battle-tested way of making friends, you don't talk first, as soon as you speak, he will know what kind of person you are from your tone.

Let's be honest. I can't tell the difference

Hehe. In the world, it's good to be cautious in your speech

Be observant. Talk less

After having a certain understanding.

Then speak according to the other person's preferences.

Hehe.

Then you don't speak. Scare him.

The meaning of that sentence is that after understanding the other person, then determine the relationship with the other person, and if you don't understand, think about understanding him first.

As you gain experience, you'll be able to tell.

Very admired 4 5 6 floors, if you are a ghost, you see everyone who speaks ghost talk, if you are a person, speak Chinese to go!

"Seeing people and talking about people, and talking about ghosts" means that people are very adaptable in the process of speaking and doing things. Able to see the wind and rudder.

I used to be an upright person who always treated everyone in one way, and I felt that this kind of person was hypocrisy. Later, I met a very good person who did a very successful business, and in a chat together, he explained this problem.

He said, I don't agree with the description of seeing people and talking about people.

Because people are inherently multifaceted, there are many kinds of identities. In front of my mother, I am the role of a son, and I want to be filial and caring; In front of my teacher, I am the role of a student, and I want to respect the teacher and be taught; In front of my business partners, I am a cooperative role, and I want to be responsible and rigorous; In front of my girlfriend, I am the role of a lover, and I want to be gentle and loving. So since we play different roles in life, how can we maintain the same way of speaking and attitude to face different people?

I did think about it for a long time when I heard it. There was no committal attitude at the time.

Over the years, as my personality and work performance matured, I found that it was exactly what he said. A mature adult should quickly adjust and recognize a most suitable way of communication for both parties when facing the relationship between people and me, rather than just letting the other party cooperate with you bluntly.

The colloquial saying mentioned in the title, seeing people talking about people, seeing ghosts talking nonsense, is actually slightly derogatory. As if to say that a person's heart is inconsistent with what he appears. That's one of the points I want to make:

As long as a person is united in knowledge and action, he always holds a conscience and bottom line in his heart, and his external communication, showing obedience or arrogance, will not affect his inner world. If he is willing to switch freely in multiple roles, he can naturally advance and retreat appropriately; If he doesn't want to, he can always maintain his style.

As long as our words and deeds are always consistent with our hearts, we may as well adjust to a state that makes everyone comfortable when facing different people. Otherwise, when you speak to a "ghost", the other party won't understand it.

Seeing people and talking about people, and talking about ghosts, it describes that people have a strong ability to do things in the process of speaking and doing things, and can see the wind and steer the rudder. Source: Qing Dynasty Li Baojia's "Officialdom Appearance".

Chapter 38: "The second is to be able to speak with your mouth, to talk to people when you see people, to talk nonsense when you see ghosts, to talk about officialdom when you see officialdom, and to say things in business when you see businessmen."

Describe a person who is very tactful, and what kind of person is treated like that.

Generally in the officialdom, as well as in the business field, people like this kind of sleek people are very open, because they must be practiced, such a face can adapt to this environment, this person's experimental ability is very strong, so he can do a lot of things, it does not mean that he is not kind, but because he adapts to this environment.

This sentence is slightly derogatory, but if you really become a person who talks about people and talks nonsense, then this kind of person is also very capable of doing things, because not many people can be so successful.

Yes, you see what people say, talk nonsense, but you can't talk about ghosts, you are so scared that you can't speak, what else to say.

Seeing what people say and what they say, what hell they say, this describes people. Step up your game. For example, being an official. What to say in officialdom? I'm in the square. Who said anything?

Yes, for example, to say something flattering when you see a leader.