Should I not get along with my old boyfriend?

Updated on culture 2024-05-29
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think it depends on why you broke up.

    The main thing is my own feeling that I have broken up, which means that no one is the most important person to the other party anymore, if you want to contact, you can contact if you don't want to contact, you don't want to contact, there is nothing to do.

    People live sometimes just think too much about whether they should or shouldn't be so tired and always unhappy Actually, I'm also saying that you, if I'm in charge, I may not be able to think so openly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, it's not appropriate to do anything, it's a very embarrassing situation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Or don't meet in good time and everything will be worked out.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The most familiar strangers.

    It's the best state of mind, there's really no need to connect with the past, there's no need to affect the current mood.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You don't have to deliberately don't contact you completely, just don't be too frequent.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There's no need, just let it be.

    What you want to forget is actually what you miss the most!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't have to, you won't be in contact.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think your experience is quite similar to mine, we do occasionally call ** to greet me, but it's also very embarrassing, I don't know what to say, and then I changed my mobile phone number, and I didn't contact it, as long as I feel relaxed, since it's impossible with him, I want to do it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have a title of two words that shouldn't be!

    I hate it anyway.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's no need for that anymore. After all, this experience is also your life's treasure.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Two people fall in love together, and if the relationship is not harmonious, they may choose to break up. And after a breakup, some people will choose to die and never get along, and some people will choose to continue to be friends. So after you break up with your boyfriend, can you do it without getting along?

    Why? For me, after I broke up with my boyfriend, I could never get along. Because if we break up, I don't want to see any more news about each other, because when I see it, I'm going to be sad.

    If you don't get along with each other for a period of time, you will really forget about each other.

    I've been in a relationship before, and while it was beautiful, it was short-lived. After breaking up for various reasons, I chose not to get along with my ex-boyfriend for a long time, although I was very sad and sad when I first broke up. At that time, my ex-boyfriend's mobile phone number had been deeply imprinted in my mind, and there were many times when I wanted to send him a message or call him a **, saying if I could not break up and get back together, but I couldn't help it.

    Because I felt that I couldn't go to him again after I broke up, because I couldn't pull that face, and I made it very clear when I broke up. Then after a while, it may not be so uncomfortable, and the mobile phone number that used to be imprinted in my mind is slowly blurred, and I can't even think about it.

    So if I break up with my boyfriend, I can do it and never get along. But if I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, it wasn't because of some matter of principle, although I could have been with him for a long time, provided I wouldn't take the initiative to go to him, but I think if my ex-boyfriend came back to me, if I was still in love with him at the time, then I think I would choose to get back together with my ex-boyfriend. But there will never be that possibility, because we do not get along with each other.

    As for whether to continue to be friends or never get along with each other after breaking up with your lover, everyone's choice may be different, but no matter how you choose, remember not to let yourself be hurt.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's okay not to get along with each other after breaking up with the other person. Now that you have decided to break up, it means that you have also thought it through. I feel that the two people are already together, and it is very possible that after breaking off the contact with each other, it is very possible.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If I break up with my boyfriend and have a very unpleasant relationship, then I will not continue to contact him and will never be in touch.

    If you have an unpleasant quarrel after a breakup, it's better not to get in touch.

    If you break up peacefully, then you can still be ordinary friends.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My ex and I really did it, maybe I didn't like it enough, we broke up because I didn't have a heart for him, and then he came to me, but every time I resolutely refused, until maybe he found out my determination and he also had his own life, and we really didn't interact again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, I can definitely do it without getting along, because I feel that since I can't be a lover, I can only be a stranger, which is the destination of love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, I can do it because we're already strangers.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I feel that after my boyfriend and I broke up, we must be able to stay back and forth for a long time, because if we broke up, we must have thought about it and thought it through.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want to become a stranger from a relationship with two people, it's hard to accept it all of a sudden, but ah, if you really do it, you won't really have a relationship in the future, because he will be afraid that he will go back to the past, and if two people get married and go back to the past, it will be even more painful.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After breaking up with your ex, you can do it without contact, because you don't have any feelings for each other, and there is no connection in life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After I broke up with my boyfriend, I was able to stay with him because I felt like I hated him so much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, because I still remember some good things before, and I don't think that the two people will be completely separated because of this, so they will still keep in touch.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is as much love as there is hate, so many people not only can't be friends after breaking up, but even become enemies.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Can you not get along with your boyfriend after breaking up? Of course you can, because they have blocked each other and deleted them, and they are no longer in contact.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I can do it, because I'm an iron-hearted woman, and I'll never see you again if I say goodbye.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's you. No problem. Sooner or later, however, the biggest problem is that if you say it, feelings like "tough", "fighting", "bad looking", "embarrassed", and "no one can **" will reappear in his mind and cause him to be wary and suspicious of you.

    He will judge you based on who you are and what you do. This is your biggest obstacle. If the impasse can be broken, there will be a basis for reconciliation.

    It can't be broken. No way.

    Because I loved him deeply, I still want to have it if I say more. He wants to end the relationship, perhaps to escape some emotion, or perhaps because he can't see the future. It's not really appropriate to be with you at the beginning because of the novelty and swim side by side, so it can't last long, and there is no nostalgia when you break up.

    These feelings will reappear in his mind every minute, causing him to be wary and suspicious of you. No matter how much you say to him and do more actions, he will still not say a word, or even react at all, so that you think that he is the one who is determined to break up.

    <>As long as you have loved each other, even if you let go of it after a breakup, you can't be friends Since the two parties have become lovers or friends, there must have been times when values coincide, and there will also be memories. Many girls feel that their boyfriends must spoil themselves, and they must hold themselves as a treasure, and they can't be beaten or scolded. Looking back, you will understand that it is much easier to die and not get along.

    Life is always lived by yourself, the truth is told to you by others, you thank him for a good life, and if you don't live well, something will hinder others. Fill up your heart, don't be negative. Don't go to decadence, but go to the gym, work out, sweat, evaporate the excess water on your body, don't listen to love songs and don't watch love stories in recent times.

    And the reason why many people have failed is also this, and before they found the real reason for the end of this relationship, they hurriedly went to him to get back together.

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  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't let yourself feel like you're in love with the relationship anymore, let it go, and don't have any extra contact with that person, including the brain-filled. And there's no need to cut off contact with fake death messages, because I think you can achieve the same effect by not doing this, and the biggest effect of this approach is to make you feel like you've made up your mind, and it doesn't have much effect.

    It boils down to a not-so-pleasant phrase that is, stop moving yourself and look forward.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Go and start dating new people, throw away all the gifts he has given, and stop contacting him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I still have feelings for you!

    At least I can talk to you when I'm sad!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    3 How to say it all, I don't think it's okay to die and not get along, but I really need to pay attention to just maintaining a relationship with friends, don't have too much interaction, if your boyfriend minds or asks you not to associate with him, I think it's okay. People are possessive, let alone a boy, he may say very generously that you can continue to be friends with the boy who chased you, but if you take the initiative at this time, he will be very happy.

    Or that sentence, feelings are equal, but also mutual, the same request you can also put forward to him, if two people do this, they will be together in the future will be less unnecessary trouble, but also eliminate a lot of potential hidden dangers, two people face it honestly, don't feel unwilling, he must see that you are good to him, and he will be doubly good to you in the future.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I also have a lot of male friends, and they're the ones who play very, really well. At first, my boyfriend was also very concerned, because I have a male girlfriend, we have been in the same class since the first grade, we have known each other for 13 years, we also hang out together, and my boyfriend is not happy. But every time I go out with him, I report to my boyfriend to reassure him that he won't do anything deviant, and then my boyfriend slowly reassures me, even if I have a him, he won't restrain my friends, which I am very grateful to him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Love requires both parties to work together to maintain it, and know how to tolerate and support each other. Do something, think more about the other party, and let the other party rest assured. It is fate for two people to be together, as long as you manage your love well, I believe that you will come to the palace of marriage.

    After having a boyfriend, many girls don't know how to get along with those who like themselves, I think this problem is serious and quite serious, if it is handled well, there is nothing, and if it is not handled well, it will make your love fall into a passive situation, so girls treat this kind of thing, you must use a smart mind to deal with it, otherwise, it is you who suffers.

    It's not that if you have a boyfriend, you don't get along with the person who liked you before, you have to understand your boyfriend, what do you think about this matter, if he is insecure, and he minds very much that you are with him, and you still chat with the person who likes you, then you can try not to chat, because you still chat with them, your boyfriend will feel that since you have him, and go to chat with others, he thinks that it is not important in your heart at all, and he is also very insecure, so you can try not to talk about it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Eh, it's not enough to get along with each other when you don't get along with each other, it depends on his attitude!

    Actually, I used to think that if you have a boyfriend, it's really not good to be friends with someone who likes you. Because I feel that after having a boyfriend, if I don't cut off contact with a boy who likes me, on the one hand, it will be bad for him, and on the other hand, my boyfriend will be unhappy. But later, I felt that sometimes I still have to divide the situation, and I can't unilaterally announce that I won't get along with him unilaterally, which is too unfair to people who like me!

    So, if he understands a girl who has a partner, puts away all his thoughts about her, and gets along with her like an ordinary friend, which is normal, then what are you doing with each other all the time! Oh, as long as you can, relying on people like you, you can be as ruthless as you want, people obviously didn't disturb your life, why did you do it! Really, think about it from another perspective, if the boy you like does this to you, it will hurt you for a lifetime.

    Alas, he really didn't do anything wrong, if you have to give him a crime, but it's just that you like your boyfriend, this crime won't lead to death! You should get along with each other as you go, okay? Besides, after people know that you have a boyfriend, they may slowly let go of you, and there will be no performance that will entangle you at all.

    So, if you don't get along with him anymore, it's really ridiculous, okay?!

    In short, I really think that if we can live together peacefully, there is no need to do too much! As for people, you must learn to leave a way back for yourself and a way out for others, don't cut off all your own ways at once, and block other people's roads! So, when you encounter this kind of thing, you still have to use your brain to think about how to deal with it, anyway, emotional intelligence is really a good thing, I hope we all have it!

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