My ex wife was still constantly concerned about what to do with my husband

Avoiding him from having an old affair with his ex-wife** is an important issue for your lord, and it is recommended to do it:

1.At this time, you should make an analysis according to your husband's personality and personality, test his thoughts, and think about how likely this kind of thing will happen.

2.Be considerate, understanding, caring, tolerant, and absolutely trusting to him, and don't get angry, so that he loves you more and can't fail you.

3.Don't show resentment towards his ex-wife, let Hao know that you are kind and tolerant to her (be principled), and analyze and understand her complex psychology as a divorced woman. Don't inspire her to be maliceful, otherwise you will have a lot of trouble.

4.Keep a happy mood, treat others reasonably, and dress appropriately (your husband is a face-loving person, so you can't let him lose face everywhere, be his ideal wife and lover).

I hope the above can help you, and I will have to worry about such problems in the future, so I understand your troubles very well, and wish you good luck and happiness!

After reading your narrative, I feel that there is a serious problem in the handling of the relationship between your husband and his ex-wife.

1 There is still a connection after divorce, and the risk is great.

After the divorce, the line should be completely drawn, and there can be no more contacts, and there are obviously contacts between the three and the twilight. Both your husband and his ex-wife are responsible.

2 Your husband actually brought her something. I don't know whose money is spent, in short, your husband should avoid this kind of thing.

3 Why are they still in the same unit after they are all divorced, and find a way to let his ex-wife leave. Otherwise, your husband's old love may be greater.

4 Ex-wives always text your husband. It's too unusual, and it shows that I don't take you seriously.

Your story is very similar to the experience of an acquaintance of mine, although her husband has been divorced more than once, but the responsibility for each divorce is not him, he is quite upright, I have known her and his husband for more than 10 years, I know them very well.

When her husband dealt with this matter, he was quite decisive and cut off all contact with his ex-wife. They have been married for more than 30 years and have been very happy.

The next time you meet his ex-wife, you don't have to get used to her problems. Treat her with the most contemptuous attitude. Absolutely, yes.

Always remember that you have a point!

It is suggested that you should talk to your husband about this issue seriously, let your husband and his ex-wife completely draw a line, and explain the words of your husband to his ex-wife in front of you.

and emphasized that the reason why you didn't talk to his ex-wife directly was to save face for your husband.

Everything goes with the flow, and everything is calm. You are a thoughtful woman, and you can tell from your words that you have handled it very well!

Let it be, men are the sand in their hands. I don't want my GF to distrust me in the future.

It's better to have two people who aren't in the same company as well.

In this case, I personally think that the best way is to communicate and communicate with your husband well, express some of your inner concerns to him, and hope that he can keep a certain distance from his ex-wife, after all, now that a new family has been formed, he should be responsible for the new family.

If it's for the sake of children, it's normal to educate them often, and if you don't have children, don't ask them to get in touch, and sooner or later something will happen.

Why does your husband's ex-wife keep contacting your husband? If there is no problem with children or child support between them, then directly ask your husband to block him, don't contact, if it is a problem of child support or child support, you can ask his ex-wife to contact you.

This shows that your husband and his ex-wife are still in a state of disconnection, and you need to talk openly and honestly with your boss, if he is still attached to his ex-wife, you will fulfill them, so as not to break up unhappily later. If he really loves you, he will no longer contact his ex-wife.

If your husband's ex-wife often contacts your husband, first of all, you have to see what is the reason for the contact, if it is for the children you don't care, if it is usually for no reason, then you should warn your husband.

This is a common problem of finding second-married couples, especially if the ex-wife has children around them, and there is no way to avoid them from contacting.

In fact, these questions should be considered when you decide to be with him, and it is normal to contact them occasionally, so there is no need to be overly entangled.

You just have to find someone to beat her once...

If it's for the child's sake, there's no way to contact him. If it is a relationship between the lotus root and the thread. Intolerable.

Have a good talk with your husband and let him take care of your feelings.

Interpersonal matters are normal interactions, as long as they do not take a step beyond the thunder pool.

You need to have a good talk with your husband, and if you really can't get along, don't hesitate to leave. After entering a marriage, the development and maintenance of the relationship between two people requires the joint efforts of two people, and the happiness of life also requires two people to work together. But once we encounter emotional and principled problems in our lives, we must not compromise, otherwise we will only fall deeper and deeper.

Everyone needs to play their part. Only then can life be able to start with happiness.

For you, the role of the new wife is something you should experience with your heart, what you should and shouldn't do in life, I don't think anyone knows better than yourself. For your husband, the role of the husband is also a role that he must play well, and there are some things that are not allowed by the character of this character.

If your husband has been in a marriage, it is actually normal for him to compare you to your ex after you enter the marriage. But this kind of comparison should be placed in his heart, not to be told to you, and it should not be shown in your life, otherwise it will seriously affect your emotional state, and even cause your marriage to break.

Talk to your husband well, and divorce if you can't get along, this may be the only way. Your husband is obsessed with his ex-wife, which means that there must be some problem between the two of you. You need to find an opportunity to have a good conversation with your husband face-to-face about this topic, and the two of you will make things clear.

Even if you give him another chance, you are proving that you are giving yourself a chance to save this happiness.

You need to be mentally prepared before you chat, and if the other person's words can convince you, then of course everyone will be happy. Your marriage can still go on, and happiness may come as a result.

But if the two of you can't agree on this matter, and he's even aggressive, always hoping that you can make concessions, then I think the marriage may have reached a critical turning point.

You can't accept that he is obsessed with his ex-wife, and he is unwilling to change, and for you to leave is the only option you can make. Even if you are willing to persevere, it will be difficult for life between you to go into happiness. Instead of getting deeper and deeper into the entanglement, it is better to get out as soon as possible and find the life you want again.

We all want our marriages to be happy, but we should also have the courage to face unhappy lives. When we are sure that life can no longer bring us happiness, it is the most responsible way to turn away bravely.

Now the choice and decision are in your hands, don't let yourself be reduced to the one who is chosen, otherwise you will be hurt even more.

If your husband is always obsessed with his ex-wife, you can try to communicate with him, if his attitude remains the same, you can choose to separate, women still have to learn to be kind to themselves, believe that they will always meet someone who loves you completely, and don't get too entangled in the last relationship.

You can discuss this issue with him, otherwise the contradictions will accumulate and deepen.

My husband always contacted his ex-wife, always saying that I felt so uncomfortable for the sake of their children, and we also have children, what should I do?

I think it's normal for my husband and ex-wife to keep in touch often if they have children, so let's find out how his children are doing! Even if he doesn't have any feelings for his ex-wife, the child is still his, so he often contacts to prove that this man is still responsible! As a father, he cares about his children, and there's nothing wrong with that.

In fact, it mainly depends on what they say when they contact them, if it is for the child every time, it is more normal, although you may feel uncomfortable, but if they have nothing to do with the child and your husband takes the initiative to chat with her, it means that in the process of contacting, he still can't forget his ex-wife.

If he is divorced and doesn't contact his ex-wife anymore and doesn't care about the children anymore, do you think that's a good thing? This can only show that this man is ruthless and ruthless.

Therefore, you should deal with this matter appropriately, and don't always take it to heart and get entangled in yourself.

My husband and ex-wife are in constant contact, what should I do?

Hello! Look at whether these aspects are concealed before marriage: if the man conceals his marriage history before marriage, it is deception, such a person does not believe what is love for himself, for fear of losing himself, if this is the case, it is better to divorce, otherwise he always feels that he will hide a lot of problems.

Whether the contact is concealed: whether you deliberately conceal yourself when you contact your ex-wife, if you don't hide it, it means that there is no problem between the two people, if you always find various reasons not to admit the contact when you contact, maybe you are afraid that you will be too careful, but more you still can't control yourself. Who initiates contact whom:

When contacting, it is also necessary to distinguish who often takes the initiative to contact whom, if it is the husband who takes the initiative to contact him, it is the obsession with his ex-wife, and he can't let go, if it is the ex-wife who takes the initiative to contact, tell him directly, his feelings, it is better to cut off. Whether you have children: If your husband and ex-wife have children, it is generally difficult to cut off contact, and it is normal to have proper contact.

Contact frequency: Say whether the frequent contact is real, or add fuel and vinegar to yourself, exaggerate the facts, if you contact occasionally, it is normal for the sake of the child, if you really talk for a long time, contact every once in a while, it means that you have chosen the wrong object. Don't overdo it, it's better to understand :

If you don't want to divorce, it's best to understand this kind of thing, but you have to understand whether your husband really loves you and has yourself in your heart, and if you love yourself very much, then don't worry about anything, give him time and space, and believe that he can handle it himself. Managing it too tightly can be counterproductive.