Living with ta before marriage, how to tell the father in law?

Has it been forever? Of course there is, why don't most people believe there is? Because they have not found the most suitable one for themselves in the journey of life, that is, the one destined in the dark.

Why can't I find it? In the vast sea of people, life is like dew. It's not easy to find the one that suits you best, maybe you won't find the one God destined until you're 40, but can you wait until you're 40?

I couldn't find it in my 20s, but I had to get married, and when I found it in my thirties and forties, I had to give up. This is the sorrow of life.

Love is gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, failure is with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad together. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him happy forever, to be her eternal safe haven, to protect her, even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together! Eternal love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, eternal love is your love.

Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other party, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. As long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

I advise you not to live together, a girl near me has been living with her boyfriend for 3 years, and the man doesn't cherish it after getting her, and he hasn't been dragging it out without getting a license, and now it's broken up. If you want to live together, you can live together after pulling the marriage certificate!

Very low !! You have to be careful!!

There are statistics on the Internet, and I can't find it for a while... It's low anyway!!

If you can basically get married, it's okay, some people can't help but sugar-coat the situation, and the consequences are serious.

I got you, and then I dumped it to see what kind of person your boyfriend is, it's best not to, basically if he is principled, responsible for people, and responsible.

The reason for the bad is that I am afraid of pregnancy, which is not good for girls.

But if two people decide to live together, living together helps to get to know each other in a comprehensive way.

In Shenzhen, couples almost always live together, in order to save rent and take care of each other. Whether the result is good or not depends on the person.

This is also the trend of social development and the development of people's thoughts.

But this matter still needs to be cautious.

Premarital cohabitation can avoid certain post-marital divorces.

I don't know the specific probability! But living together before marriage is a normal thing!

It's good for men, but it's bad for women.

It's mostly up to you.

Do you mind other people's eyes, or your own? If you want, nothing to blame.

If you love your girlfriend and the two of you are in a stable relationship, if you plan to get married in the future, it is okay to live together, but you should give your girlfriend a guarantee in advance, such as engagement, etc., so that the dust can not only make your girlfriend feel safe, but also make your girlfriend's parents and relatives easy to accept to send you to live together. If you don't plan to get married, cohabitation will bring harm to your girlfriend, so think carefully It turns out that your girlfriend won't let you get engaged in advance, then it's easy, you just need to communicate well with her parents, so that his parents feel that you are more reliable, responsible, and will be responsible for their daughter in the future.

You have such doubts that prove that you are a good man with a sense of responsibility. Come on.. Zhichun Naib is in this chewing tongue root and picking ears problem.,What era is this?,As long as you're sure to go on.,It's serious about each other.,You can live together.,What's there?。。

Besides, the rent outside is expensive and unsafe now, two people live together to save rent, and take care of each other, wouldn't it be the best of both worlds, this is the trend of the big acres. Don't dwell on it. But you have to really care, just with your girlfriend's consent, communicate with her parents, show your attitude, and let the second elder rest assured.

It's just that girls generally don't agree to this situation.,It's all cut first and then played haha。。。

Since your girlfriend is willing to tell her parents about you, it proves that she believes that you will give her happiness in the future. Then you can prove it with your actions. Don't be unconfident in yourself.

You can find a weekend or something, ask her parents out for a meal. Or talk to them so that they can see Jane Lead and see you at ease. Be confident.

This kind of thing will not happen only if the parents are satisfied. It's still up to you.

What are you still struggling with? If you really want to get married, you can get married first, and then they will have nothing to say.

This thing, two loves, the most important, living together, don't mind, don't think about your parents.

The two of you, the parents will mix, and your happiness is the happiness of your parents.

You're a good man for your girlfriend's sake.

But what age is it now, not to mention that it is in the field, who knows.

Then you respect her opinion. You also can't guarantee to marry her, so she's responsible for herself.

I think she's right, there are a lot of people living together unmarried now, but it's not a good sign, and there are a lot of problems caused by this. You have to respect her opinion. However, if you plan to get married, it is recommended that you must have a premarital medical examination before marriage, which is responsible for both parties, future generations, and society.

FYI!

This has nothing to do with the current situation, this kind of thing is not a matter of following the crowd, the key is that the two of you are willing, she disagrees, and it is recommended that you respect her choice. Because if you love her, you have to love her all, and if she doesn't agree, it at least shows that she takes the relationship between the two of you very seriously, and is not a random girl.

If it were me, I would definitely marry her as a wife. It was because of her insistence on not agreeing to live together before marriage.

She did the right thing! No matter what others do, just care about whether you are right or not.

Many. The term "premarital cohabitation" may not be unfamiliar to us. In the eyes of some regions or some young people, it is not so taboo, but it is very popular; There are even young people who start living together in college and then get married after many years; There are also some who are "tired" of living together and deepen their relationship.

From this point of view, in this era when premarital sex has become very common, cohabitation is not unavoidable. Then there must be many advantages, let's break them down one by one.

1.Living together before marriage to get to know the real person as early as possible.

You can let each other have more insight into each other before getting married, so as not to "settle accounts after marriage".

After all, when you are in love, everyone is trying their best to disguise themselves, and they are willing to spend money for each other or often offer hospitality, and living together before marriage can be said to simulate the situation after marriage, so that each other can have a general understanding of each other's living habits, so that they will not complain after marriage that each other does not brush their teeth at night and does not wash their feet before going to bed.

2.Living together before marriage makes it easier to do a clear division of labor.

There are many people who complain to me that after getting married, they often quarrel over housework.

After all, now it's not like before, women are in the hall, especially now, the improvement of women's status has made many men understand the "difficulty of housework", so that contradictions arise. As a result, many people will complain after marriage, and even divorce due to slight changes. Living together before marriage can make everyone behave better under the "threat" of some love, but once they get married, they may have become habits, and it's too late to change them.

3.Cohabitation before marriage increases the sense of responsibility of men.

In all marriages, the life of "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea" that you have to face, plus the more expenses of rent, plus the "filial piety" of both parents, is not a small amount, these words that appear in the era of cohabitation can put more pressure on men, knowing that love and marriage are not the same, you have to bear more realistic things, and you have to pay the responsibilities that men should have. There will be no embarrassing situation of a wife supporting her husband after marriage.

4.Living together before marriage makes a woman more virtuous.

Women, after living together, are also different from the era of love, they will not be as squeamish and ignorant as before, and they can bear it and slowly begin to tolerate each other, because after all, this family is a matter of two people, and two people must maintain it, so to accept him, you must accept all of the other party, including the in-laws and relatives of both parties. In this way, under the caution of not getting married, it is easier for a woman to feel the pressure of marriage in a very short time.

Living together before marriage can make those who are not able to tolerate and understand, who do not really love each other, finally choose to break up, just like in love. Maybe it's the last shift before marriage. It seems that there are many benefits to living together before marriage, and it is not without merit like the tradition.