What was your original intention for having a second child?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-25
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The original intention was mainly to hope that Dabao would not be so lonely, and the pressure in the future would not be too great. My eldest son was three years old when I was pregnant with my youngest son. Because my husband is an only child, I have an older sister above me.

    In terms of family, my parents' life is shared by my sister and me, so it is relatively easy. And my husband's side has to do his best, because he is the only child, so the burden is very heavy. Usually his parents have a hard time, so I have to ask my partner for leave, one of the parents to see the doctor, the other to see the children.

    It's a big time-lapse. That's why I want two children, so that when we're old, we won't have one child so worried.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not for Dabao, it's not for your in-laws, it's just for yourself. Dabao is a boy who wants to have a daughter. It doesn't matter if the second child is a boy or a girl, although I want a daughter in my heart, no one can say for sure, I will raise them well after birth, do my best, give them a good education, and cultivate their independence.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When my grandmother died, she always told me that she wanted me to have another child, and she said that a child was too expensive to raise, which was very touching at the time. With the growth of the firstborn son, the selfishness and arrogance of the only child are becoming more and more obvious, and I am really worried that he will not be able to become the responsible man he imagined when he grows up, so I think of having another child, so that the child knows how to share, know how to be grateful, and know how to give. When they grow up, they can love each other and accompany each other for a lifetime.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, I want a second child entirely because there is a very expected scene that is to wait until the children are older, we go out on a trip, and we can see the joy of the two children playing together. It's really that simple. I hope that my home will be more lively, so that the two children can grow up together in happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, my original intention was very simple, that is, I wanted a little girl to satisfy my love for my daughter. Since I was young, I have been looking forward to having a little daughter, who is led out to play every day, and I have nothing to do, which is very heartwarming. My first child is a son, very cute, I also like it very much, but my daughter still has a dream, so I boldly want the second child, fortunately, the second child is a younger sister, which also fulfilled my dream.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    For the matter of the second child, we have always taken a natural attitude. When my son was five years old, I finally got pregnant, but just a month after I had a miscarriage due to a bad embryo. The next year, she was pregnant again and was pregnant for five months, but she was hospitalized with sudden abdominal pain, and the baby could not be saved.

    Later, I have been in a state of depression, crying every day, blaming myself, being sad, until I got pregnant again, went to have a fetal preservation operation early, and now I am waiting for the baby to be born safely.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's for her husband, who has always wanted to have a little princess. The eldest is a boy, and he was very determined not to want it, but in the past two years, my husband has shown that he wants to have another one, so he has no choice but to give birth.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I just want two, I don't have any original intentions, I don't have any ideas, I always want two children. Jue has less one, three more, and two is just right.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The original intention was actually quite funny, because the relatives and friends around me wanted it, so I followed suit. And I feel that it is very good to have two children, very lively, and when I go home, the two little ones compete for favor and look very cute. Sometimes it's very warm to see them helping each other, and they are always looking forward to the future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Second marriage, it seems inappropriate to have no children, and his daughter is not obedient, even her own father dares to throw her face, let alone me, let alone expect to enjoy any family fun.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I am married far away, my brothers and sisters are not around, and I want a second child because I think that when the children are older, they can rely on each other, and they can have a person to discuss when they encounter things, and they don't want to see the children alone and helpless, it's as simple as that!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, I belong to the more casual encounter, I want it when I come, and I won't deliberately ask for it. So the second child naturally came, and I was very happy to welcome a new member of the family, and my eldest son liked it too, which is a blessing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't have any original intentions, I don't want it, my husband and mother-in-law both want a second child, accidentally got pregnant, and I didn't have the ruthlessness to have surgery, so I can only accept it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    How to say it, Dabao is five years old, and every day when he comes home from school, he either watches TV alone or plays with toys by himself, and everyone else has two or three children, thinking about giving her a companion!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find a companion for my eldest daughter, she says every day that no one plays with her!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I want to, but I'm worried about the same gender as the boss. When you come, it will be regarded as a gift from God, and you can't miss it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I just want two, but when I give birth to Dabao, gestational hypertension, is it okay to give birth to two treasures? There are concerns and hesitations, but in fact, I still want to have another child in my heart, regardless of whether ...... male or female

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I was married far away, and I felt that I had no relatives for one child, so I had three children

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