My boyfriend always pushes me about the house and what I m going to do about the future

Since you think he is capable, but there are only temporary setbacks, you should encourage him to work hard to find a stable job, and with a stable job, you can take out a loan to buy a house. His family is not good, and his job is unstable, except for stealing and robbing the house he came from. You have to let him know that there is someone who needs him to keep working hard, and let him know that your relationship must have a certain material foundation.

Forget it.

You are married to his house and money.

Find someone richer.

Don't force him, I was forced out, now 886

Since the lover, everything else is not very important, everything will be there, didn't you say that he has the ability, and it will be fine slowly.

Ask clearly, unless he doesn't want to have a future with you at all. Although these questions are tricky, they cannot be avoided. It doesn't matter if you don't have a house or money, but you have to have a plan to buy it.

Ignore what irresponsible men say.

If you really love him, then encourage him, let him be more motivated, I am in the same situation as you, there is no money at home is a kind of pressure, and then it is called buying a house will really make people breathless, I am like this now, my girlfriend will come back next year, but unfortunately there is no place to live, and it is really not a taste in my heart, so let him breathe, it will be fine!

Female

I also prefer freedom.

However, some things always go not as expected.

Love each other? Then try to accept it.

After all, try to get along later. If you really don't feel free, then tell him again, (at that time, you can say, I tried to get along with myself, but I just didn't get used to it.) Not free. Wait a minute. and so on. )

No one knows what the outcome will be until they get along.

Maybe we'll get along?

Slowly try to change a little, accept a little, love, isn't it just giving and returning?

。。It's embarrassing to get married and live with your parents.

I think so.

But it's good for someone to cook and do laundry. Female

I think the most important thing about this is communication. But it's better not to be aggrieved and force yourself. Otherwise, you will be very unhappy in the future.

I'm a man.

Let's communicate with him well, in fact, it is difficult for him to do it, on the one hand, you have to take care of your thoughts, and on the other hand, you have to take into account the feelings of your parents. Thinking about it a little further, if you had children and their children were going to leave you when they got married, what would you think?

If there is a relationship, the two want to be together and join hands to grow old, they can get married and rent a house first, and then buy a set in the place of residence when they have the strength in the future.

If you want to get married because of love, you can get married first, then everyone works hard together to make money, and then buys a house outside. But you must buy a house outside before marriage, and he doesn't have the ability to do so for the time being, so please think about how much you love him first? Any marriage with strings attached becomes a stumbling block to marriage and later life.

Contentment, mutual understanding, and harmony are the last word. All the quarrels, only later to find out, are idle egg pain.

It's okay to talk about something else, don't argue with him about the house, because he's also stressed.

You have to listen to a person's family to have the final say, quarreling means that you don't want him to have the final say, then it depends on the man's situation, if you are cowardly, you advocate power, if he is strong, you will suffer a little loss, and someone must pay for love.

Before falling in love, you should also know that he can't buy a house directly, it's a mistake to fall in love with him, just divide it up, find a handsome guy who can afford to buy a house.

Then buy a house after getting married, what are you arguing about, because of what are you arguing, you didn't explain it! I'm torn.

If you want to get married, don't quarrel, quarrel won't solve the problem, love him well, a gentle knife, don't compromise.

If you truly love each other, make your own efforts to achieve what you want!

What are you arguing about, because you are arguing, you haven't explained it.

Can the house be slow?

I don't know how your location is.

It's also not clear what the level of consumption is on your side.

My sworn friend's husband's house is his own house, he lives in one by himself, and rents out the other three or four sets, earning one or two thousand rents a month.

The average salary on our side is 1,000, so I think it's not bad to rent a house.

If you catch up with the developer who wants to build a house there, your boyfriend's family will be rich, four or five floors, how can you divide the house into four or five sets......

I don't know how the location of the house is, if it is close to the business district or very close to the city center, it should be no problem, and even if the house is demolished in the future, the real estate developer will divide the corresponding size of the building with you according to the size of your house.

That new village? It depends on whether there is a market around you, and there is a market that is considerable. It also depends on the condition of your house,**!

The purpose of this question? Ask him if he has a house at home, is it because he is afraid that you will not have a place to sleep after getting married? Ay..

Women nowadays are terrible! Since I don't love him, I will marry him. If you love him, I'm afraid that I won't have a house, so I can rent it.

Can't you marry a wife without a house!? I don't have a house yet. There are no houses in the world, and there are many men, can't they all get married?

Not really, in case he's for your house and not for your people.

No, knowing that he would give up the struggle.

I think it's better not to hide it, so that we can trust each other...

There are many people who have houses. Are you afraid that he will have low self-esteem?

Well, this shouldn't be a big deal.

This is not good, after all, it belongs to the parents, and it is better for the parents to take the initiative.

Besides, family harmony should be more important than a house.

I don't think it's good, how can a responsible man ask his wife to get something from her mother's family. Have you ever wondered if your boyfriend is interested in your money or your people? If it's you, it doesn't matter if you want a property or not.

Of course, it may also be that people and property are valued, but I think that if you pay attention to property together, then life may not be easy in the future, will he start to have opinions because you want to give something to your mother's family? Women must think clearly before getting married and don't regret divorce after getting married, divorce is not a good way out.

A man who lives on his wife's property can't believe it, and it's better to have a pair of wealth-creating hands than a mountain of gold at home, does he have it? Talk to him, if he insists on your family's property, you also want his family to pay the same amount of money, otherwise it is not a business to rush, and it is not for nothing that there is a good man who has a house and a car waiting for you to marry.

What kind of world, before you get married, you want to calculate your family's property, a man doesn't even have his own house to talk about marriage, I think your relationship is only based on money, if you marry him, there will definitely be a war with your family.

I don't think that's good, even though your boyfriend says it's your personal property to come over. But maybe your boyfriend secretly changed the name of the real estate certificate, so thanks to you, let your boyfriend earn it himself.

There's nothing wrong with that, as long as your family agrees to get the house in your name. When you get married, you will be separated from your parents and brother.

It's not very good, if your parents have to give you a set, your brother agrees and it's acceptable, but it's different if you want it yourself, so don't do it.

Your boyfriend has a problem with his thoughts, I think you better think about this person, if it were me, I would quarrel with him.

You can't want it, you can't be too selfish!

Why ask for a house from your family? Settle the matter of getting married by yourself. If it doesn't make sense, ignore him.

If it were me, I wouldn't do it, and your boyfriend wouldn't want to buy it himself in the future

I don't think it's good either.

Your boyfriend seems to be very good at calculating.

What is your boyfriend painting, he is young and doesn't make money, staring at the old man....

See why he's with you for your possessions.

are all leftover women, what else to pick! If someone wants it, get married quickly. Remember, it's marrying, not marrying.

You give up this man, you will regret it later! Because there is a mentality: if you are to give up love!

He will be richer than you in the future! And it's impossible to let you go! I won't have anything good to say when I see it!

Man: That's it! Fortunately, it is a man who should do! You ask another man to be a clerk for him!

Do you think which man would be willing? Especially rural! Now urban people want to marry into the countryside when they die!

Why? Rural hukou has money! It is impossible for you rich people to understand the mood of the peasants!

It's as if you can't understand your boyfriend's heart! You ask this question! In fact, I have already seen that you will probably choose money over love!

Because if you love it, you won't have a problem about it! Are you going to be with someone you've liked for so long or are you going to find a new one to hurt this? Or do you just want to have fun and not work when you get married?

Only rely on the man to make money and be a young grandmother? You say your love is solid! Allow me to laugh!

Solidly, you would ask? House work! If you want to be together!

Find a house first! If you really want to continue to live the life of a rich man! Please leave him now! It's true!

The economic foundation determines the superstructure, poor couples mourn everything, there are many contradictions after marriage, if you really love, then you have to stand the test of time, don't care about waiting for so many years or two, it is recommended that you still wait for your boyfriend's work to be on the right track to consider getting married, you don't want to get married after others say that your man is a soft rice and depends on you to support it.

Be rational and work.