A junior high school student with a mobile phone, cigarettes, and a tendency to fall in love with th

No, at this time the child may be an adolescent, we should explain the key relationship with him, and give him confidence for a while, at this time, no matter how many good words your parents say, it is useless, the important thing is to wake up on his own.

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We are an elementary school. Bring a mobile phone. Calf love. Extraordinary. It's just a smoker.

Someone has been caught in early love. The teacher goes to the parents.

Bring a mobile phone, it's a normal thing. If you get caught, you can't be caught in the academic office. I haven't been beaten either.

You're too fierce in school. The teacher also hit the students.

Absolutely not. Although teachers have the right to educate students, they do not have the right to beat students

Even if you really want to fight, it's not the teacher's turn to do it

Such realities for students should be helped by talking rather than being violent.

No, it is possible that the teacher will find the parents, the teacher has no right to beat you, you can tell him if you beat you, you have the right to punish me, you have no right to beat me.

No, this is a natural phenomenon of adolescence, as long as it is done in moderation, and when the age is reached, if the other party feels this way, the side can still be together, and it will be better at that time than now!

Of course not, teachers don't have that right.

In any case, the teacher should not hit the student, but should do more work to guide the student back to the right path.

No, maybe the teacher is too lazy to discipline such a student.

No, you should do psychoeducation and let your classmates correct it

Of course not, it's against the law.

I think schools are different from school to school, and teachers and teachers have different ways of educating children, and it is not impossible to be beaten by teachers, although it is not possible to say that it is not possible, but after all, it is impossible for every teacher not to hit students, so it is better to be a good student

I have to say that today's children are exposed to too many things and too early, resulting in the precocious maturity of Chinese teenagers now, if it is for the convenience of contact, it will be okay, he should think that his classmates have him did not lose face to show it, this is honest, he can't listen to it, with cigarettes I can only say that he is underbeaten, early love can only be blamed for living a good life now, more contact with things, sexual maturity is a little early, in fact, everyone understands that we are fashionable and do not listen to teaching, not to mention today's children, Their outlook on life and values are different, for such a baby, I can say that if I were his father, I would have shot directly on the road at the beginning.

You can't always have the power of a college student.

If no one hits you, that's called corporal punishment.

I haven't been beaten until now...

Teachers and parents are all for your own good, afraid of delaying learning. It's normal to like someone, so you have to study hard now and wait until it's not too late to go to college. Really listen to the teachers and parents, they won't hurt you.

Because now in the eyes of parents and teachers, only learning is the most important, at this time falling in love will only affect your learning, I am afraid that you are not serious and distracted in your studies, and you may also think that you are not mature enough and not mentally enough.

The main reason is that I am afraid of affecting my studies, and I don't know anything for fear of playing with my children or hurting my body. . . It's still small after all.

Fear of affecting learning. And you really don't understand anything in the third year of junior high school. I'm 22 years old. I regret it.

In fact, we all came from that age, and in the face of ignorant adolescent children, I also know your hardships.

First of all, what kind of existence is puppy love? Early love is just a child's yearning for the opposite sex in adolescence and inexplicable good feelings, during this time as teachers and parents, what we have to do is not to chase and intercept, but to better channel the child's heart, understand their thoughts, if it is not handled well, it may be solved this time, but it is not guaranteed that it will not happen next time, in fact, this kind of thing, as a teacher, you can better approach him as a friend, to enlighten him, remember not to bring out the teacher's shelf. If the matter is really tricky, then inform the parents, otherwise your notification of the parents may cause the child to resist you even more.

Ask weakly, give you the best solution, think about when you were in school, how did you think about early love, how did the teacher solve it, empathize, think about your own situation at that time, you will definitely be able to solve the problem.

Don't break it up alive, and don't mention it in front of many people First of all, you have to know what the attitude of the parents on both sides is, and it doesn't matter if you oppose it or not! Then call them and tell them that you have no right to interfere in love, but the teacher's duty is to teach and educate, and I hope they understand! Don't affect your studies because of this, and communicate with you in time if you have any questions!

Don't behave badly! If something goes wrong, you are responsible, and parents also want their children to be well! Think more about your family and pay attention to proportion!

Since you can't ban it, let's do it for the better, as long as your mind is healthy.

The inevitable product of social development!

The teacher should tell them that this is a sign of growth, but handle it correctly and not blindly scold. Persuade the breakup appropriately, and if it doesn't work, tell both parents and discuss the method. Academics are at the core.

Now that the phenomenon of early love is very serious, it is necessary to do more ideological work for students.

Early love is normal and inevitable, as long as it is not out of line.

I feel that with the changes of the times, it is normal for junior high school students to fall in love.

1 Delay in learning The high school entrance examination is imminent, and the fate is decided.

2 Distract yourself Thinking about how to engage in a partner every day will not be able to live a quiet life 3 Waste of money Especially for boys, small gifts for girls, please eat, go out to play, no money at all, and girls will not spend money in vain before boys, it is all fair, students do not earn money, it is meaningless to spend on it.

4 Be gullible.

5 Easy to hurt yourself Middle school students are still very naïve, and they can't take care of themselves well, let alone take care of others.6 Love when you die, it's easy to cause family and class conflicts.

7 will make the teacher look at it differently.

8 Romance involves not only two students, but also two families in which students are unable to deal with too many problems.

9 Lose the opportunity to be friends with more good boys, junior high school is a sensitive period, too much interaction between boys and girls will cause gossip, once a girl has a partner, other boys often associate with you just to fight with your boyfriend.

10 Parents and teachers are older and more conservative.

I'm tired, so I'm sure I'll give points.

Influence learning.

Distractions in class. Too early love.

Sometimes they do something excessive.

Puppy love is a characteristic of adolescence, can not force students how to be, first of all, close the relationship with students, and then communicate with them, so that students as much as possible to understand early love, as well as the harm caused by early love, Zhengzhou Boqiang Education School is specifically for such children to guide a school, you can go to the Internet to check their school's ** I believe it will help you!

Don't be too strict, too strict will lead to too much psychological pressure on students, and even more affect learning.

Actually, teacher, I think it's normal for us students to fall in love, I think, teacher, you can talk to your classmates about this topic boldly and directly in the class meeting, it may not be impossible, you can also show your attitude, say that it doesn't affect your learning, and don't do anything too much, you can accept it, in this way, I believe that this is more effective than if you fight them, suppress them, and force them to come, and the school I am in is because there are more people, and there are more classes, and each class teacher has a different way of dealing with it, and the effect is really different The teacher of one class in our school did not object to him and he just said:"You are together but if you can't get into a good high school together, you will eventually be separated, or if you have good grades and a bad inferiority complex, then there is no need to be together, I don't object to you, but you have to do what you should do well at this stage, and then fall in love, and I don't have any objection to the rest"The other teacher kept pushing them to break up, but as a result, the puppy love in their class didn't improve, and their grades kept dropping

I think it's a necessary experience in life, and it's an experience that will make us grow, and it's going to be a lot better when we go through it

Communicate with them heart to heart and tell them the harm of early love, let them think more about the future of the future, you are a teacher, you can't deal with it, I really don't know how you are a teacher, you must know that it is better to send them to a professional school to educate them They are also better than you, you discuss with their parents to let them go to the particularly famous Boqiang education school, you just quit and don't do it, go home and farm. The teachers at that school are much better than you.

Blocking is useless. There are so many places that they can learn from outside, and they are still doing everything, in fact, guidance is useless.

Teacher, it doesn't affect your learning, you'd better leave it alone. If it actually has an impact, ask their parents to take them to a psychiatrist.

I'm a student myself, and I'm talking about my feelings.

First of all, the teacher wants to take the psychology exam, and from my heart, it is up to you whether you can understand it or not.

Students want to fall in love out of curiosity, they will not feel that this is curiosity, regardless of men and women, it is normal for boys to like girls, girls too, falling in love is a consensus reached by both parties, this consensus may be positive (40%) may be negative (60%) negative impact, far-sighted will think a lot, will cultivate emotional processing ability and so on, only care about the immediate often does not last long, do not have to mix, as long as he does not talk about education, for those students who want to be far away, do not mix, What he can do is to help him, but few people can be stable and not chaotic, most of them are girls who forge ahead, and boys who are addicted to having pleasures.

As a teacher, education is good and essential, but you have to pay attention to the time, place, and method, which all affect the results.

Rough points: at the beginning, in love, at the end of love.

What should be done is to educate him, help him look forward to the future, be confident in the results of his efforts, and cultivate his ability to think independently and independently.

In love, he basically can't listen to anything, the more he doesn't want to talk about it, the more he wants to talk, what he can do is to support him not to miss his studies.

The end of love... This is the time when you can do the most things, and the heart of the earth is in a state of weakness and exhaustion at this time, and the sensible and intelligent teacher understands what I want to say, and every step even the teacher should think about how to go, in order to achieve twice the result with half the effort.

Whew, this is just a very superficial one-sided talk, students have different psychology to fall in love, as a teacher, look at their hearts, see their actions, and help them take the right path... Thank you...

In fact, it's not just parents and teachers who are in early love who will object, when are your words and deeds not corrected by parents and teachers? As long as they think you're not good enough, they're criticizing you at any time, it's just that early love will ruin your life, although this is the worst possibility, but it's really possible, there are ancients, there should be a lesson, but there is always a steady stream of comers, teachers are just worried, worried that there are bad students in their teaching careers, but there are still other students who put gold for him, but what about parents? With only one child, who would want to gamble their life with the love they have?

Of course it will be banned. After all, this is the most youthful attempt, so there are really not many people who can mature, and the love that will be there in life is not that there will be no more after this age, and the ripe fruit is just right (too late, parents will be anxious to die, do you believe it?) Pick it up and eat it, it will be fragrant and sweet.

It's not difficult, you can call them to their own homes, at this time they must be a kind of scared heart, but you have to give them a relaxed environment, talk to them, invite them to dinner at home, be friends with them, don't be too strict, and even tell them about your previous crush, what experience of early love, when you become close friends, you can say everything, students promise to listen, and you can let them fall in love, but declare, the classroom is the classroom, you can do whatever after class, slowly, they will find each other's shortcomings, or break up with them Either urge each other to improve Hehe, Teacher Evendi, this is how Drip There is no pair in the class now, hehe.

Calmly talk to him alone, and then tell him that this time it's over, and next time I'll tell his parents.

1: No matter.

2: Criticism (generally does not work, useless).

3: Fight fire with fire (put them together, it will be boring when they grow) 4: Call parents, it will be very shameless.

5: Tell them to call their parents, they will definitely ask to let them go, to give them a chance, in short, it is not possible, thinking determines everything! It would be true if they woke up.

Middle school students are very fragile in their hearts、This age is the most sensitive time for feelings、Can't be too strict.

But let them know the dangers of early love and how to control it.

It's best to deal with it lightly