I m not used to living with my girlfriend, what should I do? 20

This is the run-in, communicate slowly, life is not so easy, and you have to find a way to accept it if you can't change it.

In fact, your current life is the life after marriage, maybe you don't love her enough, if you love her, you will fully accept it, have you watched a TV series called "Naked Marriage into the Generation", in which the male protagonist can not even go on a business trip for her wife. The problem is not in cohabitation, but in relationships, but your girlfriend is not excessive, every woman likes to be accompanied by her husband.

Actually, he's doing it for your own good, at least that's what he thinks, we're about the same age, and we're in the same situation, can you talk to him about it, and ask her to give you more freedom, yes, congratulations, you've found a girl who loves you very much.

Men do this. I'd love to know if you still love her? Love is together, give each other a chance. If you don't love it, you should break up early. Give points.

Love is not a constraint. Love is freedom.

If you think she's bad, give it to me.

Talk to her. It can't go on like this.

Quack, know with reason, move with affection, and sorrow.

Nowadays, many young people choose to live together not long after they have been together, but in fact, it is not necessarily a good thing to live together early before the relationship is completely stable. If the girlfriend is not willing to live together, the boy should also respect her decision. Because she doesn't want to live together doesn't mean that she doesn't love you, it can only mean that she is a more rational and reserved girl, maybe she feels insecure with you and can't see your future clearly, in this case, what if you break up after living together too early?

When falling in love, some boys will want to be able to live with their girlfriends as early as possible, on the one hand, it is convenient for the two to fall in love, and on the other hand, living together can also allow the two to have more time together, which can infinitely close the relationship between the two and increase the intimacy value between the two.

Although everyone is now more free and open to falling in love, and there are no more rules and regulations than before, cohabitation before marriage is not a trivial matter, this kind of thing should be what you and I want, and both people have the will to live together. If cohabitation before marriage is just a man's idea, and the woman is more resistant or has some concerns, then the boy should not kidnap the girl with love and force the other party to live with you before marriage.

It's normal for a girlfriend to be reluctant to live with you before marriage, you can feel that she is conservative, or you can feel that she doesn't love you enough, and you can even break up with her because of this, this is your freedom, but the premise is that you have to respect her wishes, can't force her, and can't do anything to hurt her.

Girlfriend is reluctant to live together when she is in love, on the one hand, she may feel that your relationship is not yet to the point where they can live together, and on the other hand, it may be because she is insecure with you and feels that she cannot have a future with you, so she is unwilling to live with you before marriage.

The precondition for premarital cohabitation is preferably after the relationship between the two people has really stabilized. The so-called stability is that the two are mature enough to have a clear plan for the future of the two, and they are confident that they will go on together in the future, and it is not too late to decide whether to live together in this case. If a girl can't see the future with you, and you can't give her the security she wants, then what confidence do you have to ask her to live with you?

After living together, my girlfriend doesn't do housework, her living habits are not good, and she gets tired of seeing each other, what should I do? Many couples will choose to live together after the relationship is stable, but after living together, a lot of shortcomings will be exposed, and at this time, one party will feel inappropriate and don't know what to do, in fact, as long as the following points are done.

1.Find your right character, you're not mom. Do you think that meticulous care, cooking good dishes, doing laundry and doing household chores will improve his well-being? You are too young and naïve. If you do this at first, the guy will think you're a good girl.

If all this becomes a habit for you, unless you create a "surprise" for him every day, he will not appreciate your efforts and will even feel that the sound of your washing dishes annoys him. You are so beautiful and kind that you should learn that you cook occasionally, or deliberately erect and show off your green cooking skills, or you divide up and work together, one-three-five you, two-four-six, and go out for a good meal on the weekend. You don't have to do this and devote all your time to taking care of him, because it's easy to get and usually not cherished.

Sometimes you don't do anything for a year and just knit a scarf for a man, and then that makes him a baby.

2.You don't always tidy up the room. If you always clean the room, you will most likely find something "shady" that will embarrass you and him.

There's also the possibility that if you pick up something you think is useless and throw it away, it could cause him to lose his temper with you because you don't know that a useless old jersey, broken ball skin, mud, tree bark, etc., may be the only thing he thinks about an important experience in a cracked state. You are so beautiful and kind, you should learn that after a while, the room will naturally form "a place belongs to him, and a place belongs to you". If you like to be clean, you can pick up the part that belongs to you, and as for his part, it is almost the same on the surface.

Also, don't think he's sloppy. When he's looking for something, he knows it's in **, and after you clean it up, he can't find it, and then you don't remember.

3.Don't always stick to him, leave some room appropriately. Don't think it's hard for you to be together.

You can stay with him for 24 hours. After a long time, the people who love you can't breathe. Give him some space.

For example, if he wants to play a game, you can give him some time to play it every day. During this time, you can catch up on your favorite plays. The more you oppose his game, the more "rebellious" he becomes.

On the contrary, if you let him play, he will get tired for a long time. You are so beautiful and kind that you should learn to pay special attention. For example, when he is focused, a man ticket may take his job home "overtime".

You think he's tired. You give him oranges and hot milk. At this point, he can't get your attention.

On the contrary, he will find you annoying! Your best thing to do is not to disturb him. When the men's ticket runs out, ask him:

Are you tired? What should I give you next? "In fact, there is not a bowl of instant noodles.

That's it. He would be very grateful.

Personally, I think that if you encounter such a situation, then you should think more from the other person's point of view and learn to understand the other party.

Two people should have a good talk, point out each other's shortcomings, accept each other humbly, and correct them, and maybe there is a possibility to continue.

Then you can only break up, which means that it is not suitable for the two of you to be together, and you will not be able to live together after marriage.

The girlfriend who has lived together for two years suddenly left yesterday, and you are not used to it and can't stand it, so find a way to contact her as soon as possible and find her, if she deliberately avoids you and doesn't want to be nice to you, you can only face reality.

Only chase her back. Or ask why. After all, we've been together for so long. Isn't it. So.

You can connect with the other person and speak your inner thoughts.

It may seem sudden to you, but it has been thought about many times for her. So, you have to find the reason, and you have to find your own reason.

I can't stand it and I have to get used to it slowly, after all, he's gone. It is normal for young people to fall in love, and it is normal to divide and merge. If it's not suitable for two people to be together, they will definitely be separated, so they must think about it.

After living together for two years without getting married, she can't see any hope and will definitely leave. If you don't get used to it, you can keep getting married. If you can't do it, let her go.

There will always be times when people are separated, and if they are not used to it, they must also get used to having private property that is not their own.

Bai slept with you for two years, you earned so much, what else is there to be unwilling.