Control and prohibit secondary school students from using the Internet

Just let him play! If you fight, you will definitely rebel!

I'm in the same situation as that brother of yours.

I've been playing the Internet for three years, and although it's said to be playing, it's been another kind of learning!

My family has a lot of trust in me. At first, I didn't go to bed until four or five o'clock every day, which is amazing! Because my parents trust me and tell me not to play for too long every night, I don't want to feel sorry for them, and I try not to be mentally discouraged in front of them during the day.

Slowly learn to control yourself, and little by little you come out of the network. I was still obsessed with games at the time, though, but I finally learned something that many people can't learn in their lifetime self-control.

Time slowly passed, and my learning in the game was getting worse and worse, and finally I was a plaything in the eyes of ordinary people. But every time I face my parents, I never want to show my frustration, and when I play, I slowly feel uncomfortable, and I always feel sorry for their trust in me and sorry for myself.

After two years of going through contradictions, people are always getting better and better, and they are growing more and more. The understanding of the Internet has also changed from curiosity to obsession to rationality.

Although I am not doing well in my studies now, I have a lot of wealth in life that others don't have.

I am more convinced that I can change my destiny than the so-called good future.

Trust him more, care more about his body and don't get too tired, he will understand, don't just look at his performance now, don't lecture him, he will slowly learn a lot of things that are far more important than books!

You go undercover on the Internet and lead him slowly to the right path

You know what I mean?

Internet access should still be available! Just control the amount of time you spend online! and the number of times you surf the Internet! Moderate exposure to the Internet can increase your knowledge and insight! There's a lot of help for growing children!

Let's fight, if you don't fight now, you won't be able to fight it.

Secondary school students should be online, but only in moderation. When it comes to surfing the Internet, going online is not only about chatting, making friends, checking information, playing games, ......, you can also easily and quickly obtain information, you can broaden your horizons, keep abreast of current news, and obtain all kinds of the latest knowledge and information; You can chat with netizens without any scruples, pour out your thoughts, reduce the burden of schoolwork, and relieve pressure; You can post your own views and opinions on various issues in each BBS, and you feel a sense of accomplishment; You can also improve the level of one of your hobbies; Now it has become fashionable to make your own homepage, upload your favorite ** information, open a discussion forum, post some posts, communicate with everyone, and it feels really great to be a moderator yourself.

Although there are many disadvantages of going online, the benefits still outweigh the disadvantages.

In today's society, the Internet is developing rapidly, and Internet cafes are booming, and these Internet cafes attract a large number of middle school students, and their negative impact cannot be underestimated. The harm of indulging in Internet cafes is mainly manifested in the following aspects:

1.Affect or even abandon schooling. Middle school students mostly use the Internet to play games, chat and order songs.

Some spend a long time on the Internet, have few breaks, are listless in class, and have low learning efficiency; Some even arrive late, leave early, skip school, and don't return home at night in order to surf the Internet. These students wasted a lot of good time, which led to a plummeting academic performance. He wasted his studies and ruined his good future.

2.Affect healthy growth. If a person is addicted to the Internet, makes himself live in a virtual world, and reduces his desire to communicate with others, he is prone to suffer from computer autism, which directly leads to psychological disorders.

Some middle school students with simple hearts. If you don't adjust your mentality in time, it is easy to be deceived, some Internet cafes have a mixed number of people, and some social idle people specialize in defrauding and harming students.

3.Inducing a crime or committing a crime. Unhealthy content on the Internet can easily induce students to violate discipline, law and even commit crimes. In order to get money to enter the Internet café, some students often make ends meet, and some steal and rob in gangs, fights, and robs.

4.Affect the physical health of students. If you go online for a long time, the damage to your eyes is very serious.

Due to obsession, some have reached the point of madness of not eating or sleeping, their hearts are racing, and their energy is very expending. In addition, the air in Internet cafes is corroded, and the hygiene and conditions are extremely poor, which seriously affects the health of the body. According to reports from various places, there is no shortage of people who have died suddenly on the Internet.

5.Increase the financial burden on families. Internet access requires a certain fee, generally about two yuan per hour, students go online for a long time or go online too many times, it will require too much expenditure, it will increase the burden on the family, some students spend more than 100 yuan per month on the Internet, parents are miserable.

6. There are major safety hazards. Some Internet cafes have not hired professionals to install safety facilities, nor have they allowed the departments of fire protection, safety, culture, and health, and there are problems of varying degrees in the density of computer placement, computer wiring, and safety exits in their business premises, and most Internet cafes have only one door in and out, and there are no safe passages and guidance signs, and there are major hidden safety hazards.

1.The network connects the world, there are many wonders, and it is very attractive to you;

2.The Internet is a virtual world where you can chat with anyone without being constrained;

3.There are all kinds of games, which are very interesting to play, very addictive, and some to the point of being unstoppable, which is more common among middle school students;

4.Of course, the Internet can also give you meaningful knowledge.

I think there are probably these reasons, especially the third one, middle school students have poor ability, so they are addicted to the Internet, I don't know if you think my is reasonable?

Now going to school does cause a lot of pressure on some children, especially for junior high school and high school students with poor grades, the more parents ask for learning, the worse their academic performance, and even get bored of learning, and have resistance, how to resolutely this situation, there are two programs to try.

1.Parents should focus on guidance to understand the reasons why children are reluctant to learn and prescribe the right medicine to cultivate children's interest in learning.

2.If you really can't learn and your grades are not good, in fact, you don't necessarily have to go through academic education, vocational education is also the main way to cultivate talents, you can choose a training school, a school technology. Nowadays, the better techniques are the skills of chefs such as Chinese, Western, and Western pastries.

You can go to a professional chef cooking school to learn. There is definitely a future in the future. Hope my advice is helpful to you.

The special period of high school students, and the thinking of individuals who are already approaching maturity. It's hard to block the Internet by forceful means.

Adolescence is basically the more oppressive you are, the more you rebel. If you can't resist the sneak, you have to go out to surf the Internet. This is the most troublesome, so first of all, it is recommended that you must not use coercion and coercion.

Then there is communication, and you should pay attention to two points when communicating with your children. The first is identity, if you use the attitude of parents to be superior, you will use the identity of parents to teach you a lesson. Then it will definitely not communicate well with you.

Let go of your identity first and talk to yourself as a friend. Even if you talk about early love, surfing the Internet, or even fighting, don't get angry or be blunt. If you do this, your child will not be able to tell you the truth again, because they will feel that you are playing tricks on him.

It is recommended that you can chat like a friend, and it is best to talk about your high school days to get a sense of recognition. It is easier to enter the inner world of children.

The second step is to talk about the Internet, not you say, but you listen to your children. You have to ask him what he is playing with and what is in it. When your child finishes speaking, you just have to leave one question. You're going to eventually go back to the real world, and what you've learned by going online.

I myself am not against high school kids going online. Because I used to be an Internet addict, I learned and felt a lot of things. In the end, I chose the work that helped me.

Everything in the world is of the same origin, if you can't stop it, and you can't stop it. Go to guide, guide to learn from the Internet, learn knowledge, learn to find problems and solve problems.

Speaking of my own little guess, this parent should have very little communication with his child. Otherwise, you only said two words about the Internet when you asked this question. Is your child just opening a web page?

When you go to the hospital, you only tell the doctor that you are not feeling well, and you can't tell me what is uncomfortable?

At the same time, there is control, child. In addition to the big gap between high school students and adults in terms of social experience, their overall personality and thinking have basically been stereotyped. At this time, you still want to control, and your attitude towards the child makes him understand that you are treating him as a child (although I admit that it is a child).

Then it's hard to get a sense of identity.

The above two paragraphs are speculation, if they are not accurate, I hope you don't mind.