I m 16, my girlfriend is only 15, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-29
61 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You're only 16 years old, and it's time to study hard, and it's a little early to talk about a girlfriend now, and of course your parents don't allow it. You can now only be ordinary friends, close playmates. Wait a little bigger, and then think about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Go to school well, fall in love now, not for long, if she really loves, you love her too, then wait until college, love at that time, no one will interfere, if you can't wait that long, then separate early, don't delay your future, hehe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You are too conservative on the third floor In this era, no matter how old you are, you have the right to pursue love, but you are a man, can you make your girlfriend happy So you have to work hard now to make your woman happy in the future Landlord, let's work together!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Me too, I'm seventeen, girlfriend sixteen, I want to take her to meet her parents, she doesn't want to, in fact, the parents are good for us, they have the right starting point, but the practice can't let us accept, take your time, in fact, I'm not sure that my parents agree, you study hard, wait for the exam, the results are good, tell the parents, you are studying hard for her, there may be room for maneuver.........

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's okay, you can wait, wait until you grow up, or you can cook rice and make your girlfriend pregnant! That's it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, younger brothers and sisters, I think it, my parents don't agree, they care about you, you are so young, the most important thing now is to study, you know. Sister, I used to be inattentive to studying, and I regret it now. You still have to think more about your parents.

    Obedient, I wish you progress in your studies.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe you've become a boyfriend and girlfriend, and you don't have to get married right away. Do they agree or disagree with you for that matter?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Wait slowly, true love can withstand the test of time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    See what parents do... If you like it, you can keep it going.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Wow, you go to get a marriage certificate now and see if someone else stamps you

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're still a little kid, what kind of love are you talking about?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do you have that condition?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell your girlfriend's friend to go out with her parents. Once you bring it out, you'll be able to... Buy something to eat and treat the woman.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you want to go back to school, say go back to school. If she works, she says it's her friend's birthday. Good luck.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No way! My girlfriend is too...Hit **ah....Texting....

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    One exception is to find a time to go to her parents' house and tell them how much you love her, and then you talk about what you want to do in the future, how much money you have in the family, how much money you have in the family, and how much you have in your own house. Then take the passbook and give them 10w 8w before telling them to get engaged in 2 months,

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm dizzy... What's wrong with society now, falling in love at the age of 16. I advise you not to talk about it, it will make things worse. Now study is the most important thing, don't collude with her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello! I don't know if your girlfriend has all your savings, if not, it is recommended that you give your parents money, and then your parents will give it to you, this is the best ending.

    In addition, if your girlfriend already knows the amount of your deposit, your parents can also give you money first, and you can use the money from the small treasury or extra money to repay your parents slowly.

    As for the gift money, it is generally used to settle the cost of the wedding banquet first, and the balance can be used for other things, which is usually collected by the two of you, and does not need to be given to your parents.

    The key is to communicate well with your girlfriend and hope that she understands your parents' difficulties.

    Good luck!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your girlfriend is so selfish and only cares about her own life. It's not easy for your parents to raise you so big, and if they have money, they will definitely come out. There is no money to force them to ask for it, and it is too unfilial.

    If they don't have money, get sick or something, it's not like you're going to have to pay for it. Don't you care if they're sick? Doesn't it matter if it's hard to see them?

    If it were your girlfriend's parents, would she still be like that? To marry you is to treat your parents as if they were your own.

    Talk to her. Parents are old, don't still think about making more money from the elderly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're really annoyed by this, but slowly convince your wife, I think your plan is okay, why doesn't she agree, your parents don't have money and can't do it, support your plan! Your wife is embarrassing you by doing this, she should think about her husband! ·

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your girlfriend is "good" to you and thinks about the rest of your life! But for your parents. It's hard to say, it's all to the point of getting married, isn't it a family?

    I want to ask you how your girlfriend usually treats your parents, and it should be better to talk about this question! It really can help you solve the problem even more!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then you ask her parents to pay too, see if she is willing or not, I can't figure it out, how can there be someone like her. You can tell her parents about your plan and how such unfilial children are educated.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Why should your parents pay for it? Her parents don't need to pay, right?

    Your girlfriend is not sensible!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Er, your future wife is really excessive!

    Marriage is a beautiful thing, how can your future wife make it seem like marriage is a money-making thing?

    Won't your parents' money still be yours?

    If you really love him so much, I suggest that you save a small treasury in the future, although I despise men to save a small treasury, but it is too sweaty to have such a wife.

    I think you should talk to his parents about this, he is unreasonable, and his parents are not reasonable? You can't be ignorant as a family, right? If this is the case, to be honest, you will not be happy in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I want to know what you ended up doing, because I'm in the same situation as you, man, and begging for answers.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's good or not, it's up to you, if she says the same thing about your parents, whether it's true or not, you will be unhappy in your heart, but will you say it, obviously, your girlfriend shows that she is a person who loves her parents, you should feel lucky, because she is a straightforward girl, in the future someone will say something wrong with you, she will also defend you, and will also explain to you, say good things, and two people are together, her parents should also be your parents, even if there is something wrong, it is not a big thing, Children should be tolerant, filial, you are now together, no longer a simple two things, but two family things, in the future try to use a tactful way to show her parents' approach, you don't have to directly say that this is not good, but tell her that if your parents are like that, it will be better, so that you handle the relationship so well, your father-in-law and your mother-in-law will also be more considerate of you, think you are sensible, if you have any disagreement with your girlfriend in the future, his parents will also explain for you reasonably, stand on your side.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think you have to be clear about everything and be honest with each other, just like you do. But sometimes you have to think about it from the other person's point of view, maybe if it were you, you would also defend your parents. There are three things to say, clever is better, you can say it in another way to achieve better results.

    You can say that it might be better if parents did it. Communicate well, after all, marriage is a matter for two families.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This can't be said to be right or wrong.,Everyone's own judgment method is different.。。 Of course, everyone's closest thing is their parents, so you say it in front of your girlfriend, even if she knows that her parents are doing something wrong. It's also instinctively disgusted.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You can think about how you would react if she told her that your parents were bad. Of course, it's not a big mistake for you to do this, it mainly depends on how you express it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Be methodical. Don't be too rational, even if the woman knows that it's wrong, you're not happy to give face like this

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    is to let your family force you to leave his daughter, and there will generally be nothing else.

    If you're not pregnant, don't make a noise, it's not good for anyone.

    Graduated from junior high school at the age of 16?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    His dad wants your parents and you to take responsibility, which is as it should be, if you love your girlfriend, why can't you have the courage to take it? You are responsible for what you do.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hehe, don't be busy with the showdown now, now that you know your relationship, then you have to behave well.

    I'm on good terms with their families, I'm talking. Sexual relations you can't say, your girlfriend says. Know no.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You're overthinking about it! The girl's father wants the ** number and address of your home, he wants to know you more clearly, as well as your family and your background, indicating that they are very cautious and rational in dealing with the two of you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Although true love knows no boundaries. But if you have sex, the feelings are not pure and do not deserve sympathy. My junior high school classmates were in a similar situation.

    For her sake, you have little hope of actually being together. Sincerely take responsibility for her. I believe that feelings are not selfish, think more about her now, and be her hero in the afterglow of love.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's okay, you have to be calm and agree with your girlfriend, her parents can't help you, it's not appropriate to be public, but you don't want to let her down.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Make tea at home and wait for him to come. When he came, I blessed him and found a son-in-law like you. Be confident in yourself!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you and your girlfriend have a firm will, and the two of you have decided to share hardships, just be brave together, by the way, it depends on your girlfriend's attitude, what she thinks, and do a good job of contraception, lest your girlfriend be pregnant at such a young age and hope for happiness.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You can put yourself in their shoes! If you're her parents! What will you do! There are several possibilities.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you do something, don't be afraid, face it with your chest up, and be responsible for it if you like her.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Stabilize your emotions first, see what the other person wants, try to satisfy them, treat them calmly, and if you still want to continue your relationship, then wait for her to admit it.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Paper can't contain the fire, let's have a showdown! If you dare to do it, you must dare to be it, and be brave enough to be responsible for her, so that you are a real man.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Take your share of responsibility first.

    Now that you've had a relationship, treat your girlfriend well.

    Her dad may just care about his daughter and want to test whether you are a reliable man, first of all, your attitude should be sincere.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    People are still so young, parents must want their daughters to focus on their studies.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you don't know you're in a relationship, it may be to find out about your family. Or tell your parents to do ideological work. Either that's to break you apart. If you know, the best thing is to hold you accountable.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    1.Don't be afraid.

    2.As long as it's not forced, no one cares about you, of course, her parents can advise you to admit your mistakes, accept her parents' arrangement, and work hard to create a world.

    Don't affect your girlfriend's studies, you still have a long way to go.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's a good memory.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Ay! Poor thing! I fell into relationship problems at a young age! Lamentable! + Pathetic!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you want to have results, only if both of you work hard to go to college, if you really have a fate, otherwise you will be completely out of play if you enter the society too early.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Maybe it depends on your emotional endurance, and some of my friends have been getting better. In fact, this is also a test of your feelings. Bless you all.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Do you think there will be a result in the junior high school entrance examination at the age of 5?

    However, my junior high school classmates really had the last one in junior high school until they got married.

    But so many of my classmates are just such a special case.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    I don't think so, my friend went from junior high school to high school and died in college...

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If you can make it to high school then you'll be together and be happy!

    Brother, you have to hold on.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Does she really love you, you will feel it yourself. And there may be a reason why she doesn't take you to meet her parents, maybe she's waiting for the right time, maybe her parents are hidden senior cadres or an unusual family, maybe she's raising the insignificant parts of your life to mature change, etc., when she feels that it suits her parents' mind... Don't think so much, it's best and most practical to try to cherish her first...

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    It may be that she has an inferiority complex, afraid that you will dislike her one day and not marry her. And maybe her family is more traditional and conservative. Seeing your parents means that you are about to get married, but you don't have a job yet, she may want to wait until she gets married to take you to meet your parents.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Maybe she's waiting for an opportunity, and for women, youth is the capital, and they won't condemn themselves to death so early.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Maybe it's a concern, I think it's okay. Because I have been dating my boyfriend for two and a half years, I am an undergraduate, he works, my family conditions are average, his family is very poor, I have never dared to tell my parents, for fear that my parents will object.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    It's really possible to be really scared of your parents, I told my parents two days ago that I was in a relationship, but I was opposed, so maybe I was really worried, you can open up and talk to her.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    If you can get the marriage first, then you will be relieved that if she doesn't take you.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    That's definitely where you don't fit.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Affection is to be pursued, and it is rare that you will give up your girlfriend because of her brother-in-law's opposition? If not, then what else do you have to think about! Come on, you can pursue a happy life on your own, and you can only cherish it if you have experienced it.

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