I want to change, but how? Everybody help

Think about why you don't like to talk, and then start to change yourself for the reason.

There are many reasons why you don't like to talk: you are not interested, you don't want to talk; No topic, I don't know what to say; I don't have confidence, I'm afraid I can't say it well; I like to be quiet, and the conversation is annoying;

I don't know what makes you not like to talk, but I briefly mention a few points for your reference:

1. Improve knowledge, experience and observation, which is helpful to find appropriate conversation topics;

2. Practice speaking more, you can speak by yourself, record it and listen to it, correct what you think is bad, and master the appropriate speaking rhythm and intonation;

3. Communicate with people, approachable expressions can shorten the distance, body language is also quite important, you can correct the inappropriate places by observing the mirror or video, generally speaking, it is good to be natural and spontaneous, do not be pretentious;

4. Talk to relatives or friends who can talk, exchange information, and exercise the fluency of speech.

5. Before you speak, you might as well take a few seconds to think about it in your head, and don't talk nonsense.

6. When talking, learn more about other people's thoughts, and don't only care about what you say.

Observe how others do it, you can learn and refer to it, but you don't have to imitate it.

Starting tomorrow, smile at every stranger and don't feel stupid.

If you smile at others, they will laugh at you.

This is the first step in human communication. Slowly change your introverted personality and become more extroverted.

Finally, it is both internal and external.

To change yourself, you must first have a deeper understanding of yourself. That is, you first have to understand what you want to change about yourself, why you want to change, and in which direction you want to change.

Second, do a lot of reading. It is recommended that you read some books on philosophy, psychology, and history. These books will give you an idea of who you want to be and how you can change yourself.

Third, persistence is important. Changing yourself is a painful and long process, and when you really make up your mind to change yourself, you must persevere.

Wishing you the ability to become a better version of yourself.

My understanding is that one is to read books, read the books you like, and also form a system, such as literature, such as history. The other is to associate with people who are better than yourself, the so-called close to Zhu is red, and close to ink is black, the excellence of these people will affect you and make you follow them to be excellent.

Read more and have a relatively quiet mind. Don't get too hung up on everything. Just cherish it and do things in a down-to-earth manner.

The most important thing is to have a good attitude, and be able to work hard and do your best in business work, which will be more fulfilling. You can also make yourself stronger. But don't dwell on the results

If you want to change, you need to start with the small things around you, pay attention to how you talk and behave. At the same time, you should read more and make more friends. This will allow you to make a difference.

First of all, we must study seriously, people must learn to be diligent and thrifty, participate in labor more, actively participate in public welfare work, learn to speak, communicate, and ,... humorously

Find the people closest to you, point out your shortcomings or areas that need to be changed, and then gradually correct them according to your own situation, and constantly improve your ability and quality.

To change yourself, you must first set a goal and adjust yourself according to the goal, only in this way can you achieve a purposeful change.

Learning makes the future, and knowledge changes destiny. Science and technology are the primary productive forces. Live and learn.

Then you can do a few from which aspect you are unqualified, and there is nothing special about this.

There is a saying that the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change!! It's hard to move not to be able to move!!

You are a cheerful person! Hot lungs! Low blood pressure! Taller! Haven't been sleeping well lately!

Recently, I have been talking and doing things more casually!! People are smart and talented!! Fickle! There is not enough control over major events!

Quite a few friends! It really won't help you much!

Your foundation is good!! Give yourself a plan!!

Send you a word!!

Communicate more than your family!!

This idea is very right, in life we always fantasize about changing each other, but the result is that the contradiction continues to intensify, so that the closest relatives and love are incompatible, love and hate are always helpless, hurt the mind and hurt the body, only by changing their attitude, can we change the height of life.

I once read a little story, the origin of "leather shoes", said that a long time ago, when people walked barefoot, a king went to the countryside to travel, the road was uneven, his feet hurt and numb, after returning to the palace, he issued an order, all the roads in the country are paved with cowhides, so that people do not sore feet, so not only for themselves, but also for the benefit of the people, even if they kill the country's cattle can not make up enough cowhides, but it costs money and effort to do it at all, but he is still so stupid.

Because it was the king's order, the people complained, and at last a wise man made a suggestion to the king, "O king! Why are you so excited? Spend so much money to pave the way? Can't you wrap your feet in two pieces of cowhide? ”

The king was astonished and immediately understood, so he withdrew his order and took this suggestion, which is said to be the origin of the leather shoes.

This thing tells us that it is difficult to change the world, it is easier to change yourself, no one is immutable, so we have to accept the changes of the people around us, everyone has their own life, whether they are happy or not, grasp it by themselves, and only by constantly improving themselves can we accept everything around us.

If you want to learn to be smart, you must first make yourself do well, don't complain about daily trivial things, and don't always emphasize the bad of others one-sidedly, no matter what others say, just want to do it yourself! Don't put too much thought on people who are not worth relying on, the connections are driven by interests, everything is good if you have use value, you will be abandoned if you have no use value, happiness and beauty others can't give you, you are all fought for yourself.

We need to learn to adapt to other people's perspectives, so that we can change our perspective. No matter who you are, you can put it in, no matter what you can put it in, that is a kind of power, like heaven and earth, carrying everything. People are really not long in this life, do not envy, do not envy, do not depend, can not change others, then try to change themselves, I believe that many people have similar feelings to me, more or less, because in this complicated world, you and I are ordinary people, so many desires and expectations for the world, so that we can't let go, we can't throw away, and we also trapped our hearts, so we can't change others, so try to change ourselves.

I don't think that's right. We don't have to change ourselves for others, we can change this society through our own efforts, and then change others.

Nowadays, there are many, many elderly people who want to change their children and let their children obey his arrangement. However, it often backfires. The more you manage, the more you don't have good results.

It's better to learn to change yourself. Use your charm to influence others.

Now the positive energy in the society is also like this, positive energy starts from everyone, affects the people around you, and affects the society around you. Make the society full of positive energy.

Right. Because we can't change other people's minds. It's about changing your mind to adapt to the public. In this way, you can make yourself stronger.