What do you think about being alone?

I enjoy the feeling very much, and even if I have a girlfriend in the future, I still want to have such a space to be alone.

I feel very tired of socializing and free to be on my own. So there is only a maximum of one time a week when I can eat and chat with friends. I'm still tired after every party, and I like to be by myself.

The only disadvantage of liking to be alone I think is that it is easy to get yourself into negative emotions, I am a girl, and in the face of a series of life blows, I cry silently all night, sometimes for days in a row. You are your only support, and you can't guarantee that you will come out in time. But on the other hand, it's growth.

Enjoy more solitude when you're young. Although two people will be happy together, it is easy to play together, watch movies, skate, play video games, etc., after all, it is more humane to play. There aren't many people who can really do practical things together.

Only when you are alone will it be easy to put aside the collective factors and think seriously about some problems from your heart. In order to have a good day, socializing is necessary; In order to make the day worthwhile and grow, it is more suitable to be alone. When you start a family, the chances of being alone will be greatly reduced.

Do the right thing at the right time.

When you are alone, you don't have to think about anyone, you don't have to take care of other people's emotions, and you don't have to worry about whether your words and actions will be inappropriate. Living in groups and being alone makes me who I am, and if I had to choose one or the other, I would choose to be alone. The soul is lonely, life is one suffering and then another, we can't escape, only to face it, so people say that life is a practice.

Sometimes, I don't need someone to listen to me, and I even feel that this practice is my own battle, and I like to control the battle strategy, fighting style, skills, etc., because I believe in my own perseverance and courage.

There is nothing bad about it, people live for a lifetime, why don't they live the way they like. Just because I like to be alone doesn't mean I can't socialize, on the contrary, my popularity is quite good, and everyone thinks I'm good-tempered. I have a keen emotional perception of others, happy and sad, dark and selfish, among which the positive ones are obviously less, and more of them are receiving negative energy, while the negative energy I produce myself does not like to confide and is mostly digested alone.

Being alone is a way of life, and there is no good or bad. Keep your eyes on yourself and don't say anything in the world of accidents. Life is all about fun, if you like to be alone, you can be alone.

The only thing I'm worried about now is that I'm celibate, and my parents may find it hard to accept.

There was a time of about a year, on average, no more than three times a month, and no more than three times a day. It's probably like that's how to live. During this time, I watched some movies, read some books, took some notes, and impulsively did things that only I knew about.

For example, spending a week to build a bookshelf for yourself, such as cycling a thousand kilometers to Shanghai to watch a film festival, being alone is not lonely, being lonely is not social, being alone does not mean that you are not social, you will have friends, but you will be tired of going back and forth.

When you're alone, you're always in a good mood. I started to lose my fear of eating alone, walking, or even going to the doctor alone. There are a lot of friends, and there are only a few friends.

But that's enough, isn't it? I try to be independent. I didn't tell anyone, in fact, I have a very poor memory, face blindness, road idiot, always can't remember people, lost in the streets and alleys, shuttling alone in the hospital to see stubborn diseases, uncomfortable and want to faint.

I like to be alone, I like to read a book, go for a walk or be in a daze alone, and when I am alone, I can rest my mind without having to think about catering to others, not having to deal with complicated interpersonal relationships.

It is simply like to be quiet and not like noisy places, so that your heart will be calm, and you will think about some problems quietly.

Nothing to think about. I like to be alone doesn't mean I'm lonely, it's just that I like to be alone and think quietly.

I love to think about each other, and I think about some bad things, such as whether my boyfriend deliberately ignores me, and whether the person talking outside is ill-intentioned.

It's just that I'm lazy, too lazy to manage some relationships, and I prefer a high-quality solitude to some low-quality socialization.

01.Healthy work and rest.

Be sure to have a good routine, even on your days off. You can't feel that you have time just because it's a rest day, so you stay up crazy and make up for sleep, and just like that, the rest day passes.

A good schedule is to ensure our health and energy, so we must have a healthy routine.

02.Set a plan.

I once set myself a schedule for a day, and as the day passed, I felt like I was stuck in the schedule, even though every plan was completed.

So, make long-term plans and short-term plans for yourself to rationalize the time you spend alone.

The long-term plan can be five years, ten years, and the short-term plan can be a week, a month.

03.Reading.

It is not limited to reading a specific book, it can be any type of book.

Reading books can enrich one's inner world. In other words, if you don't have time to see the outside world, then reading a book allows you to go further afield.

04.Cultivate a hobby.

Cultivating your own hobbies can enrich one's time alone. This can not only cultivate our sentiments, but also become a topic of conversation between friends.

Being alone is sometimes voluntary, sometimes helpless. But no matter what, once we come into this world, we have to learn to be alone. This is something that must be experienced to grow up, and only in this way can we become better adults.

In the end, I believe that one day everyone can become a great adult.

Personally, I like to be alone, and I'm getting more and more like being alone, I feel more like being alone and making me feel more comfortable, and I like that feeling.

When you were alone, you didn't have to care about what other people thought and thought. You can do whatever you want, do things completely according to your own heart, and you don't need to care about the outside world's impression of you.

When I'm alone, I can do what I like without having to negotiate with others, and I don't need to spend unnecessary time coordinating others' time.