Why do people want face so much, why is face so important?

If you lack the lining, you have to save face, and when you are extremely hypocritical, you like face very much, and you have a lot of personal knowledge, and if you are exposed, you have to save face, and if you make a mistake, but you don't want to bear it, you have to be satisfied with face.

QQ Maniac first wishes you to find the answer as soon as possible, and here are some of the things I have collected specifically for you, I hope it will help you: Love, different from others. Since you are in love and in love, then it is a matter of two people.

If you are sincere in your efforts, then you can rest assured that you will definitely be hurt, but that is not called harm. In the emotional world of two people, there is no absolute perfection, and we must learn to be considerate and tolerant in love. After all, you love and choose to be together, and you will no longer be lonely and alone in the future.

However, this is limited to two people who love each other and are the only one. Because, when you love him, you don't just love you, he shares his love with a few people like you, then, what you will end up with, is not harm, hurt always occurs inadvertently, and you will finally find that it is a scar that can be erased for a long, long time. It is imprinted in your heart.

In the world of feelings, there is no complete winner, and the only thing we can do is to make decisions that we will never regret no matter when we think about it in our lives.

Because face is the embodiment of a person's self-esteem and dignity, face is a person's self-image, and face is a representation of moral and utilitarian ethical tastes.

Face is the self-worth and corresponding experience that emerge in an individual's heart when he or she shows his or her self-worth through behavior or social resources, seeks the confirmation of others and receives unexpected recognition.

The conflict between the identity appeal of self-worth and the response, i.e., the evaluation conflict, is the direct cause of face, and the basic way to win face is to show "matching behavior" or allow others to use their social resources in communication.

When boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife go to a party together, do some men appear to have inflated self-esteem and tend to show tendencies, words and deeds that dominate or override their women in front of everyone?

This kind of self-esteem shown in front of the public is the so-called face. So why do men have such a good face?

Or, what kind of psychological mechanism is this?

This is because men, in such occasions, often have a competitive mentality, and want to reflect their self-esteem as a man, a sense of superiority, and make themselves feel very "man" in front of everyone.

Correspondingly, there will also be some women, if their self-esteem is too low, they will verbally belittle their men to improve their image and status in front of others and save their "face".

What should I do in this case?

Both parties need to understand each other and understand the psychological reasons behind this behavior (as described above). Understand that the other person is only doing this because they want to protect their own self-esteem, and not because they are acting against one party.

When the foundation of mutual understanding is established between the two people, that is, a tacit understanding is formed, then you can protect each other's dignity together, achieve a win-win situation, and nourish each other without causing the relationship to be lost.