Honest, angry, indecisive, innate

Oh, it's okay, how to say it, in fact, people often meet what kind of different personalities will have different personalities to face, if you meet a positive person, very decisive and sunny, you will have the same character as him, this is what the ancestors said "close to Zhu Zhechi". You can try to be with the kind of person you want to be, and you'll change. Hehe, don't be easily defined, you have to believe in the power of customization. Come on.

Don't be afraid of mistakes when you are decisive in the future, only after you make mistakes can you learn to make decisions, and some mistakes in life are part of success.

Introverts are not born, I am also an introvert, it is because of the change of the environment, I hope you can get better, and send you a ** "Legend of the Grim Reaper" with a good starting point, and it is also suitable for our kind of people.

Your life experience is similar to mine. My personality is similar to yours now, but I'm trying to change. For example, take time to exercise, and often chat with friends. Find a role model who complements your personality and it will change a lot.

You can't drag the mud and water! Can't let yourself be wronged! Spend more time with people who are more bullish. Believe in yourself! This depends on the mentality!

I'm too, I guess I was born like you said, I don't have an opinion about doing things.

Not only men, but also women should be decisive when they should be decisive.

Interrupted, anti-angry yes.

Regarding the problem of character, the help of others is very limited, the best way is self-adjustment, the cultivation of mentality, indecision is not a very serious problem, it is better to be in small things, slowly exercise more decisively, and it is recommended to read some decisive and simple hero type articles, and cultivate your own character with psychological suggestion. I wish you success.

It is very difficult to change people's personality like this, you can only try to do it, and think more about the result when you are dealing with something; What will be the result of dealing with this matter in your indecisive way, and what will be the result of dealing with it decisively, so that you can choose a way to deal with it with a better result, and you will naturally learn to deal with things decisively, because many times indecisive handling of things will result in a bad thing or a tiring oneself.

Go find a very tough buddy and tell him, and then let him have a good fight with you. Play some extreme sports, like bungee jumping, tell your friends, and if you're hesitant, push you down!

This is a kind of character, which has to be slowly corrected with the long-term help of others, and if you are not in a hurry, you want to open everything and be decisive!

Fitness, push-ups, squats, exercises until exhausted.

A few pieces of advice for you.

1. Be resolute in doing things, be able to afford to put it down, don't think too much about gains and losses, 2. You are not confident enough, take more responsibility for doing some major things in a strange place or industry, and do it boldly, in this process you can quickly improve yourself.

3. Take the initiative to do more things and do it seriously.

4. Communicate with others more, learn from others' strengths, and summarize often.

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Basically useless. Stupid asses like you have them in the great west of China.

Sometimes you are timid, not eloquent, indecisive, I think you are not confident enough, afraid of your actions, or your advice is not affirmed by others, nervous or not very afraid to express yourself (I used to be a little bit). Doing more things that you're good at may be able to boost your self-confidence. If you don't get along well with a lot of colleagues, maybe the problem is you, and you have to find out where the problem is.

Everyone has their own value in society, and if you don't do well in some aspects, it doesn't mean that you don't have a little bit of it, it doesn't mean that you are useless.

If you're stressed, and you're always having your own or useless thoughts, maybe you should really see a psychiatrist, which should help.

Many things just shouldn't be thought about too much, be cheerful, smile more in life, and be optimistic and cheerful.

Colleagues should focus more on understanding and courtesy. Use more electrocentricity, emotions need to be cultivated.

Everyone has their own merits, but you haven't noticed it yet, it's just that you haven't seen your shining point yet.

Well,,, it's okay to see a psychiatrist, maybe he can give you better advice or advice. Huh

Naughty children when they are young will grow up to be very assertive, while children who listen to their parents when they are young will be indecisive.

This is something that can't be changed by nature, but as you get older, you will become sophisticated, and it will be fine when the time comes.

The more you take it to heart, the worse you can't do it.

People like you should not have to take into account the eyes of others, let go and do what you want to do, and it will be fine.

Indecision is often a manifestation of selfishness. I don't want to be a bad guy and I can't be a good guy; I don't want to be responsible and I want to take advantage. Both ends want to occupy both ends and can't afford to offend, so they have to choose only the safest solution for themselves.

There are three ways we can change our indecisive character:

First, continue to learn and build self-confidence.

Look at your own shortcomings with a growth mindset, evaluate your abilities with an open mind, and set your own growth goals. Believe that human abilities can be cultivated. Although innate talents, personalities, and resources are different, they can all be changed through hard work.

Through continuous learning, expand your abilities and build self-confidence. Treat failure as a problem that needs to be faced and solved, and learn and benefit from failure. Be brave in the face of setbacks and failures, keep learning, and make yourself stronger.

Second, strive for excellence, not perfection.

Think, it's all a problem; Doing is the answer. Napoleon Hill said, "Don't wait until everything is ready, there is never something absolutely perfect." If you have to wait until all the conditions are in place to do it, you will have to wait forever."

Some people think that only "perfection" is valuable. Fearing that the status quo will have a negative impact, we are holding back. This "perfectionism" often hinders its progress.

Focus on the results and put your heart and soul into it. Believing that you have the ability, the ability, and the wisdom to achieve results, turns this idea into an inherent habitual thinking. Focus on achieving goals, not perfection.

Third, live mindfully and accept the present moment.

Mindfulness is purposeful and conscious, paying attention to and being aware of everything in the present moment, and without making any judgment, any analysis, or any reaction to everything in the present moment, but simply being aware of it and paying attention to it.

Mindfulness has become a way of life and a mental state**. Breathing exercises are the simplest formal mindfulness exercises. First, choose a comfortable sitting position, keep your body upright, and imagine a rope attached to the top of your head.

Then, slowly rock your head back and forth, left and right, find a natural and comfortable balance, and sit still. Finally, close your eyes and be aware of your breathing. Maintain natural breathing; If you notice that your attention is off, this is completely normal and you just need to redirect your attention to your breathing.

Accept yourself completely, keep exploring and understanding yourself, and the more time passes, the more you will understand your true self. Sometimes your thoughts, feelings, and insights are not true, and we often receive some misinformation, or are influenced by prejudices and hesitate. When we become aware of who we really are, our hearts change as we discover them, and we become more proactive in facing life.

In fact, people who are indecisive themselves will feel very troubled, because this will have some adverse effects on their work, so many people hope to find a way to overcome indecision, so the following mental health experts will introduce it to you in detail.

1.Self-reliance: People who are easily indecisive often lack strong independence, and they always like to rely on others when they encounter problems, and let others help them make up their minds.

So when you encounter something that you need to make up your own mind, you are in a dilemma and don't know what to do. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate good self-confidence, self-reliance, self-improvement, and self-willpower, and cultivate one's own independence.

2.Decide on a trade-off: don't want this and that, think this is good and that is not bad. Be bold and make trade-offs. While maintaining your own principles, don't pursue perfection too much, but have the courage to face it and decide on trade-offs.

4.Active thinking: "Everything is foreseen, and if it is not prepared, it will be wasted". Learn to think on your own, don't think that relying on others will make great improvements and progress.

When you encounter a thing that is difficult for you to choose, don't make a decision blindly and impulsively, don't wait for others to teach you how to do it, think and analyze calmly, and then make your own decisions.

5.Calm down: Eliminate external interference and cues, stabilize emotions, and carefully analyze from one side to the other, from the surface to the inside, which also helps to cultivate a decisive will.

When you find that your personality is indecisive and has seriously affected your normal work and judgment of things, then you can use the methods introduced above to help you effectively adjust and overcome the impact of indecision on yourself.

It's not a mistake to be indecisive, it shows that you want to be more cautious before you do things! But it is also possible to miss the best decision! I suggest you do more group sports, such as basketball!

In fact, it will be fine when you are older!

Hehe, friend, indecision is not good.

But it just proves that you have a lot of feelings.

It can also be said that you are a relatively emotional person.

The bad side is because of the i

Time is often wasted because of this.

At the end of the day, nothing was found.

Do you feel that way.

Often in the face of choices.

You'll emerge for the first year.

As a result, there are more and more choices in the end.

Here's what I suggest.

Remember your first thoughts.

It's sure to be him.

It's going to be fine. Have fun.

Everyone has a different personality. You are also lacking in faith, build faith! Optimistic life! Don't think too much, it'll be complicated.

The opposite of indecisive is to make a decision on the spot.

This is human nature, and it has a lot to do with your personality, and it may be the environment that has caused you. It's mainly up to you, and it's best to learn more knowledge to enrich yourself, so that you can make better rational choices when you are in difficulty. Hope it helps!

Learn to be decisive. There is no reason for this, it has to do with the environment you are in.

When you ask this question, do you mean that you are not decisive enough?

In fact, no matter what kind of person you meet, you can always find a way to get along with him and want to go, this is the balance point. If you can find it, two people with completely different personalities can get along.

As for whether it is suitable or not, it is because you have already envisioned what you want, and he may not meet your standard.

If you don't like it, say no tactfully and firmly.

Allusion Chunshenjun Huang Xie, one of the "Four Gentlemen" of the Warring States Period, assisted King Chu Qingxiang and King Kaolie, and became famous all over the world. King Kaoli had no children, and Li Yuan, a Zhao man, wanted to sacrifice his sister to King Kaoli but couldn't, so he dedicated himself to Chunshenjun. Not many people know about this.

Soon, Li Yuanmei became pregnant, and Li Yuan's brothers and sisters and Chun Shenjun hid from the sky and the sea, dedicated Li Yuanmei to King Kaolie, gave birth to a son, and became the crown prince. Li Yuan was afraid that the matter would be exposed, and plotted to cause Chun Shenjun to die. Chunshenjun's staff Zhu Ying reminded Chunshenjun to beware of Li Yuan many times, but Chunshenjun disagreed.

King Kaoli died, and Li Yuanguo assassinated Chun Shenjun. Sima Qian commented on Chun Shenjun and said: When the interruption continues, it will be chaotic.

Instead, it's chaotic. From "Historical Records: Qi Mourning Hui Wang Shikong".

Source: "Historical Records: Qi Mourning Hui Wang Shikong": "When the judgment continues, it will be chaotic." ”