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Yes, most women are unreasonable, especially when arguing with their own men.

In fact, they themselves know that they ignore it, but she thinks that you are a man, and I usually treat you as my God, so you can't let me.

If you can tolerate it once in a while, say a few soft words first, be obedient, don't make any noise first, or listen to her vent, listen to what she wants, why will she get angry.

In fact, women can't understand that it is so difficult for you men to say a few good words, and it is so difficult to coax us.

I love you, I naturally care about you, and I hope you care about her too.

Personally, I feel that quarrels are all trivial matters, as long as it's not a matter of choice, it's not really angry, it's the woman who is coquettish to the man, or it's simply irritable, I hope to get comfort from you.

I hope you don't worry too much about the little woman, and I hope you will be reconciled soon.

You have to ask yourself a few questions: Do you love her? Is she good to you?

Does she care about you from the bottom of her heart, or is she pretending? 5.Is she more important to you than you are?

Dude, if you love someone, you must learn to be tolerant! Think about how good she is to you, what kind of things can't you get over? Brother, I'm sure you'll have the right choice!

I think what I said is okay, give a few points)

In fact, if you want a woman to be good to you, first of all, you have to learn to grasp the heart of a woman, as long as a woman feels that you are good to her and cares about her, then he will be really good to you.

You are good to her, you want you to care more about her, if you treat him badly, she will find fault with you, to put it bluntly, it is still a personality problem between the two.

You should have a friendly conversation with your girlfriend or mimick, ask her if she really loves you, and then make it clear to her that you mean and tell her how you feel.

You can go straight to your girlfriend and tell the other person to think about the problem from your own point of view, and the two people should compromise with each other, so as to make the feeling hall tremble more stable.

In fact, I should have a good chat with the other party, I hope the other party can pay more attention to their inner feelings, and sometimes they should be more considerate.

There will definitely be arguments in the middle of your relationship. When the quarrel is called, when everyone is emotional, naturally there are no good words, and they will not take into account the feelings of the other party. The best way to do a stool promotion is not to quarrel.

You should let the other person calm down quickly, and you can't help but hurt the other person when you lose control of your emotions, but you should stop it in time. Otherwise, it will ruin the relationship.

I think you should have a good talk with your girlfriend about how you feel right now and what you have about your relationship.

In most cases, they will be very sad, and they will also regret this incident, thinking that they should not quarrel with the other party, or they should face the situation calmly, thinking that they should take the initiative to apologize to the other party and be more humble to the other party.

Boys will feel that their girlfriend is vexatious, and they will feel inexplicable, and they will not know why their girlfriend is angry at all, and they will feel innocent.

That's what my girlfriend is. Now that we've broken up, I didn't realize that she didn't care about me anymore, and she kept arguing with me because we couldn't get along together, maybe.

Girlfriends always like to quarrel with you, and I analyze the following reasons.

First: a serious sense of insecurity. Seek your attention by seeking to quarrel.

Second: He is a relatively strong girl. Always trying to control your mind, and if you're not convinced, then quarrel with you.

Third, if your three views do not coincide, there is always a point of convergence that cannot be reached. That's why there's always a fight.

The above 3 points are the reasons for my analysis for you, and you can consider for yourself whether there are these factors.

I'm still arguing with you. It shows that she cares about you and has you in her heart.

Wait until she ignores you. I just don't care about you.

I don't know what you're actually doing. But I'm assuming that you love each other and are willing to give for it.

I think it's normal for couples and couples to quarrel. There are more people who quarrel and break up, and then get back together, and there are many examples of getting married and staying together for life. I guess you're all the same age.

Let me summarize from personal experience:

1.As the questioner, you have realized that there is a certain difference of opinion between you, and you should think about making concessions in non-principled situations, and there is no need to argue over small things like whether black looks good or white looks good.

2.Sort out the contradictions maturely, and think about the problem with your head before losing your temper. Is it necessary to argue!? Why argue? What's the point of winning?

Tolerance is very important in getting along with both parties, and I hope you can cherish each other!

1.There are many different reasons for quarrels, but the results are all the same: destroying feelings and destroying basic trust between people.

Occasional quarrels are a ritual of communication, but many times, they are uncontrollable and disastrous. 2.Appropriate silence or compromise is not weakness.

Men need respect, women need love. So, stop arguing and try to see the world with the other person's mind.

It's okay to make a little noise, love is often very beautiful at the beginning, and it may be very realistic after walking together, right, if there is a problem, you work together to face it, it's not a real quarrel, so you can't solve the problem, as a man, try to be humble about girls, there's nothing bad about it, even after the quarrel, I think you should admit your mistake first, every time you have a dispute, think about what the purpose is, the tone is gentle and tactful, as long as it's not a matter of principle, you can try to understand each other, Problems that cannot be changed in a short period of time should be solved slowly and step by step. Empathy is important.

The cause of the quarrel, analyze your own reasons, calm down and talk to each other, listen to each other's opinions on yourself, and then improve, if you don't want to divide, this is the best way.

Be sure to hold your breath! Men must give way!

It's just that they care too much about each other, and the more people we care about, we tend to be too demanding, in fact, many things are not right or wrong, and it is possible to live with you for a lifetime, what is the point of you competing with her to be ugly?

Are you sure that quarrels are a bad thing?

If couples quarrel too often, then there is already a big problem with the relationship between two people. It has to be to the point where two people need to communicate well to solve it. Although at this stage, the two have not yet reached the point of breaking up.

But this situation must be taken seriously by two people.

In fact, when couples get along with each other for a period of time, as they get to know each other more comprehensively, they will have a clearer grasp of their respective shortcomings. And as the two people spend more and more time together, they are no longer as full of expectations for this relationship as they were at the beginning. Driven by these factors.

There will inevitably be a certain estrangement and contradiction between couples, and they often quarrel for this.

But if couples often quarrel with each other, it will inevitably affect the relationship between two people, and will cause each other to get tired of such feelings. In this case, if you don't communicate and exchange in a timely manner. The relationship between two people is likely to develop to an irreparable degree, and the two couples should realize that only when they have real respect and understanding for each other, each other, then the two can really maintain this relationship.

In order to make two people feel happy and happy in this relationship. Therefore, in this process, couples must adjust their respective mentalities. Avoid two people from quarreling, even if two people have a certain estrangement and contradiction.

It must also be resolved through timely communication and exchange. In many cases, we should consider the problem from the other side's point of view, so as to avoid many conflicts and reduce the problem of frequent quarrels between each other.

I think if that's the case, you might consider leaving. Because in love, you should take each other's feelings into account, and if she doesn't apologize every time, she may not really have considered your feelings. It is best to have an equal relationship, after all, if one partner is higher than the other, then the quarrel can be mundane.

Of course, when quarreling, it is impossible to make the other party not angry at all, maybe the words used in the quarrel are a little harsh, as long as the timely apology and reflection and change, then it is acceptable. If she doesn't reflect and thinks that she is right, then it will be very troublesome in the future, because then your relationship will only get worse and worse, and you will only be angry with yourself, right? Hope this answer helps you!

In this world, most of the anger is because of the inability to turn themselves in. Boys have to earn more money and dress up more when they have time. Instead of worrying about whether girls love you or not.

It's really not a big deal. When you have a car, a house and a deposit, everyone will be blind to you.

First of all, communicate well, if it really doesn't work, you have to see if it's a friend who misses it, it's not that she can't, in the days to come, your own good feelings are very important, it's very important to be happy and happy, and you can think about it before you do it.

Women are self-willed with some petty emotions and love. When two people quarrel, they show irritability and negative emotions. In fact, when you are angry, it is inevitable to have excessive behavior and language, and it is normal not to pay attention to your emotions, depending on his attitude towards you afterwards.

Maybe it's because I'm too impulsive when I quarrel, so I don't choose what to say, which is also very normal, and you can reflect it with your girlfriend.

You have to understand each other with your girlfriend and don't be too self-absorbed by both of you.