How do I attain contemplation, how do I attain contemplation as a self respecting person?

If you are sure that the person doesn't like you, first of all, you can make some efforts to change his mind, maybe it's just some misunderstanding that he won't have a good impression of you, if not, you try to accept this fact, you also know that no one will be liked by everyone, there will always be people who think differently and don't like your way of doing things, learn to forgive, understand those people, and look at the problem from the perspective of others, which should be helpful to you.

In fact, in this society, everyone has their own likes and dislikes, and everyone is also liked and disliked by others, as long as you don't deliberately violate others or deliberately cater to others.

No one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings, and other people's dissatisfaction with you is exactly where you are deficient, learn to take other people's criticisms and suggestions as a warning, learn lessons, correct shortcomings, and impress others and praise you.

Too perfect is imperfect, so thinking too much and doing too much is more wrong.

Actually, you're thinking too much about it.

You care a lot about what others do to you.

Relax yourself.

In the final analysis, it is the factor of low self-esteem that is at work

That's what perfectionists look like. It seems that I also know a little bit, what to do.

How do you tell people don't like you?

I would like to address your question from a holistic explanation and analysis:

1.Self-esteem: Reaching a view is a posture in the face of different individuals and different opinions; The essence of this gesture is tolerance and generosity; Tolerance is a personal demeanor, a realm.

2.The specific uproar can be divided into the following aspects:

1) Inclusion. Each of us is a different individual, so whether it is a different living environment or education, and our own experiences are also different, so when facing different people and encountering conflicts, if we want to respect each other, we must be tolerant and generous.

2) Moderate self-esteem. Don't be overly vain, but also understand correctly that you need your own opinions and be able to accept the opinions of others appropriately. Don't care too much about other people's attitudes, and maintain a cheerful and open-minded personality.

3) Be respectful of others. a.When interacting with and conversing with others, maintain basic etiquette and respect the personality of others.

Pay attention to "do unto others as you would have them do unto you", and respect others is also self-respecting. b。First, we should look at the problem from the other party's point of view; the second is to be good at appreciating and accepting others; The third is not to do things that are messy and boring, and damage the personality of others.

4) Equality and cooperation. Learn to get along with people and pay attention to team spirit. Treat people and things fairly, don't let your emotions go far beyond reason, and judge the right and wrong of a person or thing based on your own personal preferences or objectivity.

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As a person who has come over, I can tell you very clearly, you are too stressed, resulting in emotional instability, easy irritability, and you are now in a rebellious period, communicate with your parents more, learn to calm down, guard against arrogance and rashness, learn to release pressure, don't hold back, such as finding a place where no one is taking a deep breath, shouting loudly, or finding a sandbag or something to beat hard, as long as you vent out, it's fine, junior high school 2 is not your most important moment, even if the results are not satisfactory, don't be depressed, lose your fighting spirit, set a plan for yourself, Study should be a combination of work and rest, but also communicate more with your parents, so that they try not to put too much pressure on you, if you feel irritable, take a deep breath, 5 minutes will calm down, come on (

Sincerity is the most important thing. I'm tired of acting every day.

I think it depends on what kind of person you are treating, and what kind of attitude you choose to treat. We can't treat people equally.

It's best to have both sides, and choose what attitude you want to face in the face of who and what you do.

Find a man who likes you and let him do everything he can to love you.

After a long time, it is natural to let go, or start a new relationship.