How to distinguish between wanting to be lazy and not being able to bear it

If you want to be lazy, you don't want to do what you will do, but you can't bear it, and it is generally difficult to do what you want to do, or you can't do it, and you have a lot of pressure in your heart.

For me, it's the same.

We want to be lazy because we don't want to do what you will do, just like not wanting to get up in the morning, but we can't bear it, and we can't do what we want to do, and we can't do it when we encounter difficulties, or we can't do it because it's difficult and stressful, as long as we do our best, we can always go over and come on.

I think laziness should be the shortcoming of most people, now many people miss a lot of good opportunities because of laziness, almost laziness can be reflected in everyone, why are young people getting lazier and lazier, and often blame themselves for laziness. <>

In the past, people rarely slept lazily and got up on time every day, and now young people almost sleep until they wake up naturally, and rarely eat breakfast, because they are lazy, too lazy to go down to buy food to eat, and now young people often order takeout, because they are too lazy to do it themselves, so it will be a lot more convenient, and now the laziness is getting stronger and stronger, and it has become a habit for young people. We need to fix this bad habit, and I think we can set a small goal for ourselves firstIf you order takeout for a long time, you can try to start cooking and eating by yourself, even if it is simple to cook something, as long as there is progress, we must first get rid of the habit of ordering takeout often, and start to solve the problem of eating by ourselves, and slowly form a habit and start to cook by yourself. <>

There are also people who think that laziness is because they are not interested in this matter, so they have no enthusiasm, and they will not be lazy when they are interested in thingsThen we have to cultivate our interest in this matter, we can find something from this thing that we think is useful to ourselves, find its fun, and formulate it as a key skill for ourselves to upgrade and fight monsters, and we will feel a sense of accomplishment every time we pass it, so that we will slowly become interested in this thing, find the meaning of it, and we will take the initiative to do it.

The habit of laziness cannot be broken all at once, but we must have the determination to break this habit, we have to make the first step, 14 days can form a habit, will make a plan according to their actual situation, and then strictly follow the plan to implementYou can monitor each other with your friends, and if you don't do it, you need to take some punishment, and sticking to it in the long run will definitely have an effect.

Not to be lazy is to "finish today", never put it off until tomorrow, don't think that there is still time and opportunity, just when you think like this, there is not much time left. Be sure to give yourself positive psychological cues, thinking that "long pain is better than short pain, short pain is better than pain now", and finish the task at hand immediately.

You should set a goal for yourself and keep pushing yourself to achieve it.

Self-discipline is an eternal topic. But in fact, it is not so difficult to achieve self-discipline, and I set goals for myself at the beginning, not so much. Then just decide what to do and do it.