The big problem of the century, how to make a choice between those who love you and the people you l

Love is just an ordinary thing, it's not uncommon at all, a man is just a thing of rebuke, what's so great, love is just an ordinary thing, it's not unusual, a man is just a thing, what's great, what is love What is meaning, it's not that everyone deceives themselves, what is stupid, what is a fan, it's just a man and a woman playing, it's a man I like it, whether rich or poor - "Carmen".

This "conundrum" is not difficult for me at all. For someone as selfish as me, of course I would choose someone who loves me.

I recognize that love is a precious emotion. What is love? Countless philosophers, poets, essayists, and even playwrights have discussed this proposition countless times since ancient times.

After these discussions, we can basically conclude that love is a precious and beautiful emotion, but it will bring us not always beautiful and positive things in our lives, and many times it may bring some pain. When two people love each other, love shows tenderness. <>

There are too few people who love one another. There are too many people in this world. No one can say that I will definitely meet my own true destiny or true destiny, most of them have made do.

People who pursue true love tend to be unhappy, so I don't pursue true love. I don't want to give love to a stranger. It makes me feel very tired.

Selfish people don't want to love others and just want to be loved because they think of the consequences that a stranger will bear on their own initiative, so they dispel this idea, but I will not refuse a stranger who is pleasing to the eye to take the initiative to love themselves, although I think that people with this abundant emotions are not completely consistent with my outlook on life, but it is always happy to be treated carefully. <>

And after the major film and television areas and the popular science of life,Whoever loves will work hard, this principle has been deeply imprinted in my mind. Of course, choose to be loved!

You should choose someone who loves you, because the person who loves you will always value you very much, and will really take care of you, care for you, and let you really be happy.

I must choose the person I love, so that my heart will not be particularly uncomfortable, and I can get along with each other forever.

I will definitely choose someone I love to be with, so that I will feel comfortable in my heart, and I can accept whatever the other person does.

I will definitely choose the person I love, because then when the two of us are together, we will be full of love and will feel happy and happy.

I will definitely choose someone who loves me, because in this way, two people live together, they definitely don't pay, the other party pays more, and the love they enjoy is more than the other party.

I think you should choose to love yourself. In this way, after getting married, the other party will be more tolerant of you, and the two of you will be happier together.

I must choose the person I love, so that I and the other party will have a deeper relationship and be truly happy.

I will choose the one I love. In the face of this choice, although it is said that my life will be easier if I choose someone who loves me, love is a wonderful thing.

I will choose the person who loves me, because it is especially easy to be touched, and I feel that I will slowly love the person who hurts me. It's too tiring to choose the person I love.

People who love you should be chosen. Because when you get along with such people, you will be happier and will also feel your presence.

Between the people who love me and the people I love, I will choose the people who love me, because with the people who love me, I will feel happiness and full of love.

In fact, I will choose the person who loves me, because I think that the person who loves me can also make me fall in love with him, which will make our relationship more harmonious.

Someone who loves me. People are short in life, the most important thing is to live happily and comfortably, choose someone who loves me, will be good to me in everything, make me very comfortable.

You choose what you love, and perfecting others is also perfecting yourself. Love is mutual, and love without one partner is imperfect. No matter which one you choose, you will regret it in the end.

You can only choose one green apple and one red apple, and no matter which one you choose, you will feel that the one you don't choose is sweeter. There is no solution to this multiple-choice question. Life in the world, but seek a clear conscience, persuade people to do good deeds, and have their own blessings.

Why do you want to choose, children make choices, adults want all of them.

It's good to have someone who loves you, and many people can't meet someone who truly loves them in their lifetime, so why can't you love that person who loves you. Don't tell me that you really love another person, and you will never get the person you love, so loving the person who loves you is the only and best choice for you.

Plan first and then seek people, and when the time comes, there will be a better conclusion (this is my personal opinion, not to generalize).

Someone who loves you but you don't love will make you feel disgusted, and someone you love who doesn't love you will make you feel lost.

People who are successfully married have a more consistent opinion, that is, of course, choose the person they love. An important reason is that it gives you the courage and strength to persevere. Because I like it, I am willing to do anything, I look good, I listen to it, then that's good, even if there are contradictions sometimes, because love is forgivable.

After all, after the relationship is stable, everything will be repentant and respectful, and the trivial and rotten friction will begin to smooth out the romance, at this time, the person you don't love will make people more and more unpleasant, more and more unpleasant, look annoying, listen to tired, then that is not satisfactory, when there is a contradiction, because you don't love, so you can't forgive. Although this person has saved you a lot of worry before, you will still regret your choice at this time. And only love can make you persevere, make you persevere, make you believe, and make you tolerant.

So if I had to choose one of the two, I would definitely choose the one I love.

Of course, being happy and loving each other is always the healthiest mode of romance.

Emotional matters are often unclear and unclear, especially when there is no choice between loving and being loved. People often say: find someone who loves you as your husband (wife), and the person you love as a lover.

Although there is some truth in this sentence, it is contrary to Chinese ethics and morality. Actually, I don't think the situation you encounter is too complicated, as long as you calm down and look at the two of them carefully, you will find out who you really need.

Let's analyze your ex-boyfriend: he has good family conditions, he is also very good to you, and he will never abandon you, if he has a good character and a stable career or income, he should be considered relatively perfect, and he can score 95 points.

Let's analyze your current boyfriend again: his family conditions are not good, he is good and bad to you, he has skills (with a stable income), and if his character is also good, he should be considered okay and can score 70 points.

Let's analyze you again: your ex-boyfriend is that you don't love you anymore, and you rely on your current boyfriend, but my current boyfriend's current attitude towards you I think needs to be further observed by you. Emotional matters are very delicate, I don't want to say too much, but I think marriage depends not only on feelings, life is life, there are many elements in it, you have to look at the problem at multiple levels, think deeply about the problem, first of all, consider whether this person really loves me, whether I can accept him; Secondly, we should consider whether we will be able to live together well in the future, especially whether we can understand and tolerate our personality and temperament; Finally, it depends on his personal and family background, and it is best to be a good match.

The above is just my personal opinion, I hope it will be helpful to you, and I hope that you can find your own home as soon as possible and enter a happy life. Good luck!