What experiences have you learned since you entered the world?

Since I entered the current society, I have learned a lot of the truth of dealing with people, and the student atmosphere on my body has long been gone, so let's summarize some of the ways I have learned to deal with people.

First, be cheeky, people don't want to be invincible in the world.

This is really a place that I really want to imitate in place but I still can't do it well, because I really don't have such a thick skin, but I still have some experience in this skill, when I do things by myself, I can't be shy, and things related to myself must be paid attention to in time, many times, if I take care of my face, one thing is not good, I want to do a thing, put my face aside, there is nothing to think about, You only need to know that you don't care too much about these face problems, not to save face is often to achieve unexpected results, sometimes some things are done, it will reduce their identity, but if you don't do it, you will also suffer losses, which is why many people choose to be thick-skinned under the weigh. It takes such a cheekiness to find someone to help you get things done.

Second, regardless of relatives and friends, settle accounts.

This is actually my own experience, I didn't care about these problems when I came out at the beginning, but then I found that I was good at mixing in relatives and friends, and no one paid attention to you if I didn't mix well, that is, for this reason, I don't think I need to have any so-called kinship with these relatives, no matter what you do, you respect me a foot, I also respect you a foot, I won't give more, that is, the size of the matter is calculated clearly, so that everyone is unbalanced, A lot of relatives and friends are like this, superficial brothers, secretly also like to point fingers, I just don't like this kind of life, so I am more straightforward, if I have something to say, no matter what, clear accounting, economic transactions are all signed and written, this is the best way.

Third, be low-key.

I know very well what it means to have mountains outside the mountains and people outside of people. No matter what time it is, don't show off your ability too much, because you know how much you can do, how many pounds and taels you have, why brag about it? I have always been low-key, many people don't understand this truth, or like to show off, such people often live in their own world, others don't know what they think of him, and they haven't learned from the society, but after going to society, they have a deeper understanding of what they need to do.

These three are the three more important points that I learned after I came out to mix.

It's been five years since I graduated, and I have gone from being a novice in society to now having some experience in dealing with people, and my experience is indeed quite experienced.

First, learn to be grateful.

Don't take other people's help for granted, especially between colleagues. When I first went to work, because I didn't understand anything, I had to ask my colleagues for a lot of things, but at that time I was too embarrassed to ask others, so I once bought a lot of delicious food, invited colleagues to eat, and then said some polite words asking everyone to give me more advice, I found that from that day on, when I encountered problems, some colleagues would take the initiative to help me. Later, after getting acquainted with everyone, I talked about why they were willing to help me, and they said that they felt that I was very polite and knew how to thank others, unlike some recent graduates, who felt that everything would not be taken for granted, and it was natural for us to help him.

That's right, no one is obligated to help you, and if you don't know how to thank you, it's simply not going to be able to do anything in society.

Second, leave a way out for others.

Don't accuse others in public, even if you know the facts, you don't need to say them in public. Once, my colleague made a big mistake, and the boss was furious, and our manager took the fault on himself, and as a result, he was fined two months' bonus. The colleague who made the mistake was a newcomer, not long after graduating.

The manager later said that even if I knew that it was his mistake, I couldn't say it in public, because he was still a newcomer to the workplace and couldn't bear the pressure, and he also needed self-esteem to continue to stay in this company, and to leave a way out for others appropriately, which was also to give himself one more choice.

Third, do not shirk responsibility.

A big taboo in the workplace is shirking responsibility. As long as something goes wrong at work, don't blindly try to shirk your responsibilities immediately, so that the boss will be even more angry and his impression of you will be greatly reduced. If a mistake has already occurred, what we can do is how to correct it and prevent further damage from the error.

When you hand your changed plan to your boss, the effect is very different from blindly shirking responsibility.

It has been seven years since I graduated from university, and I am now working in the research institute in Beijing, although the working environment of the institute is relatively simple, but after entering the society, I have experienced a lot of things and learned some ways to deal with people.

The first is to be kind to others. In fact, this is very easy to do, people in contact with the work usually do not have a relationship of interest, there will be no conflict in the normal communication, tolerant, friendly attitude, will naturally be recognized by colleagues and leaders, reach out and do not hit the smiling person, the luck of the kind person will not be too bad. Moreover, we should empathize with the fact that no one wants to get along with unfriendly people and will not be recognized and respected by others.

The second is hard work. For example, in my unit, I am relatively young, so I arrive at the unit a little earlier every day, clean up, clean up the water, and wait for the old comrades to have a good working environment, and take the initiative to do the tedious daily affairs, which will be well received by everyone. When you go to ask your old comrades questions, they will be more than willing to teach you.

It's good for young people to be industrious, so why not?

The third is to be down-to-earth and conscientious. In such an impetuous society, it is very commendable for a person to be able to be practical and serious, just like when going to school, teachers like serious students, colleagues and leaders in the workplace also like to be a serious person, you can take the task you are given seriously, and strive to do your best, which is expected by all the people who work with you, and you can be recognized by most people if you are practical and serious.

The fourth is to have the courage to take responsibility. To be a responsible person at work, you should have the courage to take responsibility for the work assigned to you, and have the courage to take on difficult work or projects, which is not only the strength of your own ability, but also the exercise of others, such as coordination ability and organizational ability, so you must have the courage to take responsibility at work, which is also the ability that many people appreciate and do not have, so you must be responsible when completing a task with others.

<>When it comes to people's experience in dealing with the world, I am quite a singer. Today I just went back to school and got my diploma, which proves that my university life is officially over. Before I knew it, I had been working in this company for half a year.

I have gained a lot in the past six months, especially in terms of dealing with people. In the past, I always spoke with a big grin, heartless, and would say whatever I wanted, and never held it in my heart. But after work, I learned that some words are not suitable to be said, and it may not be appropriate to say them to colleagues.

You must not put yourself in a vulnerable position at work, otherwise you will suffer a lot. For example, if someone asks you to do something that is not your responsibility, once or twice, forget it, and if he asks you to do it every time, you must be strong and learn to refuse. Otherwise, you will be bullied, especially new employees in the company.

In the company, especially in front of your immediate boss, you must not be strong, which not only shows that you are very impetuous and not practical enough, but also makes him feel very uncomfortable, so that he will more or less target you in the future work. Moreover, you must be tactful, of course, "sleek" is not a derogatory term here. Sleekness is a philosophy of life, although it is not profound, but not everyone can understand its essence and get its essentials.

Because of the smooth life, not only need experience and wisdom, but also have the heart of not asking right and wrong, kindness and mud skills. Therefore, if you want to be smooth in the world, you need a certain amount of social tempering, and I have just entered the society for half a year, and I think that my skills are far from enough, and I still need to continue to hone in this big society.

Here are some tips I've learned about how to behave in the world:

1.Respect others. No matter how you treat anyone, you should be respectful and polite. Don't attack or hurt someone's feelings, but learn to listen and respect their ideas and perspectives.

2.Learn to communicate. Communication is the key to building good relationships and solving problems. Learn to express yourself clearly and listen to the opinions and perspectives of others in order to understand each other better.

3.Modest. Staying humble and constantly learning about Shinseki is necessary for success. Don't be too arrogant or overconfident, and always be mindful of your limitations.

4.Have the courage to take responsibility. When faced with mistakes, setbacks, or failures, it is very important to have the courage to take responsibility and find ways to solve problems. This attitude will not only earn you the respect of others, but it will also allow you to discover new opportunities and succeed.

5.Set goals and pursue your dreams. It's crucial to achieve your dreams by setting goals, studying hard, and working consistently, but it's also important to be realistic and adjust your plans appropriately to cope with change.

The above points are only personal opinions and are not universally applicable, and I hope to provide you with some references.

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A person is human not because of his biological attributes, but because of his social attributes, because he can be not only a creature in nature, but also a person in society. It is only in society that a person can truly be seen as a person. The most important thing for a person to become a member of society is to learn how to get along with others.

How to communicate with people, how to behave, and how to do things are also related to the final outcome of a person, but how to behave and how to do things, I am afraid that few people can really find the right way.

1.Be mind-set. Society is a big stage.

After all, it's completely different from school life. Don't think you're the top student in school, and don't think you're a bully in your studies. You'll be at home when you work.

Conversely, many students are unable to adapt to the demands of work and society when they first enter society. Lack of ability to adapt to work, ability to deal with affairs, experience and methods, ability to deal with emergencies. Around me, in our troops, many freshmen were not able to form combat effectiveness for a long time.

They have an unhealthy mindset and can't handle things independently for two or three years. Therefore, we must be mentally prepared to start from scratch, have a low-key and open-minded consulting attitude, and have an image of being pragmatic and enterprising, down-to-earth, and willing to work.

2.We should study hard and be good at learning. We should learn about work-related cultural knowledge through books, documents, and computers, and we should also learn from the people around us, such as processing methods, processing skills, work experience, adaptability, etc.

3.Don't talk about others behind your back. Don't spread gossip about the unit, let alone talk about the length of a colleague behind your back.

In particular, you can't spread gossip about the leader, and you can't evaluate the virtues and abilities of the leader. Because once there is a problem in these aspects, a negative impression and positioning are formed in the minds of others, and you will be in a passive position in the unit, and it will be difficult to turn over.

4.Don't trust your colleagues. Any unit will form a competition for work performance and promotion.

Therefore, we should strengthen cooperation and communication with colleagues at work, but do not easily confide in them our thoughts, opinions and even personal affairs, especially some sensitive things, the attitude of sensitive people is not easy to expose, so we should be careful. The hidden arrows of colleagues and even leaders are the most serious injuries in the workplace. If you're not careful, you can easily become a picky and take a heavy hit in your career and work.

After entering the society, we should understand the above life experiences. Whether it is a social person who has experienced a complex social environment or a recent college graduate, we should master these and become a smart person. In this way, whether in life or at work, we will progress and it will be easier to do anything.