We re both in college, so how am I going to spend my time in a long distance relationship?

You can use the transfer method to focus more on your studies, for example, set a goal to pass English level 4 or 6 within a time limit, so that you can reduce some of the emotional pain.

In addition, there is a sentence not to forget: if there is love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight.

This is the time to test you, if you really love each other, you will spend that time, if the relationship fades after a long time, then it will be naturally separated.

Belch. What's wrong with long-distance relationships, aren't there still so many people married in long-distance relationships? First of all, you have to go to college seriously, if you don't go to school well, you will have to rely on you in the future, right?

Besides, now that technology is so developed, it's very convenient to play ** if you have nothing to do, and it's very convenient to get on the Internet or something. I think it's okay as long as you two don't change your mind.

At present, it seems that you have no possibility of changing your mind for the time being, so what about her?

So your real question is how to strengthen her determination to be with you.

My girlfriend and I are in the same situation as yours, most of the time I go to coax her, I get angry three or four times a month, I can't stand it, I'm doing business work now, I feel that you are better than us because you can meet on vacation, and I can only see each other once in half a year, which is to be two people.

Dear, don't suffer so much.

Give everyone a little confidence, distance is definitely not an issue.

I know you're sad, but I didn't say I'd leave you! I will do what I promised you ...

We will definitely be happy in a year!! Husband! I love you!!!

After a long-distance relationship, the relationship will fade! People change.

Long-distance relationships in college are one of the more common problems. The author also broke up after three years of being away from home, and as a person who has come over, I would like to talk about my views on this issue.

I believe that most people are sincere when they fall in love, even if it is a long-distance relationship. Personally, I think that in a relationship, a sense of security and trust is very important, especially in a long-distance relationship, girls are easily insecure, and if you want to solve this problem, justIt requires a joint effort on both sides.

1. Try to give the other person a sense of security and trust

This is definitely one of the most problematic issues in long-distance relationships. Because the distance makes it impossible for both parties to notice each other's emotional changes at all times, the screen cannot convey the notes of longing, which makes the quarrels between the two parties continue to erupt, exacerbating the possibility of breaking up. So be open and honest with them and express your pure thoughts, and don't test whether the other person cares about you through cold violence.

Give the other person complete trust, sometimes the more suspicious you are, the more suspicious you will become, and the relationship between you will continue to deteriorate.

2. Plan for the future together

It's really hard to go on in a long-distance relationship, so it's very important to plan for the future together, after all, you've been in a different place during college, and if you can't get closer after work, you will inevitably feel disappointed, and you should make the other party feel that they have always been in your plan.

3. See each other as often as you can

Finally, even if it is a long-distance relationship, even if a person feels that life is too lonely and boring, it is not absolutely impossible to do things that violate morality, you are bitter, and they are more bitter than you. I hope that all people in long-distance relationships can cross the obstacles of mountains and seas and walk to their side.

In fact, you have doubts about whether he loves you or not. First of all, do you have to make sure that he loves you? To what extent?

Because the most important thing to maintain a long-distance relationship is two hearts that love each other. If you are sure that he loves you, and loves you deeply. Then you're going to have to stick with it.

If you want to maintain a long-distance relationship, you need to communicate more in your spare time. And if he is sometimes busy and doesn't have time to spend time with you, and you don't complain about him. Generally speaking, men like to have a woman who supports them, not a woman who will always complain.

Yikes. I'm also studying in Chongqing. It's the university. My girlfriend and I are also in a long-distance relationship.

This affection has nothing to do with the horoscope.

You want the QQ password. Just check the post at any time to know. That's what she did. And regular contact is the last word!!

You're all too young, immature, and fruitless! He will know a lot of people in college, give up, it's not when you're in love!

Of course, it's a good friend to eat together!

There are a lot of long-distance relationships among college students, and some of them were brought up in high school, because they didn't fill in the volunteers after the college entrance examination. Didn't fill it together. There are two of us in the dormitory, and we miss each other very much, no way, the university is not in the same school, so we can only meet during the holidays.

I usually miss each other very much, so he will come to me as soon as he takes a vacation, and he will always call me ** when he is not at work.

First, go to his city to find him. At the same time, I also know that liking is mutual, so I am willing to go far away to find you. I still think that the most romantic thing about a long-distance relationship is when one person travels a long way to see another person.

I would also bring a bouquet of flowers to meet the boy I liked very much. I know that boys need flowers, too. Even if you were at the time, you would have muttered that I was naïve.

What about a long-distance relationship, just go to each other if you miss it, there's nothing to be afraid of. The real scary thing about long-distance relationships is that they don't share or chat when they encounter problems, and after a long time, they will really fade, which is really bad for long-distance relationships.

Second, surprise the other person。I love flowers and I love receiving surprises. I want that kind of clear love, sincere like, standing in the sun, and being firm in my choice.

Every time I meet, my boyfriend prepares flowers, brings gifts to see me, buys a lot of delicious things every time, and goes to various fun places to check in together. I also had a man who traveled a long way to see him. I will also bring him a lot of gifts and bring him his favorite snacks to eat, In fact, I don't lack anything, but I lack that sense of security......Long-distance relationship is only a few years in college, and after these few years, it will be a lifetime, and I hope all students in long-distance relationships will persevere.

The long-distance relationship that college students want to maintain shows that they are in love in middle school, and they are in adolescence in middle school, and the love at that time is basically opposite-sex attract, which is a simple good feeling. If they each go to college in a different place, they slowly find that the two of them don't have so much to say, and they slowly can't remember each other, in fact, this is a kind of growth, which shows that this relationship can't withstand the change of environment and distance, if both parties have this feeling, they don't have to spend a lot of energy to maintain.

Long-distance relationship is a very test of the relationship and getting along skills between couples of any age, two people live in different cities, life and rest, meet and interact with different people, the most bitter and difficult is a long-distance relationship, so how should college students maintain a long-distance relationship?

First of all, both sides must trust each other. In college, because of the different class hours and different work and rest habits, sometimes one party will not be able to find the other party when they want to chat or have something, and we must believe that the other party is not acting intentionally when encountering situations like this. A long-distance relationship may not be able to meet for a long time, and I am worried that the relationship will fade over time, and I will not be able to understand the other party's situation and produce some suspicion and distrust, so this is very important for trust, and mutual suspicion and distrust may make the relationship die.

Give both sides a certain amount of space. Although a long-distance relationship is not in the same place, it is impossible to understand each other's situation, but don't keep an eye on each other all the time. If the other party is willing to share with you, you can get to know each other deeply, but sometimes you don't have to keep an eye on the other party's class time or what they are doing, which may put pressure on the other party and have no space for themselves.

Therefore, it is necessary to give the other party a certain amount of space, which is more conducive to the development of the relationship.

Try not to pass on negative emotions to the other person. When we encounter difficulties, we will be unhappy if we want to complain, but we still have to solve our own problems. Because of the distance, the other party has no way to solve it for you, and may only be able to give some suggestions, and the rest can only be anxious and add to the other party's troubles.

If negative emotions are conveyed to the other person frequently for a long time, it may have a bad impact on the relationship between the two parties.

There is a common plan. Although you can't be very wealthy in college, you may not be able to solve some big problems such as buying a car and a house, but you may plan some more practical goals together, such as meeting or traveling in the near future, or getting a scholarship together. It is also very important to have an expected goal for the cultivation of feelings, and in order to achieve a common goal, thinking about happiness in the future will also be motivated when you work hard.

It's really a blissful thing to watch two people get closer to their dreams little by little.

Get in touch every day. Even if it's just a text message saying good morning, it proves that you are worried and thinking about each other every day. Of course, everyone is different, and there may be couples who have a slower pace and find a rhythm that both parties like and fit when they are in love.

You should keep in touch often, go to each other's cities often, surprise him often, give him gifts often, and plan the future of two people.

Trust Understanding and trust are especially important for couples in a long-distance relationship in college.

Long-distance relationships, whether they are in college or in different places of work, should contact and communicate more, so that your relationship will get better and better.

Some choose to break up, while others consider maintaining their relationship in a long-distance relationship. Although the second is to keep the relationship temporarily, it requires more effort. So you need to understand these maintenance methods.

After graduating from college, couples are unable to work in the same city because they seek their own development, so they can only rely on long-distance relationships to maintain their relationship with each other. But you must know that maintaining a long-distance relationship is more difficult than that in the same city, and this sense of distance can easily lead to the shaking of the relationship and even fall apart, so it requires the cooperation of both parties. Let's talk about what couples who have graduated from college should pay attention to on the road to maintaining a long-distance relationship?

If your friend has just entered the society and the **fee is several times that of yours, then he is either a big carrot or a long-distance relationship player. The two are in different places, it is difficult to meet, and playing ** has become a "red rope" connecting each other, chatting about daily life, complaining about colleagues, and encouraging each other......It's as if TA is right next to you. ** Last month, it seems acceptable, what if it is a year, or more?

Can you still be as patient as you were at the beginning? Are you still willing to keep the love of the two remotely fresh for a long time? Twin Cities life frequently switches long-distance relationships, and it is far from enough to maintain a relationship by just making ** porridge, chatting WeChat, chatting QQ, etc., and regular meetings are very important.

So the question is, who should go to see whom? How often do you see each other? It depends on who is giving in your relationship and how close the two cities are.

On weekends and holidays, maybe your girlfriends are shopping and you are taking the train, maybe your buddies are playing online games and you are ...... by trainIt seems that you are taking the train whenever you have free time, and you are willing to switch between them frequently with such a painstaking and laborious life in the twin cities?

Therefore, it is still necessary to combine reality, if the two truly love each other, then they must fight for it desperately.