I m a married woman, and I ve been in a difficult situation lately. I hope you can help me! 10

Refusal without mercy. Or accept it calmly, and be most afraid of hesitation and vacillation.

Remember that liking is faint love, while love is deep liking.

Distance yourself from him, or warn him that he will tell his wife.

Ha, I still want to. When men and women have any friends, it's not that one of them wants to get cheap, and the other doesn't like him or her, in short, they can't be together for various reasons. I think it's better to keep a distance, not someone who can let go, or don't do that side thing, otherwise the consequences are not something that the person who does his duty can clean up, and it's best to rest assured that your life is the best.

I can only say that this man is obsessed ...

I also think you should stay away from him, because you also said that he insisted on not listening to him, and you still treat him as a friend, which is undoubtedly giving him a chance to imagine that he may still have a chance.

However, it is not to tell you to stay away from him forever, but to give him time to calm down and think.

After a while he will calm down, and if he still doesn't have you have to be careful...

The answer is yes! Refusal--I don't know what to do.

Alienate him. Warn him.

Don't be a friend, ignore him.

You are too demanding of yourself and always want to be recognized by everyone. In fact, you don't have to worry too much about many things, just live happily by yourself, people don't have a long life, love yourself well, come on!

LZ cares too much about other people's thoughts, and suggests that LZ ignore other people's ideas and take a look, just live happily, and don't care about other people.........'s opinions

I'm one of those people. In fact, everyone will have such a stage to a greater or lesser extent. Listen to your heart and do it, sometimes calm down and read some philosophical books, and your heart will be much clearer.

Sometimes it's not a deliberate attempt to care. It just touched the wound in our hearts. If there is a need.

You might as well add me as a friend, and if you have anything in the future, you can tell me. In the past, it was pen pals who could talk about their hearts, but now they are netizens. Hehe..

I'm very similar to yours, just open your mind a little bit and don't think too much.

I don't know what specialty you have, if you have a specialty, you can go to the freelancer** to see, if you don't have a specialty, you can open a small shop on **, and sell some virtual items.

Internet marketing, web page production...

Oh! Politics, bowing, all of them are what you said, we are all used to it, knowing that you have this heart, I thank you on behalf of the "country" and "people" in "China"!

Let me know that the "country" people are like this! ~~

In fact, the following is just to comfort you, you are a good person, I am very sad that another kind person is leaving, but, a word of advice: please be chic in the last days of the world, be chic, peaceful, without any complaints and troubles, and look away like a living fairy Really! Sincerely!

Hope you can do it!

Go well, you will kill yourself if you do too much injustice, you should walk the last part of the road happily.

I can only say one thing: cherish every day now.

It's not a matter of love or not, many marriages have no love, but they have a certain amount of affection after being together for a long time. And marriage is just to find a partner for life, don't take marriage too sacred in this era.

Although they are husband and wife, they are still two individuals, so as long as they are comfortable on their own, they don't rely on marriage. No one asks for anyone. If one of the parties is dissatisfied with this marriage, it will not last.

It's very simple, they have no feelings, they can be together because the girl failed after an extramarital affair, and she will be together now when she sees that no one in this world has feelings. The man has a granddaughter and daughter-in-law due to physical needs.

Maybe they're all afraid of trouble.

Divorce troubles and remarriage.

What happens if you get married again? There will still be such a situation, is it not possible to get divorced again?

It's better to leave it at that, who doesn't care whom.

Only the two of them can give you the answers you want.

They all feel good about themselves.

Why are you in such a hurry?

Lack of security, strong dependence, and insufficient self-control. Generally speaking, you may be a "child" who lacks love and longs to be loved, and it is suitable to find a partner who is more mature than you to take care of you.

I once heard a very warm word, and I'll give it to you.

With me, don't be afraid.

That's because you care too much about your feelings, there is no need to worry about some small things, it's not worth it, the worry is a day of happiness and a day, why not be happy? Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky. When you encounter troubles, think about it, will this little thing be a matter in a few years?

I know that this kind of emotional problem needs to be persuaded to accept and get points. But as a person who has come over, we can't earn your points with a clear conscience.

I feel that your boyfriend personality is flawed, or that your emotional intelligence is too low, like a child. If it were me, I would have left him alone.

Oh, I'm a man. has been married for a few years, and the temperament and personality are really important to the relationship between the two.

If you want love, you have no dignity; to dignity, no love; But that's not the case. Since we are people we can't lose, we can quarrel and quarrel, but we can't hurt each other, see for yourself how you are.

It's not love, I don't feel like he ever loved you at all.

Then tell him not to be so angry about small things in the future.

He did this to you now before he got married, will it be better for you after he gets married? However, happiness is yours, the future is also yours, and everything is only in your thoughts.

If you don't want to be like this in the future, break up as soon as possible! He treated you like this when you didn't belong to him (I mean married), and it's hard to say that he's going to get even worse in the future!

At the beginning, you wanted to separate, and if you separated, you separated, and now you want to use true love to coax me back, love is not something you want to buy, you can sell if you want to sell.

If I met such a person, I would never give it a chance, and I would actually throw things out the window and walk by myself. .

It depends on your ability, for example, accounting, software, programmer, you don't need any eloquence, you just need to be serious, patient, and technical.

There is a saying that most men are born cheap. On this premise, he wants you to call him, and he wants you to give it to her, right, which shows that the relationship between the two of you is still strong and there is no crack. Men should be considerate of women, and the more you don't care about him, the more he stares at you, who will be rare to get to?

It's so easy to change one, and it doesn't take a lot of effort, so he has to make him feel that it is not easy to come by, and he will cherish it. Ignore his text messages and don't reply ** don't answer, it won't take a few days to be absolutely anxious, absolutely ask you what's wrong with you in a low voice, even if you don't know the problem, you will want to admit your mistakes. That's the guy who really cares about you.

But don't abuse this trick too much, it will be a major blow to the relationship.

Hit 3 times, and if you notice that he has changed a little, don't fight.

Then be brave and call him, don't be too reserved, it will make people think that you are very contrived, and it is best to go with the flow.