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In fact, everyone is not the same, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, maybe you think this is your disadvantage, but this also happens to be your advantage. , because that's the only way. You will work harder ...
It's good to look at something a little bit ... Take him as your advantage ... Then you will be a very successful person.
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Your psyche is not confident.
Confident people don't compare themselves to others.
Even if you were a kid and you were better than the kids around you in every way.
It doesn't mean you have confidence.
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Paranoid and small-minded. There are people outside the world, you can't always be better than others, and even people you don't know are already strong enough that you can't even imagine, so what should you do?
Read more books on self-cultivation.
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What a strong man! It's not a bad thing, but it's not good, if it's serious, it's jealousy, so you have to relax your mind, otherwise you will have a day when you are angry, your body is important, take care of yourself, don't always compare with others, if you are too good, you may not dare to marry (marry) you in the future.
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You are a very strong person This kind of personality is good and bad, you will do well in work or study, interpersonally, such a character will easily offend people, try to make yourself smoother, give friends more opportunities to show
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I think you're too competitive and competitive, and that's not a bad thing, because everybody wants to be successful. The key is how you face competition, and healthy competition is a kind of exercise for both you and the people you compete with.
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First of all, thank you very much for letting me see in you the shadow of a sense of justice and a deep reflection on social sorrow, in this powerful and greedy society, there are many people like you, but few people will bring it to the table to talk about, let alone worry about it.
However, if you have such thoughts and behaviors, it cannot be said that you have a problem in your heart, on the contrary, as a person with a conscience and morality, if you don't think like this, it can only mean that you have been assimilated by this society. So what's wrong with you, how can you be so entangled and think so badly not as seriously as you think, this is completely a normal reaction of normal people.
Due to the influence of your education, personal character, outlook on life, and values, it is not surprising that this situation occurs, Li Bai does not like officialdom in the world, Du Fu is worried about the country and the people, and who would say that they have mental illness until now. There are all kinds of life in the world, and people's personalities and aspirations are different, and their views on things are different, so it cannot be said that your views and practices are incorrect and unhealthy. I think you're right.
However, I still have to remind you that being too obsessed, worried, and thinking about something may cause irritability, low mood, decreased interest and other bad emotions in reality, and may produce insomnia, anorexia, headache and other adverse body reactions for a long time, which is not conducive to the healthy development of people's physical and mental health, and should be paid attention to. You have developed a tangled mentality, and if this goes on for a long time, it will affect your normal life, and you should pay attention to alleviating or reducing this bad psychology.
That's all I have to say, and I hope to be happy every day in the future.
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Your entanglement means that you are not wise enough. The wise man has no worries, and there is a wise precept in ancient times.
As long as you can see it as such.
Being able to see through and let go is great wisdom.
The events you are describing are essentially the actions of a group of people. It's all realm phase. There is no substance.
A man who is greedy for the speed of words is beaten by a group of people.
A greedy woman who fights right and wrong is looking for someone to beat someone.
A group of "ignorant" people started beating people.
A pair of so-called lovers built on emotional habits.
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There is a normal psychology common to people who have a conscience, keep the bottom line, and are jealous and hateful, and there is really no need for you to be entangled in this.
What I want to remind you is that you just need to know right from wrong, and you must not be impulsive when you are not sure, and first of all, you must protect yourself from being harmed. In a situation where you have the ability to quell an incident (e.g., you have a large number of people), you can calmly help the weak, and you don't have to overreact to the evildoer, and perhaps he or she will regret their actions after that incident.
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People who have no faith are like this, a little thing can become a big thing, people lose the sacredness in their hearts, they have no reverence, they no longer believe in the power of their hearts, they no longer believe in the power of the divine, but they replace it with savage and ignorant fighting.
You're right, righteous people will be so entangled.
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Don't ever do anything for yourself.
The woman inside you hates fighting, but others don't.
The morality in your heart is not necessarily possessed by others.
The little things in your heart may be more important to others than your life.
The important thing is that the world of the wicked, thinking from the perspective of the good, will never know why.
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Wang Yangming said: "There is no goodness and no disgusting, there are good and malicious moves; Knowing good and knowing evil is conscience, and doing evil for good is a thing. What Wang clearly means is that all good and evil are imposed on things and even ideologies, and are not the nature of things themselves; The reason why there is good and evil is because your mind gives good and evil to things themselves.
If we say so, is there no standard for good and evil in itself? No! There is a standard for good and evil itself, which is "conscience", mainly the "heart of right and wrong" in conscience, this so-called heart of right and wrong is actually the spirit of seeking truth from facts and daring to think, that is to say, the only standard of morality lies in the pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty, Wang Yangming believes:
It's human nature. People have a conscience, otherwise, why are many people often doing evil but worshiping God and Buddha, and showing kindness and generosity? Therefore, it is still necessary to firmly believe in the existence of people's conscience, many people will be temporarily buried by people's interests just because of their lack of education, but they will eventually feel guilty.
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You are a responsible person, you see injustices, you want to manage but can't manage or dare not manage, so you are entangled. You can't change others, you can only change yourself, change your own thinking. I always believe in a saying: If you do too much injustice, you will be killed, and the wicked will be reaped by the wicked.
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The landlord is a good person, this is called a sense of justice, and it's not cool for me to see it! But it won't be entangled.,The forest is big and there are all kinds of birds.,This is the truth of society.,I won't pay attention to these nc at all.,It's better to put these concerns on family and friends who are more worthy of people.,But please believe that there are still many good people in this world!
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It should be your righteous heart that is at work, or you have never encountered this thing, your family has not told you, and you have too little experience in society.
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You're a good comrade.
Have you watched "Heroes of the Sui and Tang Dynasties"?
Empress Dowager Xiao said to Li Shimin: The most bitter thing for men in the world is to have the heart of the Son of Heaven, but not the life of the Son of Heaven.
You want to take care of it, you want to fight it, but your ability is limited, you can't manage it, and of course you will be very miserable today.
To put it more deeply, you don't have the ability to get others to accept your values right now.
Then you should work harder, and when you become famous, you will naturally be able to do what you want to do!
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Overall, you're not numb yet.
I'm tired from work, I watch my kids after work, I wash diapers at night, don't say I watch people fight, even the time I spend on the street is limited.
Don't force yourself if you don't have the strength.
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