I want to ask people how they can change themselves. Very confused.

There is only one you in this world, no one can compare with you, all the advantages you have in the world, the richest person in the world he must not have all, you are you, you take your single-plank bridge, he walks his way, people live to have self-confidence, to have faith, to live like a wolf, to live like a wolf, to have ambition, how to change oneself to set a goal to achieve that goal to move forward, struggle.

Now this society does not collapse, then you are in danger. Self-confidence is the most important thing, how to go in life can only depend on how you do it, others can't show you every way. I would like to introduce you to 2 books [Square and Circle] and [Thick Black Studies], I think these 2 books will change your current situation, and they will also change your life.

Have a great day. Have a nice trip and have a good job.

Change yourself, starting with small things. Go to bed early, wake up early, wash up in time, and speed up the pace of walking. Think about what you do one second and what you want to do the next. Stay away from internet cafes and stuff like that.

Personality will not change, but the way to deal with the problem, and the angle of looking at the problem will change, and the big event you say, in fact, may not be really much of an "event", the key is that it will affect your life and feelings, it is recommended that you read more books, ** OK, look at the problem from more angles, and wish happiness.

Why do you have to deliberately change yourself? Just be yourself! Happiness is the most important thing!

Personality is a very important factor in a person's desire to change. Whether the character is good or bad also directly reflects the quality and cultivation of the individual. The more things a person has experienced, the more mature and sophisticated he will become in dealing with some problems.

Secondly, it is more important to be confident. Believe in yourself! to be !

Have the determination to change, you? Have to change the goal of you? To learn to encourage yourself, you? Hold on, you? Both? Just do it.

Please don't think so, friend.

Everyone has some innate limitations, and I will not encourage you to say that no matter what you do, you will definitely succeed, and I will never irresponsibly say that your life is hopeless.

Every step of life is out of its own, it is bittersweet, ups and downs...

Sadness, anxiety, resentment, and depression will of course invade everyone, and we certainly need a period of time to heal ourselves, but I have to say that a person who knows how to help himself psychologically, a person who pays attention to self-cultivation and self-cultivation on weekdays, the predicament will not bother him for too long.

The confusion in life is often caused by the imperfection of one's own outlook on life, worldview, and values.

Therefore, we should understand that the more we read, the less confusion we can have, and the more reasoning we have, the less ups and downs.

Personally, I suggest that you find some excellent inspirational literature, draw upward strength from it, slowly cultivate your tenacious personality, tenacious spirit, and gradually become what you want to become, this is actually a process that you should enjoy very much, there is nothing happier than watching yourself grow day by day in the mirror.

Finally, I wish you a speedy way out of the predicament and on the road to sunshine...

The nature of the country is easy to change, and what can be done is to recognize one's strengths and avoid weaknesses.

Commit suicide, cut your wrists, buy a piece of tofu to freeze, and hit yourself on the head