How can I make myself confident in front of girls and not be cold when chatting?

Don't pay too much attention to it, you know, something you've been caring about, others may not even pay attention to it.

If you want to reduce such situations, accumulate more consultations, keep up with the rhythm of other people's chats, and bring friends into your own rhythm after you have the strength, KO

You can save money to play girls. Then you can say whatever you want.

Now it is a commodity society, and everything can be solved with money, including the practice of speaking.

That depends on what we're talking about.

Couples, the real thing is to experience together, but there are different points of view. Even if you are in the same job, you have different experiences, choose to share, how to go to your senses, how to dispel those bad emotions? To share, to harmonize, to constantly increase their work, ability, life experience.

At the same time, humorous expression and euphemism to deal with things with high emotional intelligence are things that two people should do.

Share your life and talk about each other's interests and hobbies.

Couples, if you want to chat, in your free time, learn more about each other's preferences, do not require much familiarity, but also know a little about it, so that you can chat without being cold and embarrassed.

Talk along the other person's point of interest, and the other party will realize your good intentions for him (her), so that the relationship can be enhanced.

2. Talk about work.

If there is love, there is bread, this is true love.

If you talk about love is too elegant, and if you talk about money and love is too vulgar, then talk about your work, share the wonderful things you encountered, and let the other party give some advice.

This will make the other party have a sense of trust, and feel that it is for you to participate in her (his) life, which will naturally enhance the relationship.

3. Talk about the good memories of the past.

Many things have happened, and they will be remembered in their hearts, especially the things you have experienced together, and the moments of witnessing your love, knowing that you still remember them will make the other party very moved.

Those memories are a beautiful landscape in life, and when it comes to it, the aftertaste is endless, and it can also warm up the feelings.

4. Talk about future planning.

Love is meant to enter into marriage after all.

Talking about future plans and talking about your inner imagination is also creating a space for hope.

A life of hope is Yoremi, otherwise it is boring.

Isn't it true that your future has me, and my future has you? If you struggle like this, you will have a clear goal, and your feelings will heat up.

Judging from the above description, I personally think that you should pay more attention to this girl, understand her preferences, and talk more about what she is interested in.

If you don't want to be cold, you must pay attention to the proportion when chatting; If you want to be funny and humorous, you need to read more books and expand all kinds of knowledge.

Some people, open and close their mouths only have a few Internet buzzwords, and the girl mentions a very constructive topic, and you hold back for a long time and reply with two sentences of "emmmmm......"You're also very hard", it's amazing to post a few more emojis, it's the same as not talking. If you want to keep the conversation going, you have to make the other party feel the value of the conversation with you, and if you can't say useful words, then it's better not to say it, at least you can leave a quiet and steady image to the other party. Of course, if you don't talk all the time, you'll never be able to show yourself to the other person.

In addition, pay attention to creating a comfortable atmosphere when chatting, if the girl chats with you and even feels disgusting, annoying, and uncomfortable, then the chat is doomed to failure, no matter how funny you say, in the eyes of the other party you can only be a loser.

If you don't have the patience to read the above two paragraphs, remember two words: grasp the balance and learn from others.

Personally, how can I use my skills to get out of the situation of chatting with girls? My answer is: first, you have to communicate and reply according to the content and way of the girl's speech, second, according to the corresponding chat content of the topic or hobby that the girl is interested in, and third, you have to understand what kind of personality the girl you are chatting with, and correspond to the chat style according to the personality.

1. Communicate according to the content of the girl's speech If you don't know the girl very well, then don't bring it yourself when chatting, all the chat methods and rhythm should follow the girl, don't be a straight man at this time, the girl will answer whatever she says, the vast majority of girls are still boys who like humor, sometimes a little humor when chatting with a girl will increase her impression of you, maybe it will leave a little good impression, which is a good construction and help for your future chat.

Second, according to the topics and hobbies that the girl is interested in When you have a bottomless chat, don't say some topics that you care about very much, or topics that the two of you can't fight, you can first be interested in what the girl is interested in, and then slowly pull a series of topics that the girl is interested in, for example, the girl says that she likes to ride, you can come to your words according to the topic of cycling, chatting and chatting, You will know some of the things that the girl likes and more hobbies, so that the conversation will be natural and comfortable, and it will definitely not be cold.

3. Understand what the personality of the girl you chat with is when you get a girl's personality, you will estimate a way of chatting, if the girl is extroverted, then you should not be very bored in the way you chat, so that the other party does not like it, if the other party is introverted, don't talk very hot, very outgoing, you have to be a little more restrained, knowing the other party's personality is also helpful to match with your personality, to construct what kind of chat content.

ConclusionWhen you have no bottom in chatting with girls, you don't know how to speak, listen first, and then express, slowly according to what kind of girl, what kind of character, what kind of topic and things of interest, the topic between you will gradually, and the words should not be too vulgar, elegant when it should be elegant, humorous when it should be humorous, in this way, you will gradually have a set of chat skills and methods, master the unique chat magnetic field between you, and will also control the situation of chatting. It will not make the chat atmosphere between you awkward, and there will be no cold situation.

First of all, the way and rhythm of chatting should follow the girls, don't bring your own rhythm when chatting, the vast majority of girls are still boys who like humor, first go to the sunny day, and then to express, slowly, according to what kind of girl, what kind of character, what kind of topic and what you are interested in, the topic between you will gradually develop, will not make the chat atmosphere between you become awkward, and there will be no cold situation.

You should learn to expand the topic, avoid awkward situations, and find the right way to find the topic. It should be from the perspective of the previous topic, expanding a new topic.

I think there are many good skills, the first is to learn to chat, learn to express yourself, and the second is to find more topics, so that there will be no cold situation.