I m 24, he s 45, he has 3 kids, should I be with him, what the hell should I do?

You love him, I believe, but he doesn't love you. He takes from you, but he will not give it for you. He has a wife, but he has a relationship with you, which only shows that he is an irresponsible man, betrayed his knotted wife, and ruined the innocence of another girl.

You should pursue your own happiness and find a good man to live with. Taking a step back, even if one day you have results, you will live under pressure, you have to face his flowers, but also face his children, and even more so to face other people's rumors, for a man who doesn't love you, it's really not worth it. He is just your passerby, not your destination, a woman still needs someone to hurt will be happier, leave him, your real other half is waiting for you.

You shouldn't be with him, be sober, you're still young and don't act impulsively, time will dilute everything. He's a family man, and you're not suitable.

Cut and untidy - the typical little girl's thoughts.

For you, this kind of thinking is the most important thing. You are just a tool for him, and society is realistic. A few years of youth have passed, people are old and yellow, who will still look at you.

Ning believes that there are ghosts in the world who can't believe in men's broken mouths.

It's been broken early, after this bad relationship, change the environment, get rid of this man, get in touch with other boys, find one you like, and live a normal life.

Very simple. Think about your future, your future. Later on later!

Innocent and poor girl, are you so difficult that you lack father's love? The sea of bitterness is boundless, and looking back is love!

It's just that the old cow ate the tender grass, and he didn't pay attention to his ......There are a lot of questions that you may not have had time to think about......Put you, him and his children on the island in time, I don't think his children will necessarily recognize you, not to mention that his wife is still ......Many of the ideas are not realistic, but they have gone astray for a while......It's better to quarantine for a while.

Looking at your appearance, it has already been determined, and no matter how much we persuade us, it will be in vain.

Why don't you follow your feelings, I think you are willing to be willing even if you are deceived, who told you to love him, don't you know what he is like at the beginning Besides, it's not up to you to decide whether you can be together or not, it seems to be completely in the hands of that man, so my conclusion is that you will be together, but the situation will not change, as long as you still love him, you will always be together.

Let's separate. ,.I don't even know what you love him, think about it yourself.

A man has to be responsible, can a man who has no sense of responsibility rely on it, think about it, he often has a bad relationship with his wife, and from his wife's standpoint, there is a lover of you outside. You still know this, and I think there are many others who don't know. Is it good to have such a man**?

Isn't there a small broken company?

Men are not bad here, you have to figure this out. Such a man can be 9 ...

One of the things he deceived was this kind of innocent girl.

Not to go yet. I'm dizzy.

No, the age disparity is too great, he is a typical young grass, I believe that your parents, relatives and friends will not support you.

This young lady, divide and merge with you! You have to really see what your heart needs, listen to your heart more, and also see clearly what his heart needs!

If I were you, I'd be separated! If you turn against your relatives and friends because of him or are at odds with him, and he treats you badly in the future, I say that if he treats you badly, you will have a shadow in your heart, do you think a person will be happy after living in the shadows?

Besides, you really should think about your parents! Can a person be happy without a harmonious family?

If you still haven't made up your mind to break up, you should think carefully about why he wants to divorce his wife. A person who does not cherish feelings, will he give you happiness?

Rather than long-term pain, it's better to give up for a while!

Separated, the reason is that I don't want to say it, only those two words.

It's hard if he really loves you. Let him divorce now.

Maybe in your opinion, no matter what others say, you don't think they understand, after all, feelings are a matter of two people. But I still want to give you advice from the perspective of a bystander, many people who have forgotten their love are clamoring for their love to transcend the world, purely for love, or what kind of high-sounding thing. In fact, it may be that only they know the real situation.

Many times you have a crush on someone older than you because he has a mature charm in him that his peers don't have, and this is present at any stage. For example, when I was in junior high school, I thought that boys my age were ridiculously naïve, and those seniors in high school and college were so attractive. But when I go to high school and college, I will feel that a man with a successful career is attractive.

So I want to tell you that someone you have a crush on may be ordinary, or even slightly inferior at his age. You say that you love him, then you can try to imagine that twenty years later, when he happens to become poor like an old man on the street, and he seems humble among other old men, you still have the same mentality as now, and you feel that you love him, so much so that you can't see other men in your eyes. Then you really love him.

Be together now, I bless you. But if not, you should think about it, you can meet better young men in your good years, and grow old with you.

With him, you just spoil yourself, you know? I know that you are very reluctant to give up this paragraph now, but you definitely regret it together, don't you give yourself half of the answer, otherwise you are still asking what is here.

This kind of person can't be trusted, you think he and his wife have 3 children and are divorced, this kind of man has no sense of responsibility.

Get rid of it sooner, what kind of thing is this? Why are you so confused?

The children of the male species are about the same age as you, there can only be one wife, and the concubines can be in groups..."How many good sisters do you have" Listen to that song, you're just a sister! I'm really ashamed of you, the sorrow of the post-80s! Guo Haizao Reality Edition - -

You are an old fritter and a sao goods are not fake at all to say that a woman sha.

Do you know why there is such a thing as a stupid woman? When you figure it out, it's estimated that it's too late, and the stepmother is not easy to do.

As a woman, if you like and care about a man, you won't take the initiative to contact him, if it were me, I would want to see my boyfriend, how could I not take the initiative to contact. Actually, I don't think it's important to have a child, the important thing is whether you are her last one, according to this, you still break off with her, she doesn't care about you very much.

If you can break it, you will naturally break it, and if you can't break it, even if it seems unreasonable, you can't separate it.

If I'm in love with a guy, I'd like him to have a couple of girlfriends, preferably an ex-wife, preferably a child, no, a few more, and I like to play with kids, but I don't want to think of them as my kids, it's better to think of them as friends.

Whoever marries such a woman is unlucky! Impact on the happiness of three generations!

Although her background is not innocent, love should be together. Love depends on the heart.

It's up to you, if it were me, I wouldn't be able to accept it.

Parents shouldn't care.

But your own aesthetics must be normal.

Do you think you are a child or do you have a child to be disciplined, comb your own words [back], it represents self-confidence.

It's time to make your own decisions, choose a hairstyle that suits you, and don't necessarily listen to your parents.

Yes, equipping your child with a mobile phone can not only give him a face, but also make the child understand better, so that the child can understand you better.

Mobile phones are now a very common means of communication, it is normal for children to have mobile phones, it is very common, and the excess worry is nothing more than being afraid of being distracted when studying again, if it is a child who wants to learn, he has a heart, and will not be disturbed, 17 years old is no longer a child! `

Question: 13 years old.

If you want to use a smartphone, I recommend waiting until you are in high school to give it to him, which will be better.

13-year-olds don't need to use smartphones at all. If I use it for communication, I recommend the elderly machine. Yes, just hit **.

Because I especially understand a psychology and a hobby at their age, boys like to play those games of Glory of Kings. You buy him a smartphone and he'll be addicted to making games. It is equivalent to not learning well in school.

It depends on how old the children are, the self-control of children in elementary and junior high schools is not high, and it is best not to have a mobile phone.

Should you give your child a mobile phone? Children can have mobile phones, but there are rules on how to use them. A mother set these 10 rules for her child for reference.

It should be given, the girl is weak, and with a child, it should be appeased.

Yes, men should be self-reliant and look like men.

First of all, find out whether he is good with you first or the first child! If you have a child first, you don't have to suffer, like him and be with him! If he gets along with you first, and then has a child with someone else, then you might as well let it go, maybe one day he will abandon you again!!

I understand your contradictions, first of all, ask your heart if you love him or sympathize with him more. If the former is nothing to hinder your right to pursue love, if love is mixed with sympathy, love will be spoiled. He will definitely be good to you when he pursues you.

Bad doesn't appeal to you either. What you have to consider is whether you are willing to co-raise the child with him, after all, the child is innocent. How long can your sense of responsibility last?

Ask your heart, think quietly and you'll find the answer.

Are you sympathetic to him? That's why I love the house and Wu also pity the child. If so. From now on, remember that you are already a mother of a 2-year-old child. If you can't. Forget it.

Also, a reminder to you. Such a situation. Just remember "dedication". If you don't have the mental preparation, forget it.

Eh, the biological ones are not necessarily filial piety.

The child is not the problem, the key depends on how you look at the child.

And why did they break up, why did they have children.

These issues have to be figured out, and it won't be good if they happen again in the future.

Children are always innocent, and they are born without a choice.

It's up to you, it's your life, and it's up to you to decide what we're advising about.

The child is not the problem, the key depends on how you look at the child.