What do I do in the face of two suitors?

If it's me, I will choose a man who has true love for me, and if you like a man again, she doesn't care about you in the slightest, do you think this can develop in the long run? That's just wishful thinking on your part. I think you should be in contact with the latter for a while, and when you really feel that he is good to you or start to miss him, this is when your true love comes.

My words I will choose the person I like. I think that's more interesting.

But if you don't get it right, you'll get bruises, depending on what you think.

But don't let the people who like you get hurt.

What do you want, ask yourself.

No one else can wade through this troubled water, let alone decide what you think.

If your happiness is in the hands of others, then your life will be miserable.

Perhaps, you just need a reason to ask this question.

All develop and develop, and in the end, whoever falls in love will choose whom.

When we meet our suitors, say that we really don't like themThen we should also be tactful in the way we speak, and express our attitude, so that we can avoid not being embarrassed when we meet again next time.

1. Treat suitors as friends. The acquaintance between two people is also a kind of fate, since we have not become lovers, then we can become friends. Although it will seem a little embarrassing, but after getting along for a long time, they will gradually forget some such things with each other.

Because a friend is a friend, he can't go beyond the boundaries of lovers, let alone really become a pair of lovers, so everyone must be aware of such a point, and adjust their mentality to look at it, so that we will not feel embarrassed.

2. Smile at your suitors. In the absence of hatred between two people, we can smile and treat our suitors, because smiling can shorten the distance between two people, and it can also make people feel intimate, so smiling is also a way to get along. After all, I had a similar experience myself, when there was a boy who had been pursuing me and I had someone I liked, so I told him that I already had a boyfriend so that he could get out of the way, and I kept smiling at him, and eventually I became friends with him who didn't talk about anything.

Whether we are getting along with someone who has pursued us, or when we are with someone we have pursued, we should calm our minds and deal with them rationally, so that we will not appear awkward in the process of communication between two people. At the same time, when we are looking for topics, we can deviate from the love problem to ask each other, but ask each other about their recent work and some things in life, so that we can get along with each other very well, I hope everyone can have such a concept.

If you find yourself being chosen, you should calmly analyze the situation and make the right decision. Here are some possible ways to do it:

1.Don't rush into a decision and ask for more information: ask the other person what they think and feel, understand their considerations, and this may give you a better idea of whether you really fit in with the other person and whether you want to give up on Yu Chun.

2.Clarify your feelings: If you have deeper feelings for one of them, this is your chance to express yourself, let them know how you feel, and let them understand their connection to you.

3.Decision: Finally, make a rational and wise decision. If you are not satisfied with either party, then consider giving up and moving on to find your other half.

The key is to remember not to make decisions lightly and make sure you already know who is really right for you, and not because you are forced to make a choice.

1. Carry out activities: You can organize some of the same activities, so that they can participate together, learn about their interests and hobbies, and also increase their communication between them, so that they can understand each other better.

2. Record observations: You can secretly observe their relationship to see what special behaviors they have when they are together, and you can record their interactions, as well as their behaviors and remarks, so as to obtain accurate data and analysis results.

3. Dialogue and communication: You can talk to them regularly, ask them how they feel and what they say about each other, and you can understand the depth of their emotions and whether their relationship is really deep.

4. Let them think for themselves: Give them some opportunities to think for themselves, so that they can think about their relationship and whether their relationship can continue to develop, so as to help them make more intelligent decisions.