Can love be forced? Can forced love last?

The twisted melon is not sweet, and the people who are forced to stay will not go far, and the forced feelings will not have any good results.

If you don't love you, don't beg and wait for him, you are like a widow for him, but he has never broken the warbler and swallow by his side; You are worried about him, tossing and turning night and night, and you just want to get closer to him, but you don't know that he is also looking for relatives and asking how to get rid of your entanglement.

Some people really don't just wait for him to get him back, a woman's youth is only a few years, and impossible people should turn back as soon as possible, don't waste a good time.

Blindly seek perfection.

Blindly compromising is not so much kindness, but cowardice without principles and bottom lines, others will not appreciate your goodness, but will only think that you have no personality to bully.

Friends who always take advantage of you, don't associate anymore, you don't owe anyone in this world except your parents, there is no reason to keep aggrieved and sacrifice yourself to fulfill his interests; Don't be reluctant to give up your concessions and compromise feelings, and the feelings of two people are all supported by you alone, aren't you tired?

You are always wronged by yourself, and others will inevitably not be polite to you; The road of life is too difficult to walk, others can not feel sorry for you, you have to hurt yourself.

Unjustified jealousy.

Everyone is jealous, and if you handle it well, it can become motivation, and if you don't handle it well, it will be very troublesome.

Seeing that others, especially the people around him, are better off and more successful than themselves, their eyes are red, their hearts are uneven, and there is even a trace of resentment: why is it that everyone was the same at the beginning, he is now at the peak of his life, and I am still struggling in the mud?

So he lamented that God is not long-sighted, and the world is unfair, but he refuses to see how many times others work harder than you, what advantages they have more than you, and how much higher than your vision.

will only be sour, uneven, complaining, will not work hard, motivated, study, what is the use of such unreasonable jealousy?

The market gas that is calculating.

The market gas is down-to-earth when it sounds good, but it is vulgar and ugly, no vision, calculating, and loves to mess with right and wrong. Qi clan.

The highest evaluation of a woman's beauty is "not eating fireworks in the world", with amazing beauty and charm; And a woman who cares about the market can't let go of a single sesame seed in her eyes, and all she sees is an entanglement of interests, which is not cute at all. No matter how beautiful such a woman is, she will be annoying.

In this life, the warm fireworks of firewood, rice, oil and salt can be there, but the too narrow and vulgar market gas can still go around as far as it goes, because in addition to the rotation in front of the pot and behind the stove, women should also have a broader world!

Forced love will be happy if it trembles, two people love each other from the heart, that kind of love is unobstructed by any external environment and outsiders, true love cannot be forced, and in the end it can only be broken up in two ......Love is a matter of two people, and two people must be willing to be with each other, so that love can be happy and last. It is necessary for two people to attract each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other, so that love can make two people grow and make their lives more meaningful. Asking two people who don't love each other and forcing them to be together is a kind of torture for both people and it can't last long.

Don't say love easily, it's not easy to love someone, love is honey for men and women in the world, and it is also arsenic. However, love and love, as the years fade, the feelings fade, so that all the women who fell in love before were like drinking arsenic, becoming a lingering death in life. Even so, everyone still has no hesitation to pursue and taste.

In fact, love is like life, cold and warm self-knowing, although some people love very hard in love, very heartache, but still like grasping a life-saving straw and not letting go. I can be someone you like, or someone you love right now, but definitely not someone you love the most, you know? It's better to say clearly early about the feelings that are destined to not be able to respond, but can you really make it clear?

Duan Mo, who had already fallen into the mud of love, couldn't pull out, and when he first met Chu Lin, Duan Mo at that time didn't believe that he would fall in love with such a bland woman in the future, which made him haunted by his dreams. But you love her and want to have her, but you have never asked the other party if you want it, Duan Mo, who has wanted something since he was a child, felt frustrated with Chu Lin for the first time. There is no love for no reason in this world, love her will always be because she has a deep attraction to you at a certain point, Duan Mo was just curious about Chu Lin at the beginning, curious that she seemed to be able to be optimistic about anything, and then wanted to contact her further, but the closer he got to her, the more he couldn't control himself, and in the end, even Duan Mo himself didn't think that he didn't care about anything from childhood to adulthood, and he would eventually fall into Chu Lin's hands if he didn't pay attention to it.

Since the thing or person he likes, of course he got her, whether it was robbed or by other means, but Duan Mo didn't think about what he wanted since he was a child, what if the other party was unwilling to live or die, Chu Lin was just an ordinary person who couldn't be ordinary anymore, Duan Mo For him, at first she didn't know his identity, she felt that he was arrogant and unstoppable, and later after knowing his identity, she felt that the two were people from different worlds, no matter how hard they tried, they couldn't stand together. But Duan Mo didn't think so, as long as he thought of it, even if it was an ordinary and humble person, he would hold it in the palm of his hand, put it on the tip of his heart, and take care of it all his life.

People say that the twisted melon is not sweet, and the forced love is not round. For feelings, many people are prone to obsession. Deeply in love with the other person, you insist that the other person should belong to you, and sometimes it is just an illusion that you feel good about yourself.

What is destined not to be obtained, it is necessary to force it. Caring only for one's own mind and ignoring the wishes of others is also a manifestation of selfishness and irresponsibility. Feeling too good about oneself ignores the basis of reality, traps others, and restricts oneself.

Trapped in a weaving dream, he was complacent and refused to move forward.

Love should be a symbol of beauty, and it is the resonance of two people who are attracted to each other and have a clear heart. Feelings should be a matter of two people, one party decides to let go or never cares, while the other party is struggling to pursue and refuses to let go. Take the most basic love in love as an example, two people can't communicate in their hearts, and their thoughts are not on the same channel, how can this relationship last for a long time?

The forcible love will never be consummated, he will not be able to get the sincerity of the other party, and naturally he will not get the blessing of the people around him.

Don't force what you can't get, keep asking for it, first of all, it will cause a certain amount of pressure on your psychology. Thinking about it day and night, you only want to achieve this one goal, and you can't pursue it hard. Let you suffer physically and mentally, and in serious cases, it will also cause psychological distortion and resentment of unfair fate.

Persistence alone does not succeed, it also requires an improvisable mind. It is also necessary to understand a truth, the twisted melon is not sweet, don't force what you can't get, fate is destined for you to have no fate with this matter. Forcing it will only make you physically and mentally exhausted, and the gains outweigh the losses.

Some people have some things that are destined not to be with you, so it is better to let go of them simply and end up relaxed. Forcing what you can't get will cause you a psychological burden, and you will be like a string being tightened. If you don't relax, you will definitely deform in the end.

Before doing anything, you must think clearly about what your purpose is, what is the meaning of this matter, and don't chase after it with enthusiasm, which is also a manifestation of selfishness.