What kind of experience is it for outsiders to spend the New Year in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou

During the Chinese New Year, the whole city is like a dead city, the city is very lively, and there are basically no people.

I feel that I don't have a sense of belonging, after all, I don't have some of the taste of my hometown and the customs of my hometown.

I think Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou are too emotionless, if the New Year is too sad, too cold and ruthless, I don't like it.

15 years with children flew from Tianjin to Shenzhen, accompanied by the husband who was on a business trip there for a New Year, from the north of the ice and snow to the south of the spring flowers, it feels really good, very nostalgic, all kinds of parks, eat food, take pictures, from childhood to adulthood for the New Year has not been so warm for the New Year, and I want to go again.

The feeling of going to school on Sunday, the feeling of being at school when you should go home and not go home and make up for classes at school.

I feel a little sad that I can't go home for the Chinese New Year because of work, but no matter how far away it is, our hearts will always go back during the New Year.

It's a bustling and beautiful place, but you still miss your hometown.

Seeing that everyone was lively, but I was alone in the field for the New Year, I wondered if my hard work was worth it.

Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou discriminate against outsiders, and they will be treated unfairly when they celebrate the New Year there.

When the lights are on in this family, I always think of the people in my hometown and the food in my hometown. In this huge city, I can only be accompanied by loneliness.

In fact, the New Year in the big city is the same, more simple and casual, these years to go back to the countryside for the New Year, the New Year's flavor is getting weaker and weaker, of course, it is normal for a person to work hard outside and want to go back for the New Year.

Lonely, lonely, looking at this big city, but there is no hope that something belongs to you.

Live it as you should.

It's like being at school on Sundays, with no sense of belonging.

It's not that everyone who enters the big city can mix well, the opportunity is always reserved for those who can make it to the end.

In the eyes of many people, Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, these Shoushan cities have high wages and high treatment. They didn't think about the pressure of living in these cities, so they went with the flow. The results can be imagined.

Working in a big city means waking up two or three hours earlier than usual each day and squeezing into the subway during rush hour. Add to that the stress of work. Especially for those who have never lived in a city before, it can be difficult for them to adjust for a while.

Big cities do have a lot of opportunities, and it is not an exaggeration to describe them with the five words "everywhere". But can you be sure that you are the one who found the piece of gold in the vast sea of people? High wages and high benefits, this is true for those who can afford it.

First, you have no education, and second, you have no work experience, what do you use to fight with them? Aren't you just doing some hard work? Do you live in a rental house with more than a dozen people?

There is also regional discrimination, which is reflected in work, treatment, and various benefits. Even if you've lived in those cities for a few years, you say you've adapted to life there. But when you want to buy a house in these places, you will find that many questions come flooding in.

The problem of household registration, as well as the problem of children's schooling. So many people had to leave the city.

Of course, not all of them are so disgraced, and a small number of them are lucky. Even better than the locals mixed in. In the 80s of the 20th century, they left home to go to other places, making full use of the open economic policy at that time to open stores and factories.

Now he is worth more than hundreds of millions and has become a household name.

In fact, life in a big city is not as glamorous as it seems on the surface, and those who are successful often pay much more than ordinary people behind the scenes. If you can't bear the pressure of the big city, go about your life in peace.

Ah Meow is a Cantonese person, my hometown is a relatively backward city in Guangdong, and I am a rural person, so many young people in the countryside choose to go to Guangzhou and Shenzhen to work hard. I think that people who work hard in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou earn more money than in their hometowns, but they spend less time with their families. Last summer, I also went to work in a factory in Shenzhen for summer vacation, where I met a lot of uncles and aunts who were working hard away from home.

There is an aunt in Anhui, she and her husband have been working hard outside for three years, and they have repaid the family's loan of more than 200,000 yuan. I admire them from the bottom of my heart. The factory does not have a canteen, but there are people at the factory gate who pull fast food to sell.

I bought an eight-dollar fast food, ate a big chicken leg and went back to the workshop to rest. When I got back to the workshop, I saw that aunt eating steamed buns there, and I went over to say hello to her, and she asked me what I ate, and I said that I ate a fast food for eight yuan. Auntie looked surprised and said eight yuan fast food?

It's half a week's worth of food. It turned out that the aunt ate two steamed buns every day, and a glass of boiled water was a meal, and only bought a little meat to eat on Sundays. My aunt has two sons at home, and my aunt and her husband came to Guangdong to work here more than ten years ago.

Because he has been working in other places, the relationship with his son is not very close, and a few years ago, the two sons begged for wives, and owed more than 100,000 debts because of marriage. So now we can only pay off our debts slowly by cutting back on food and clothing.