What behaviors do you think will make others think that they are very qualified?

Sometimes Hou's high quality is actually just reflected in a warm greeting.

When driving and encountering someone crossing the road, they will consciously slow down and stop, let pedestrians pass first, and then start, I feel that such people are very polite and qualified.

When eating at the same time as other people, I don't think such people are very qualified.

My neighbor had to move furniture upstairs for fear of disturbing me, so I asked in advance if it would affect me.

When you go out to eat with others in the future, if you can't adjust the position, remember to keep the seat facing the bathroom for yourself, or when you don't eat, you will look up at the bathroom, and others will feel weird in their hearts. ”

When I took the bus, there was a migrant worker wearing a construction site uniform and a gray face. Before getting off the bus, I took out a towel from my bag, wiped the seat, and got off the bus. At that time, my heart was really touched, behind the beauty and glamour of the city, in fact, some people sacrificed their dignity in exchange, and did not avoid migrant workers. ‍‍

In the wine field, people who can take the initiative to toast but do not try to persuade them to drink are very qualified. For quality people, I always give them a few more glasses.

We all get a pitch, but every time we can smile on the other end and politely say thank you to someone who doesn't need it, they have a culture. We can always see people handing out flyers on the street, but they can smile and politely say thank you to the people who don't need it, they are cultivated. Because cultivation is to smile at everything and be polite to everything.

The most qualified is my husband. When my husband drives, he pays special attention to never adding traffic jams, and even if there is a traffic jam, he will drive in order; Parking always leaves a distance for others to travel, even if it is far away, it will not affect the public environment. ‍‍

There are a lot of these, such as people who can't talk loudly casually on the bus, and people who can take the initiative to give up their seats to the elderly and pregnant women. Someone else gets out of the car, someone who can take the initiative to help move things down, and so on. The quality of these people is definitely very good.

A colleague who worked in the first two years of graduation, of course, is also an old-timer, doing journalism, smoking is particularly addicted, 3 packs of cigarettes a day, when writing long editorials and the like, the cigarette is more fierce, but never smoked in the office, no matter how uncomfortable it is, it was 07 years, the country is not like now advocating not smoking in public! And as an old-timer leader of the department, he takes into account the feelings of others and leads by example, I personally think the quality is still very high! ‍‍

I remember a public welfare activity, cleaning the sanitation under the fragrant mountain, a 70-year-old man came to participate in the activity in a wheelchair, picked up garbage, became a volunteer tour guide, and wore a red armband on his body, and from time to time there would be people who asked for directions to greet it and protect the environment. She said that Xiangshan is like her home, and she has been walking in the mountains for decades, enjoying flowers and exercising. This is a particularly high-quality and touching thing I have encountered. ‍‍

On a two-lane road with a constant flow of traffic, I drove from east to west, the cars were closely lined up and passed in turn, and a car in the opposite lane was turning, trying to pass through the traffic, but there was no car to give way, and the convoy could not insert a needle tightly. There was a long line of cars behind the car, and the horns were honking one after another, as if they were all busy going home for a hot meal. I flapped the brakes, but in 5 seconds, the opposite car passed in front of me, and he gave a thumbs up behind the windshield, and my mood seemed to be a beam of light. ‍‍

Once accompanied the child to take the vaccination, a row of chairs at the epidemic prevention station became a ladder for the mothers to step on, all footprints, a young mother also had to step on the baby's clothes, she put her clothes on the footprints, and then stepped on the completion of the dressing action. ‍‍

I remember once returning to my hometown in Shaanxi from Guangdong during the Spring Festival, and this train was from Chengdu, Guangdong! There were a lot of people on the bus, but I was lucky enough to buy a sleeper ticket! At that time, there was a person who got on the train and fell asleep directly on the sleeper and snored, the snoring sound was really earth-shattering, and it is estimated that friends who often take the train can understand!

At that time, there was a woman with a child in the same sleeper, and she couldn't sleep because of the snoring at night, so she woke up the snoring person and asked him if he could make a quieter noise, which affected everyone's rest! And guess what? The man leaned on the lower bunk all night and didn't sleep, and only slept under the quilt after dawn the next day, and of course the snoring sounded again!

But I was really impressed at the time! I have never met a person like this in a car in a car all these years! ‍‍

There are always small sundries such as snack bags in the corridors of the old residential area, which may be left by a naughty child, and the cleaning staff fish for three days and dry the nets for two days, and sometimes a bag can stay in the elevator for a week. Later, I found that the sanitation situation in the corridor had improved, and I thought that the cleaner had been changed. When I entered the elevator that day, I saw the upstairs uncle and his 5-year-old grandson were also there, and after I reached the first floor, I stepped out quickly, and heard the uncle behind me say to his grandson

Little tree, pick up the candy wrappers you threw and pick up the few around you."

<> "What behaviors will make others think you are very cultured.

Upbringing is a requirement for one's own wisdom and skill, and a wider tour is kindness to others.

1.Listen carefully to everyone's expressions, and when he expresses them, he responds with achievements, and stops in moderation and does not exaggerate. 2.Pay attention to your back when you enter the door and help others down the door. It's similar when you get on the elevator, press it for someone else.

3.For those who are stronger than themselves, admiration is not flattery, respect is not slander.

4.Always be humble and never try to force your own views into the heads of others.

5.Don't say hard things, don't do soft things.

6.Copying something from someone else's hard drive is "copying" instead of "cutting".

7.His eyes are full of longing and yearning for all good things, and his heart is filled with tolerance and understanding of all unfortunate things.

8.Be a serious, dedicated listener and never take pleasure in spreading other people's privacy.

9.Know how to be proportionate and restrained.

10.Bravely admit mistakes in a timely manner, rather than trying to cover up arguments and escape, or whitewash them afterwards.

i1.When faced with doubts or questions, do not shirk and respond generously.

l2.If you don't want it, you just say that what you don't want is the attitude.

i3.Don't shake your legs when you sit, and don't chirp when you eat.

l4.If you are addicted to smoking, you will automatically go to non-public places.

15.Be able to perceive the difficulties and dilemmas of others, and help others resolve them gently.

l6.On rainy days, driving past puddles will slow down and drive gently without making a big splash.

I believe that in dealing with people, cultured people can make people feel included and respected.

1.Smile at people.

I often meet two female neighbors.

One met with a smile and said hello, and chatted a few words of homely things.

One was greeted by me with a smile, and she reluctantly nodded back.

Slowly, I like to stop and chat with the previous neighbor and just smile and nod my head to say hello when I meet the latter.

When getting along, a smile can make people feel kindness and respect.

2.Courtesy and inclusiveness.

At a departmental gathering, I saw a 2-year-old girl snatch a toy car from a 5-year-old boy.

I thought there was going to be a big crying scene, but the little boy instructed the little girl to play with toys.

The little boy is young, and he also knows how to be polite to the child and tolerate her willfulness.

It can be seen that he has a home-upbringing.

3.It's not difficult to speak.

While chatting with a group of people, you say that something is missing.

There is a type of person who is quick to detect and grasp it.

There is a category of people who allow you to be sloppy.

The former makes you careful, and the latter gives you peace of mind.

A cultured person does not deliberately embarrass and be aggressive.

<> "What Behavior Qi is known as will make others think that you are uneducated.

1.Other people's things, whether it's a house, a car, something they use, or even idols, have to be evaluated. For example, "your bedroom in this house is so small", "your car smells a little strong", "why is your clothes this color". You know, your reviews are really annoying.

2.When eating together, cough up phlegm and wash your nose in public, if you must do these things, please go to the bathroom to solve it.

3.Always bring your bad tastes to your interactions with friends or your other half, and the other party's mood will also be ruined by you.

A cultivated person can be reflected in daily behavior and language, it is a very comfortable thing to get along with a cultivated person, and becoming a cultivated person is the homework we have to do, so, what behaviors can show that a person is very cultivated?

Punctuality is a quality, and the fast pace of modern life calls for people's sense of time. Punctuality is about keeping promises and getting where you want to go on time, no exceptions, no excuses, and having to do it at all times. Even if you have to miss the appointment for special reasons, you should notify the other party in advance and express your apologies to the other party.

This is not a small matter, it represents your quality and attitude towards being a person.

Think twice about speaking, and then behave tactfully, be a little sleek, speak must be able to do it, and don't say what you can't do, remember to say the water that spills out, like in addition to the appearance can show people's temperament, language and demeanor are also very show people's taste, and people who know how to speak are also a kind of taste.

Be kind, speak softly, and speak softly. When talking to others, always look them in the eye and keep them focused. Instead of flipping through things, reading books and newspapers, absent-mindedly, and showing an indifferent look. When we communicate, we should be calm and well-founded, and if we open our throats and speak, we will not achieve the desired goal, but will affect the people around us, and even make people annoying.

Talking is a very embarrassing situation, very uncomfortable for both parties to talk, it will greatly affect the interest of both parties in the conversation, and even make the other party feel disgusted, so that both parties can not communicate normally. Positive conversation is not an exaggeration, and a person's lifestyle and way of thinking will be reflected in the way they speak. A person who can speak positively, gently, and energetically must have a beautiful life.

Everyone can't be an all-rounder, but everyone has their own strengths. After all, one person's wisdom and ability are limited, and only by gathering the wisdom of many people can we accomplish great things. With this understanding, we will be kind and humble to others.

If you can maintain a humble and easy attitude, then you will be more able to win the respect and admiration of others.

The ancients said: "Words must be believed, deeds must be fruitful" is the best interpretation of commitment. Every honest person must make a promise after carefully considering his ability, because for the honest person who has a promise and a promise, a broken appointment and a late arrival are a manifestation of dishonesty.

Broad-mindedness, generosity is often used with tolerance, tolerance and generosity are a virtue, he requires people to be pure-hearted and have few desires. "A person's mind is narrow if there are many desires, and wide if there are few desires. "Those who have small bellies and chicken intestines and cannot tolerate others are selfish.

When you meet an acquaintance on the road, take the initiative to say hello to them. When eating with others, don't make small noises. When communicating with others, you should use your heart and tone calmly. Ask for the other person's opinion before making a decision.

When talking to others, he will stare at your eyes seriously, choose to evaluate a person's appearance at will, when eating, he will keep his front of him clean, and will not turn the turntable at will, after seeing you, he will respect you very much, and in the process of talking, he will also respect your ideas, and will not belittle you at will.

Use unused chopsticks to pick up vegetables for others, first invite others to sit down, do not stir with their own chopsticks, speak very gently, and peel shrimp for each other is very educated.

If you want to make the other person feel that they are well educated, then you can start with the words and personal behavior, and don't let the other person feel that they are rude.

I don't scold people casually, I don't say dirty, I put respect for others first, and I think about others at all times.

In fact, there are many behaviors that can be seen that the other party is very valuable, for example, it may be seen from small things, such as his every move to 15 actions.

Kind, polite, polite, always smiles at you. Then the person is very educated.

1 Knowing people but not judging people Knowing reason does not argue.

2 After you have a boyfriend, you don't have an affair with other people.

3 Don't poke people's sore spots, don't divulge secrets, and don't mix with other people's feelings4 Reject people you don't like in time, and use others as a spare tire if they don't like them5 Respect everyone, regardless of identity and status.

This person will be amiable no matter what he does, warm to people, gentle and elegant in speech and demeanor, respect for everyone, think about others in everything, treat people sincerely and never say bad things to others, such a person is a very cultured person.

First, try to stand on the right side when going up and down the stairs, and if you are in a group of two people, walk one after the other, leaving the left space for those who need it.