The 10 most heart breaking sentences of justification 15

If parents in the world could truly assume their responsibilities, the peaceful and prosperous era of world harmony would have arrived long ago. The so-called justification is nothing more than a search for reasons to shirk responsibility.

If it hurts, it hurts, children are quite sensitive, and parents have to spend a lot of effort to make up for it, not just one or two sentences of explanation.

Hate iron but not steel? Diligent? Good medicine is good for disease?

What I want to say when I see your question is, don't use these reasons to break your child's heart.

As a parent of a child, don't think that everything is for the good of the child, scolding or even beating is the most effective and immediate way

You must know that children are innocent and ignorant, and they do not know truth, goodness, and beauty as soon as they land.

It's not that you're born knowing what's right and what's wrong.

As a parent of a child, you should not use such a "strategy" to educate your children.

It is precisely because they are the parents of their children that their words and deeds do not affect their children, and because they are the parents of their children, parents have to bathe them in their positive and warm side.

A child is like a piece of white paper, if there is a typo on it, can he use a pen to scribble it and leave a heavy stroke? Or use an eraser to gently remove them?

What the hell is that?

According to the specific explanation of things, your words are too general.

<><1) What is the use of me raising you?

2) When did I promise you to be wild?

3) I, Qi Han, are all for your good!

4) Why do you bully you without bullying others?

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Stupid, useless stuff.

Tell your child: You're not stupid.

Who labels children as "stupid"? If you don't want your child to be a "". Appreciate your child's simple words on a thumbs up in the middle of your life that can affect your child's life.

If I say no, I can't. ”

Don't play "because I'm your mom and dad".

"Arbitrariness" is not the best way to educate, fear is not the same as convincing, respect the child's choice, learn to consult with the child, listen to the child's advice.

I don't care about you anymore, just let it be. ”

Don't say it if you don't have the strength!

Don't impose the will of parents on your child, stop empty preaching, respect is the best way, when criticizing your child, be careful not to hurt your child, tolerate your child's "bad work", and don't force him to do things he doesn't like for the time being.

Shut up! How are you just disobedient! ”

Don't blindly ask your child to obey you, give your child the right to argue, cultivate an assertive child, learn to talk to your child, and silence will be more powerful when your child talks back to her parents.

If you score 100 points, I'll buy it for you...

What if you are. We just. Parents who make decisions about their goals and plans based on their children's performance, rather than their children's goals, should be within reach.

Let the child know what they are cute about, let the child Lu Chazi know that learning is his own business, and don't take the child's grades too seriously.

The guts are too small, what is there to be afraid of. ”

Fear is actually a normal part of the cephalic period in children.

Denying the child's fear is equivalent to denying the child's ego, causing him to feel powerless and frustrated.

At this time, it is better for parents to show timidity like their children, let their children know how normal it is to be afraid, and quietly eliminate the feeling of powerlessness in their children's hearts.

You're doing it wrong again, why are you so stupid? ”

Oops, how are you. It's easy to blurt out words full of complaints or frustration, allowing children to make mistakes and giving them a chance to grow themselves.

Children who fail need to be more affirmatively educated, children are sparse rather than blocked, don't label children randomly, and tell children to do one thing every day.

If you look at you, you won't have much interest, and in the future...

Set the scales of expectation and never say to your child: you can't do it. Be a confident parent.

Children need to be appreciated, eager to be affirmed, give children a chance, let him exercise, and dispel the shadow of inferiority complex in children's hearts.

It's all children, how can you be inferior to others. ”

Every child is unique in their own way. Tell your child that success is not about the size of the role, but what is the key to making your child excellent?

Let the child learn to compete with himself, and let the child grow at his own speed.

Just know how to play! When it comes to studying, you don't have the energy! ”

It is the nature of children to like to play, let children use their hearts to play, let children learn in a relaxed environment, let children play games appropriately, and do not deprive children of their right to play.