How to overcome the arrogance in the depths of your heart, how to overcome your own hubris?

Arrogance is the opposite because of the extreme fear within. Ordinary fear can be rationally suppressed with confidence or avoided by various methods, if the fear is too large or even uncontrollable, it is difficult to bear or dare not face the pain of fear, it may be arrogant, and arrogance can obtain an illusory sense of self-importance. There are other ways to resist fear:

Repression, self-pity, anger, resentment, ridicule, etc., arrogance is one of them. If an arrogant person is offended by someone else's illusory sense of self, it can provoke great anger and then violence. Dangerous!

If a person is arrogant and not afraid of death, he is an outlaw.

In terms of ability, whether you have real skills or not, arrogance is stupid. No one can be strong enough not to take others in their eyes, you know, it's too dangerous, you don't have anyone else in your eyes, but others see you clearly. Sun Tzu said, "Know yourself and know your opponent, and you will not be defeated in a hundred battles; Knowing oneself without knowing the other, one wins and one loses; If you don't know who you are, you will die in every battle.

Arrogance is not knowing the other or yourself, and there is a dead end.

Also look for biographies of great men and see how they died, and you will know that a person has no reason to be arrogant. For example, Napoleon.

I didn't expect that arrogant people would struggle and be uneasy in their hearts.

To be honest, I admire people who can be arrogant, or at least it's a sign of self-confidence, probably overconfidence.

I don't think I'll be so arrogant after taking a hit.

In fact, it is the lack of humility in the spirit is not.

If you want to overcome it, then you have to keep a low profile. Low profile..

(1) Recognize the reason.

Only by recognizing the cause can we deal with the symptoms**. First of all, arrogance is often related to the characteristics of the development of our self-consciousness. Some of us are full of a strong interest and sense of urgency in understanding and evaluating ourselves, and the level of self-understanding and evaluation has been greatly improved, but the objectivity and correctness of self-understanding and evaluation are not enough, and there is still a certain degree of blindness, so it will make us arrogant.

In addition, with the development of our sense of independence and self-esteem, it often leads to an unnecessary conceit. So the words, deeds and psychology of boasting and being the first in the world were manifested in us.

Arrogance may also be related to our family background. For example, our grades in school were good, the early stage of our society was smooth, and our family members were obedient to our requirements, so that we unconsciously formed a self-centered in everything, and developed a character that does not know how to accommodate others and cannot tolerate setbacks at all.

2) Understand others.

After insisting on understanding others for a long time, the arrogant person will come out of the self-world, and then the self-righteous attitude will slowly disappear.

3) Adjust motivation.

The desire to meet or exceed the standard of excellence is an internal driving force that makes us personally conscientiously complete the work that we consider important or valuable, and to achieve a certain desired point, and it is the achievement motivation that drives people to work hard in various industries. We must learn to evaluate our own ability and knowledge level realistically, and set goals that are in line with our actual ability.

4) Be good at learning.

We must humbly learn from the strengths of others and make up for the shortcomings of others. It is true that no one can become an all-rounder who can do everything and know everything, but as long as he is humble enough to learn from others and be good at turning others' strengths into his own, then he will definitely become smarter and more progressive.

Most of the manifestations of arrogance are due to their own personality.

Generally, people with more prominent personalities are particularly arrogant, but it is not difficult to overcome them, and the following points may be helpful to you.

1. Enhance your own humility, learn to hide everything in your heart, and generally smart people will hide it.

2. When you have an opinion, you must pay attention to your own attitude and discuss it with others with an attitude of studying, so that you will not reflect your arrogance.

If you want to overcome your hubris, I think you need to do the following:

1. Correct your mentality and make yourself a little more humble. At the same time, you must also let yourself understand that there are many people who are better than you, and no one else is arrogant, so what reason do you have?

2. Look at your own strengths and weaknesses correctly, so that others will not think you are frivolous, and will feel that your character is very good, so you are more willing to make friends with you.

You can't be arrogant, after all, there are people outside, and there are heavens outside the sky. I think I can do something, boast to others, and I am very impatient in the face of other people's criticism. This is not right, and everyone should keep a humble heart.

When encountering something, first restrain yourself, calm down and think about the good of others. There will be no hubris.

When I had just graduated from high school, I had just come out of society, and I felt that I was particularly arrogant. After receiving a blow, he slowly overcame this performance of his own. Every time I want to show it, I usually choose to listen to a song, and then I must hold back and not do what I regret.

First of all, you have to imply to yourself that you are not very good, there are people outside the world, there are heavens outside the sky, and it is always an eternal truth to say less and do more.

Secondly, you must know that if you shoot a bird in the head, your arrogance will one day hurt you.

Stand where you need it most, and don't waste your light where you don't need it.

I think everyone has their own characteristics, and sometimes arrogance can also be understood as a kind of self-confidence, and some people will appreciate this attitude of yours, provided that you meet this kind of person who appreciates you, and you also have a certain ability to make the person who appreciates you feel that you are useful to him. If not, go out and walk more, get in touch with the outside world, and when your arrogance makes you suffer, make mistakes, and pay a certain price, you will know to converge. The laws of survival in society will grind away your edges.

If you want to overcome your arrogance, I think first of all, you should correct your mentality, everyone in this world has everyone's strengths, everyone has everyone's shortcomings, so we have to respect others, respect ourselves, only in this way will we not make ourselves look very frivolous.

I have a colleague who is very arrogant and usually braggarts. After getting acquainted with everyone for a while. Many people began to distance themselves from him, and everyone felt that this was a very arrogant person, and it was not suitable for communication.

Slowly, this colleague changed his arrogant personality, the most important thing is arrogance, no one wants to be friends with him. Only by changing this character can you be recognized by those around you.

I think people who want to deal with their own hubris will definitely suffer because they take themselves too seriously. That's why he's always been self-centered, so many things will happen, and one day he will be defeated by everyone, and he should be properly serviced.