My father asked me to change my girlfriend because of the conditions

From your words, you know that you don't love your girlfriend, and you are in a relationship with each other now. Same as my previous girlfriend. I don't love her.

But because she was very good to me, she kept dragging it out, and finally broke up. I suggest you divide it. It's just a short-term pain, because you don't love her so you don't have heartache when you break up.

I'm sure if you reluctantly marry her. You'll have regrets for the rest of your life. Men still look at women's looks.

As long as the woman in the back looks better than the current one, and you have feelings, I suggest you go for it. Advice from someone who came over. It won't hurt you.

In fact, parents should not be involved in such things. Her temper may have come from her father, hehe, in fact, after losing her temper and calming down, she will feel that she shouldn't be. Now that you know her character, don't take it too seriously.

Of course you shouldn't break up with your girlfriend, and you shouldn't change the one your father introduced. It's not the same thing. You should adjust your mentality now, and then, say good things on both sides, and reconcile the contradictions, which is what a man should do.

What exactly is love? Is it because the other party has no flaws and is flawless? No, love is all about loving her, including her flaws!

Decide your own business, no one can replace you, think about it yourself.

Change, listen to your dad, be a lover.

Find a counseling agency to help you mediate.

Friend, you're a man

You have the power to make your own decisions, and you can do it yourself!

Send the donor four words "everything from the heart".

will not be happy, now there are some girls just for the house, parents are just an excuse, now parents are also very open-minded, will not interfere in the marriage of children, of course, it is not excluded that there will be this kind of intervention to the parents, but I still think that your girlfriend does not love you enough, if you love you, will not marry you because of the house, if I love you, I must say that my parents are unwilling, we will work hard for two more years, buy a house to get married, not break up, dear, girls are very realistic now, don't love to bread, as long as the bread is big enough, It doesn't matter if there is love or not, dear, you still have to see people clearly.

It's worth it, you'll be happy, that's at least a sign that your girlfriend likes you, and if your girlfriend doesn't like you, she won't let you her parents.

It depends on your relationship, love without bread, do you say that the woman can be happy, you have to show your strength to prove it to your future wife and say, although these can't be done for the time being, I believe that I can definitely do these things in a few years, but the time is not too long, and any woman can't stand the aimless waiting. Bless you all.

A girl is to be coaxed, her parents need to be deceived, it is not a problem of her feelings for you.

If she was already with another man for money, you could say, buy it, buy it next year! After all, after so many years of affection.

Don't give up like that.

Let it go! will not be happy, in the future, in your life, her parents will often come out to interfere, buy a car, travel or something.

In fact, this thing is very common and very realistic, the parents of the child hope that the child can live a better life in the future, if you are not able to give her happiness, then there is no need to get married, and there will still be quarrels or something in the future.

It's not your fault, and it's not their fault.

The reality is that they all hope that their children will have a better life.

This non-existence is not worth it, fortunately or not, you have to try it to know.

Such a girl is not worth buying a house for her.

Think about it, if it were your daughter, would you be willing to do it?

It's up to you first! If you love her very much! Quietly call you a baby outside! Her parents are also dao

Way! Either work hard! Get your money back and earn more! Her parents won't say they dislike you! You said you could buy a plane! Say that the conditions are not good! You throw him a million! Look at him and say Sa!

If you don't love it very much! Just give up! Find a good one from!

See how much you like her bai and how much you want du

With her, this world only wants you to think and you firmly believe that there is always more difficulty than the method. You can find a way to find a job next to her, this choice must be made by yourself, and the consequences must be measured by yourself, you must be willing, not forced by anyone. But I always feel that if you really have that heart, everything is done by human effort, not out of thin air. Bless you.

It's a strange question, my boyfriend is the same as you, so we haven't been married, I don't talk about marriage anymore, just like that, we love each other and need each other's love, we love each other very much, but when it comes to marriage, it's out of reach, I'm not the kind of person who gives up love for money, but marriage is often a painful choice? I'm waiting for the results.

This question is often seen, how can anyone be a parent who doesn't want their children to be better? Dao That's how I am My parents-in-law found me a house at home, a car, and a boat worth more than 3 million. And it's also our Wuhu's.

And my boyfriend who has been talking to for 3 years is out of town and has no house or car, so his hometown house will be divided into one room for him. My mom and dad strongly disagreed. Said that unless he bought a house with us, he thought that the gap was too big, so he asked my boyfriend to work harder.

We worked hard for a year and then had our own shop. Bought a pickup van. Although the days together are a little harder.

But that taste of happiness is something that money can't buy. This year I finally convinced my mom. My mom also thinks my boyfriend is very self-motivated, even though we don't have millions of assets, we can't afford a car, we can't afford a bungalow.

Can't live a high-end life. But we're working on it. Someday, we can too, just to hone it.

Only by suffering together can we go to the end. We're getting married next year, and my mom and dad are going to buy us a house? Because if we buy a house, the store will not have enough funds!

I've had countless arguments with my mom and dad over the years, and they've finally been defeated by me. I used to hate them stupidly, but now that I think about it, I really shouldn't

Anyway, you have to work hard, don't give up, and I hope you can have a happy ending like us!

As long as two people love each other, your girlfriend will definitely understand you, regardless of your high salary or low salary; If she only looks at the material aspect, then you can let it go.

Who asked that?

Please, it's exactly like me.

Do you know how to do catering, now it is more profitable to do catering, friends and girlfriends should stand on your side since they love you, a happy life is two people working together, not you alone, husband and wife can suffer together. You can be happy together, maybe when you have money, your relationship will change, and the people who share weal and sorrow together will be different, if your girlfriend loves you. I want to advance and retreat with you.

Don't think that you will be able to make a lot of money right away, there will be no fall in the sky, if you and your girlfriend are truly in love, then work together and prove it to your parents. Come on! I wish you all happiness!

Not counting personal cultivation, a high school degree is about the same as a primary school education.

Now I can't find a job with a college degree, just like high school.

It's not easy to do any business now! You want to invest less and make money fast! Please, don't be so whimsical, okay!

It's so realistic in this society now, you know? If you have to do business, I recommend opening a barbecue restaurant this summer. But if you want to invest between 20,000 --- 30,000 If the barbecue restaurant is open for about 3 months, you can probably earn back about 200,000, which should not be a problem.

I have a very similar problem to you, so let's talk about my solution.

I have a fundamental principle: don't rely on the family.

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Do you really love your girlfriend? You can't let go of your superior living conditions......

I stopped driving for the sake of my girlfriend. For her sake, save money. For her sake, I moved out and rented a house. For her, I worked hard to earn money ......

Do you still buy sunglasses? I even have to weigh the money to buy mineral water. It doesn't matter who the work depends on, you have to do it well. Your father can find you a good job, but it doesn't matter if you have to rely on your father for promotion.

Dude, if you really love your girlfriend, don't rely on home, so that you can stand up and speak.

If you can't let go of your superior life ......I sympathize with you, because I know firsthand how painful it is to give up those privileged lives.

You still have a state-owned enterprise, a stable job and a good welfare package, compared to you, I just work hard in a private company.

Investment? Entrepreneurship? You can make money in whatever you do, the key depends on whether you can do it.

Men have to be a little bold, you know that state-owned enterprises are too stable and difficult to develop, so resign. Or do something investment yourself. I envy you, and I have a stable job, and I'm running around every day.

If you don't endure hardship, you will never succeed.

I didn't expect to make a fortune after a few years in the private sector. Let's gain some social experience, we are all young. Then I'm ready to start my own business, take your time. Don't be afraid of failure, failure is a must on the road to success.

Your parents must love you, and so do my parents. So I borrowed 200,000 yuan from my family as an investment, and the income is good so far. I need to pay the family a fixed interest of 5% every year for this 200,000 yuan, which means that I don't owe them anything, which is equivalent to using my son's relationship as a guarantee to take out a loan.

Hey, that's a lot, I'm ideal.

In the end, I just want you to think about it, do you really love her? If you really love her, you will struggle, and there are always more ways than problems.

Do you really deserve her love? If it's worth it, then prove with facts that you are a piece of gold and will definitely shine.

It's hard to be perfect.

Since the question.

The question is actually not complicated, but what you think is too complicated, I will give you some reminders, why do parents disagree? It's not that I don't want you to be happy, it's that I'm worried about your future, it's for your good, if you really insist on marrying a girl After a long time, the family will definitely be lax Agree with you Think about it You are their child They want you to be happy Just don't look down on your partner Why can't you let your partner prove that you have the ability to earn money It's hard to find a job It's one thing But women's hearts are kind You know your parents It's your biggest advantage Find a way to make your parents have a good impression of your partner Even if you are wronged and change your family's conditions are already good Of course, I don't like the target's family, but that's one-sided status discrimination, not necessarily because I don't like the object himself, find a way to let them get in touch with it for a long time, and it will naturally be good.

At the beginning, I also had this experience, but it was the opposite of you, my family is an ordinary businessman, and the object is the child of the deputy director of our local public security bureau, and after my contact with his parents, the relationship has eased a lot, and I no longer object, as long as you grit your teeth and insist, it will be fine, this is for sure, even if your father says that he doesn't want you anymore, he is angry, and when you get married outside, you will admit it.

First of all, you are financially dependent on your parents. It is true that it is a dilemma to encounter such a situation. A girl's character and filial piety are very important.

You should think carefully about the things of your life. Try to communicate well with your parents. Tell them about the good things about the girl you love.

The key is that you have the determination and ability to change your current life. The point is that you can be financially independent. That way your parents won't interfere with you so badly.

I hope you can be happy.

Ay! It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs. Your father loves you with nothing wrong, but the method is not right, if you give your true love to your father to talk openly and honestly, I believe that in the end your parents will still accept her.

It was you who took the wife, not your father.

Love is sincere, not a good match, talk to your father and tell them that you really love her.

It's good to be happy with each other. Make your own decisions about your future.

When I hear that the door is right, I want to hit someone.

Then please work hard to make money.

Let you raise your whole family, and your dad won't say anything.

Find a job first, so as to block the mouths of the family, and then introduce it to the family and slowly get along with each other for a long time, find the good side, and it is easy to talk about feelings.

First of all, don't mess with yourself first, think about what I'm talking about:

1. The girl is out of town, and she is not the only one in the family, if you get married, if there is a New Year's Day and Spring Festival and other holidays in the future, it is estimated that there will be a lot of her relatives in your home, and you will be overwhelmed by the back and forth, and when the time comes, you will say no, not to say no.

2. Now there is a custom of giving gifts to the woman's family before marriage, the more you give, the more you are a girl, and the poorer the family, the greater the amount of money. Therefore, it is recommended that you find out whether there is such a custom in her family, and if so, how much the gift money is, and whether it is within the range of what you can afford.

3. Do you have the economic conditions and economic foundation required for marriage, such as whether your job is stable, whether you have a marriage house, etc. If you don't even have a stable job, it is recommended to do your job first and then think about other things.

4. What your parents said is not unreasonable, academic qualifications represent the level of education a person receives, and also indirectly affect a person's world view, outlook on life, and affect a person's view and way of dealing with things. If you have the same academic qualifications, you will make 2 people agree on many things, at least the views will not be much different. The ancients said that it is not unreasonable to be the right person.

5. I don't know what your purpose of finding a girlfriend is, I feel that you are only looking for a girlfriend for sex, it is recommended that you correct your thoughts before going to find a girlfriend, otherwise, what you end up with is just emptiness.