I went to join the army, but my girlfriend didn t allow me to go. What to do? Urgent!!!!!!!!!!

After reading your message, as a veteran, I tell you, if you only think about the selection of non-commissioned officers in the army, it is better not to go. First, you are 22 years old, and you have a problem of adapting to the army, and even if you are transferred to a non-commissioned officer, it will be very difficult to demobilize and resettle in the future. If you are sure that the army can be admitted to a military academy as an officer, then it is a different matter.

The second is that your girlfriend does not support you like this, and if you have a good relationship, you have to consider that she may disown you because of this. Although it is said that good men are ambitious in all directions, although it is said that the loess does not bury people, isn't our purpose to live a little better? Third, with your mentality, as a veteran, I tell you, you probably can't be a good soldier, and you won't be at ease, in this case, generally speaking, there will be no great prospects and development.

Is it really to the point where you can't have both? Wouldn't it be okay to bring your girlfriend with you? But even if I brought it, it was troublesome.

Alas, buddy, this is really a troublesome thing, although there are two loves, if it is for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight. But over time, everything will change. Think clearly before you decide how to do it more satisfactorily.

Tell your girlfriend well, you have to think clearly, you can be together when you come back, your girlfriend will no longer be your girlfriend. Think about it.

Whether it's important to have a girlfriend or a soldier you have to think about it yourself, you can communicate more with your girlfriend to see, if not, then you can ask your parents again...

Who will accompany her when you go? If you don't play well, you may lose your girlfriend, buddy, be careful.

Go, if you have no future, can your girlfriend support you for the rest of your life.

Weigh the pros and cons, good men are ambitious in all directions, and many people have been defeated at the feet of women.

I advise you not to take it too seriously, you are still young now, and it may not be long before people forget about you when you go to be a soldier. Don't look at crying now.

Don't go. After coming out of the army, you will find that the self-sacrificing feelings taught by the army that made people's blood boil and blood in their heads are pure fucking bullshit! With happiness, grasp it today. If you really want to contribute to the country, it is more meaningful to earn more money and help the poor.

Do you think you should have your own future, and you think you want to choose to be a soldier or a girlfriend.

Don't go, it's useless to be a soldier, it's just to train in the furnace of the army, and besides, what can you do when you come back after you go for 9 years?

If you think you're going to get married in nine years, don't go, if you don't get married, go for it!

For your future, and for yourself!

It depends on how your relationship goes.

If you don't consider feelings, I personally recommend being a soldier, that should be the dream that boys had when they were young, and the one who honed out is a real man!

Brothers, remember, country, duty, honor. Go ahead, your girlfriend won't blame you!

Go! If you think you can make a name for yourself, go and come back without a girlfriend.

Be a soldier, but you have to fight for it.

My brother was in the army, and his girlfriend was waiting for him. Space is not an issue.

Do you want to go yourself.

If you want to go for it!!

You want love and a future, you want a lover and a family, it is difficult to choose, it is recommended that you discuss it with your family, they will never harm you, and you are the one who makes the final decision.

You can't have it both ways! It's the same with career and love! Now that the harsh reality is in front of you, you must make judgments and choices!

From my personal experience, I have 2 friends who broke up with their girlfriends because they went to the army. Can you bring your girlfriend along? If you can, I'm sure she'll support you!

It's really good for the future This is not good for others If I were you, I would go and appease my girlfriend In the past 2-3 years, see if I can take her There is a very important future I have a friend who is a soldier Now he is a deputy battalion commander, in his thirties Very good If you find a wife and a beautiful man, your career should be more important, I believe your girlfriend can understand you.

Let's talk to you like this, if you go, you won't be able to continue talking to your girlfriend about the real case.

My current girlfriend dumped her husband who went to the army. Then have fun with me.

Think about it. Look how much you love her.

Look at your background, if it's good, what is the good job arranged by the soldiers?

If the background doesn't work, don't go, and it's still the same when you come back!

Men should still focus on their careers, and they also have to see whether the girl is important to you or a bright future is important to you, between the two you have to choose one, you have to calm down and think carefully, don't give up one and regret it in the end.

Don't go, don't you have anything else to do when you first become a soldier?

22, you don't think about your girlfriend?

3 years or 9 years? Women need a boyfriend by their side, do you feel right about her?

9 years is really too long.

If it's 9 years, don't go.

Two or three years is reasonable.

For the sake of the future, it is better to put more women.

Let's make up our own minds, what we're talking about is.

Leave her because her love is too selfish for you!

If love is the most important, then it is better not to go.

You can try your best to tell your girlfriend what you think, in fact, she is just worried that your time together will become shorter, everyone has dreams, and it is a very happy thing to realize your dreams and ideals.

I decided to be a soldier, and I had to contact more when I went to the barracks, and it was best to write a letter, although communication is so developed now, but the letter can see things and think about people!

If you want to say that being a soldier is promising, this, it depends on where you are, and your ambitions. Generally, people with no ambitions, no specialties, and no education become soldiers, and they are just security guards when they come out.

I said that these are the real phenomena in society now, and I also hope that you can have a big ambition during your time as a soldier, learn some specialties well, do dirty work and rush to do it, and strive for some merits. Of course, the most important thing is to learn some skills that rely on the mind, and now society relies on the mind to make money. )

Also, your dad wants you to be in the army, are you willing? If you are an adult, I hope you have your own opinions and recognize what you want to pursue, although your family is for you to be able to make a difference in the future, but not everything is right.

In addition, a girl's two years of youth are very precious, she now says that she is willing to wait for you, but her family puts pressure on her, and her friends introduce some boys to her, and the result after two years will not be **.

What's more, girls are most afraid of loneliness and loneliness, and when they are sad, they want someone to accompany her. You went to the army for two years and are you sure your girlfriend is strong? Can it stand up to anything? Otherwise, these two years are the easiest to be taken advantage of.

Brother, think twice.

In fact, you yourself want her to go, but you are still reluctant to part with her.

Don't think too much, if she can't wait for you for two years, then she doesn't really love you, and you don't have to be sad for her, right? It's a test of your love. Besides, now that communication is very developed, don't worry.

Two years sounds like a long time, but it's also time for the test. It's okay, I'm destined to be a soldier, so I left calmly. True love will definitely come to fruition. Now make the most of the days you haven't left!

Go boldly, I said the same thing to my boyfriend, but he didn't go to the army, we are now in a different place, and I never thought of separating from him, the girl in my dormitory is her boyfriend who wants to be a soldier, she is sad and doesn't want him to go, and she also thinks it will change in two years or something. In fact, two years is very fast, you have to believe her, as long as you don't give up, she won't leave you, if you go, you have to learn to care more about people and know how to be considerate of her Oh I wish you to enter the wedding hall in two years!!

There are men who are ambitious in all directions! Don't ruin your future because of this incident, even if it's for the future of the two of you.

Brother! A word of advice, it's that you can't run away no matter how much you run, and it's useless if you force it.

No amount of answers can solve your worries, go with peace of mind, it's time to test your love, I'll wait for my boyfriend to come back as a soldier.

If she wants to wait for you, in fact, two years will pass quickly.

I don't have any opinions, I'm waiting to be dug up

Then you can do it too.

Be a good example.

How old is your girlfriend? You have only been talking for more than 2 months, and it is recommended that you get a mobile phone and call her every day in the army. But what girls care about most is that you can spend more time with her, this is not like a rural person falling in love, maybe she will change her mind one day.

Because if you go to be a soldier, if she meets a boy who is better than you and can spend more time with her, then she will break up with you because you are a soldier. There are two kinds of life in the army and in the locality, she can't see you at any time, and some things can't be solved in a word, one meeting. After all, men can wait, women can't, and no one wants it if you're over 25 years old.

It's like I fell in love when I came back from the army. Bless you!

Little brother, don't worry, the veteran told you, but you know that the method is not good, but you love each other, don't you? First, the current army does not live in a social vacuum, don't worry about mobile phones, mobile phones will be used after three months of life in the barracks, but the document just issued last month clearly stipulates that 3G mobile phones are not allowed, ** don't worry about contact, the second is to determine the relationship between the two of you, hehe, do you understand what it means? But only if you love each other.

Being a soldier now is not the same as it was 10 years ago, don't worry.

Tell her about the disadvantages of being a soldier, such as: you can't bear her, it's difficult for you to meet, how hard it is to be a soldier, it is said that as long as you go, you must stick to the end, otherwise you will be a deserter, there is a political stain, and some girls can't stand the hard training and commit suicide, not everyone can be a soldier.

If it comes, it will be safe. Whether time will change the relationship is not what we say, the origin and extinction must be natural, don't force it too much, too strong will only hurt the two of you.

If you're worried that she's changing her mind, then don't leave. I have a friend who went to the army because he went to the army, and then his girlfriend went with someone else!

Upstairs, I couldn't use my mobile phone during the first 3 months of military training in the army.

My girlfriend will give it to someone else to keep it for 2 years

Hey, I'm just like you, and I'm going to be a soldier on the 10th of next month.

Seeing that you are going to be a soldier, you must be young, since you are going to go for 2 years, you can use this to hone the relationship between you, 2 years is too short compared to a lifetime. Think of it as a test! There are a lot of people waiting for you on the road.

Two years later, when you were discharged from the military. She holds the child in her arms and leads her husband to invite you to dinner.

There are almost no people who don't run away after being a soldier, so be mentally prepared, and I am an example.

Give you a song "Ninety-Nine Sunny Days" that is best for you Be sure to listen to the lyrics.

Listen with your girlfriend I also want to be a soldier, but I am not physically fit to be a soldier, I support you.

This year, I will find a female soldier to look at my temperament and find one in the army.

Don't talk about it when you go, it's going to be talking when the time comes, and it will be better.

The current situation is basically impossible for new recruits to use, and in the second year, they generally don't care much.

You tell her: The time has come for the party to test us!

Brother, leave your brother and sister to me, and my brother will take care of her for you.

It's time to test your feelings