I know that we can t be together in the future, and I know it s not suitable, but why do we still wa

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't give up on anything easily, if you really love her so much and are willing to give up everything for her, then what else can stop you from being together? If you can't make up your mind, just let it go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love her and give her happiness! Bless you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe you should, cherish the present.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't worry about the future, just be nice to her now.

    I also have this experience with you, and I know that the other party can't be together, but I still want to be good to her, inexplicably good.

    I just want to be nice to her.

    If one day you don't treat her well, you will find that you have lost a kind of happiness that you can continue to be nice to her.

    But hold on to that degree.

    Just don't put the future on her

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My boyfriend and I broke up because of this.

    Both of them think that there is no future, let her go, although it will be sad at the time, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

    Don't take each other for granted.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    At least if you have it, you will regret it.

    Look what she means. If she loves you too.

    Just be together. What about the future? It's good to cherish the present.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is to grasp the present, and the future is not clear.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let it go. Knowing that there is no result. It was also in vain to fight for it.

    He and I were against it. I feel so tired.

    So I gave up on my relationship for half a year.

    Although very reluctant. But it's better to think of long pain than short pain. Or put it down.

    Today is the 3rd day I put down. I feel very uncomfortable.!

    But I believe. Time will conquer.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you think about yourself, break up quickly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let go and don't waste your time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is because most of people's behavior is governed by the subconscious, and once this subconscious inertia is formed, it is difficult to break it. Change often requires a great deal of pain and discomfort.

    The subject said that he felt that he was no longer suitable to be together, but he was reluctant to let go.

    This shows that at the beginning, at least both parties think it is appropriate, and there are certain aspects of the other party that attract you and have brought you a sense of security and trust. It's just that later in the relationship, some behaviors or habits of the other party do not meet your expectations or cause you a certain amount of harm, and you feel that the two are not suitable. In this case, you are reluctant to let go, it may be that you have not met a better person at the moment, or even that the person you meet gives you the feeling that is not as good as the feeling that the current one gave you, it is difficult for you to have the confidence and courage to choose a relationship.

    The second is that you have been together for a long time, and your temperament, personality and three views have been in line with each other, and you have gotten along well for a long time, but due to changes in the external situation, the two are not suitable and are reluctant to let go.

    Because they have given their true feelings to each other at the beginning, and only when they love someone deeply, will they be willing to change themselves for each other. They are even used to each other's breathing and heartbeat, and everything about the other party is so familiar. Although it is not suitable now, if you choose to let go means that you have to start looking for the right person again, first of all, you don't know whether you can find the right person, even if you find the right person, you still need to go through a comprehensive understanding and run-in, that is, after the run-in is successful, you still face many variables, which are all problems that need to be considered before letting go.

    Therefore, when the relationship between two people becomes inappropriate, as long as it is not serious enough to have to let go, it is better not to let go, a good relationship is managed by both parties, and when there is a problem, find the reason from yourself and then correct it, and communicate with the other party at any time to make compromises with each other and maintain the relationship. Otherwise, if your own problems are not corrected and you find other objects, they will still exist, and you will not be able to solve the problem fundamentally.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Knowing that it is not suitable, but still having to be together, this is because although two people know that it is not suitable, they still accept each other, they still feel that each other has a lot of places worthy of their nostalgia, and they still have a certain vision for the future, and hope that slowly each other's can become very suitable, so they will be together, that is, when there is no good yearning for the future, they can overcome the current difficulties and walk together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I know it's not suitable, but we still have to be together. It's because there is no suitable one yet, and when a suitable one appears, they won't be together. It's better to be bored than to be alone.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is because they love each other deeply and fall in love. This kind of love is also relatively common from ancient times to the present, the reality is always full of contradictions, difficulties, and most of the so-called inappropriate reasons come from the outside world, such as family opposition, friends staying away, etc.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe it's when you find it inappropriate, you've fallen in love with him, and at the same time the other party also accepts you, whether it's touched or sincere, and you've been getting along for a while, so two people who seem to be inappropriate are together, if you love him, it's as more run-in to run into each other's feelings, maybe in the end you are in tune.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's because the two of them have been together for a long time and are used to it, so they don't want to waste time with other people, so they just get together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It shows that two people love each other very much, even if they know that there will be contradictions and misunderstandings, they should try to be together, and it is recommended to communicate more when getting along to reduce friction and contradictions.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Maybe it's reluctant, it's too reluctant to be with each other, so it's still a short time together, this kind of love will also happen in our adult world, that is, it's too much love, because some material or spiritual or family aspects affect two people together, it will lead to this phenomenon.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The reason why they still want to be together even though they know it's not suitable is that they both love each other deeply, and no matter what difficulties they have, they believe that they can overcome them.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Knowing that it is not suitable is still to be together. It shows that the two people love each other very much. So even if you face failure, give it a try. If you try it, you won't regret it. I won't let myself regret it for the rest of my life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I know it's not suitable, but I still want to be together, in fact, it's just to perfunctory myself, or to reluctantly cope with the changes made by some people. Often, such feelings may not last long, nor can they be happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Knowing that it is not suitable, but still being together, it must be inextricably linked, there is a financial relationship or there is a child in the middle, if they are separated, the child will either lose his father's love or his mother's love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That's because I want to give him up, but I can't bear it, and I always think about his good, so I feel that it is obviously inappropriate, and I feel that I can't replace him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The relationship is in love, they love each other together, they have to be strong in character, they don't let each other, and it will be very uncomfortable to leave. can only be together knowing that there is discord, but it will be more uncomfortable to be separated.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Knowing that it is not suitable and still together, it means that the two people are in a makedo mentality, thinking that it is the same to find anyone, and this life has passed like this, in fact, we do not recommend having this kind of thought, since it is not suitable, don't force it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Knowing that it is not suitable, but still being together, proves that the two of you love each other, appreciate each other, and rely on each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you know that it is not suitable, and you still want to be together, such a thing, even if you are together, you will not be happy, only if both parties have feelings, will they be able to understand each other and tolerate each other when they encounter things in life, if they are only together because they are suitable, this will not necessarily be happy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This also shows that the common needs of both sides are the same goal. Whether it is suitable or not, as long as you can achieve your goals, it is acceptable for the time being.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I know it's not suitable, but I really want to be together, which means that you still want to work hard to have a good result, but you know that you won't be together, but you still want to work hard.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hello, emotional things are sometimes difficult to say, and many times they may often feel that each other is not suitable, but out of attachment to feelings, they don't want to let go, which is also normal.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Although you know it's not suitable, you still have to be together, which shows that you still have a good feeling for each other, and you are very much looking forward to a miracle.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It may be that they are older, or they may be often urged to marry by their parents, so they let two inappropriate people walk together.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because love cannot be controlled by oneself, it does not mean that if you don't love, you can leave immediately, many emotions cannot be controlled, it will be sad and sad, and it will take time.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because the two people knew it too late, they didn't dare to separate for various reasons, preferring to be tortured together

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