We quarreled and broke up, but we still got in touch! What to do

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Ignore you after a breakup? After all, we have been together after breaking up, and we are not cold-blooded animals, if you look for him, he will definitely ignore you, because he has loved you, and if something happens to you, he will definitely help you, because he has loved you. But he doesn't really want to reconcile with you, he treats you like this because you once loved each other.

    It's not what you think, he wants to reconcile with you. It's impossible for you anymore, as long as you go to him now and want to reconcile with him, he will definitely be annoyed with you, because he doesn't want to reconcile with you. But he can't ignore you, because he doesn't want to hurt you, but you have to be self-aware.

    Don't even think about making peace with him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Like you, I'm still in touch with my ex-girlfriend, but I'm just a friend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you want to get the relationship clear, he can't stand you and prove that he doesn't love you enough, so it's better to be thorough.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How can there be no noisy, as long as you don't walk too much, my boyfriend and I are often noisy, but we really love each other, all we will always be fine, and I believe that we will live very happily. Cherishing each other in your heart is the most important thing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If someone ignores you, you will definitely be very sad, and the person who makes you sad is definitely not someone who truly loves you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really can't live without him, or love him very much, then change yourself, accept him, tolerate him, as long as it's not a matter of principle.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you love him, you will change it for him, and if you don't love him, you don't need it

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This is a matter of two people, don't play petty by yourself, be more considerate of each other to get along longer.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe you have a problem yourself

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think about the good he does to you, and if it's worth cherishing, get along with it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If he is sincere, sincere, then give him a chance

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends, maybe it's just his policy ...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Men are always like this, hot and cold.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not that he likes you or not, but.

    Do you like him or not.

    If you still love each other, then tell him clearly.

    At that time, he still loves you or not, won't he know it at once?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't want to give up, go and reconcile with him, maybe he won't be willing to give you up. Use all the tricks that girls should use, and good luck.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Adaptation period This is a matter of two people, don't play with your own petty temperament, and be more considerate of each other to get along longer

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Just like a good friend, it will be fine after a long time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it is because of the quarrel caused by the different values of the two parties, after all, the Tao is different, so if it is in the relationship between the two parties, because of the inconsistency of values that lead to more and more quarrels, it is better to choose to break up and end this time-wasting relationship. But when you break up, remember to make it clear to avoid the problem of what to do if your ex-boyfriend asks to get back together.

    Let him know the reasons for the breakup, the consequences if he doesn't, and how it will end. In this way, everyone doesn't have to worry about the question of whether men and women often quarrel and should break up. Think of every fight as a learning process, and a process of grinding into each other, as long as you look at the problem positively, the final result you face is also positive.

    Didn't show the other party why he was angry. Sometimes they should wonder if if they would look down on me so much that they would dislike me and dislike me, and quarrel over a trivial matter, so that the other party will not be able to comfort you. If it comes down like this every time, you will have a lot of grievances in your heart, and eventually a big outbreak will separate everyone.

    Quarreling means that you still care about the other party, for example, the other party has done something that makes you unhappy, you expect the other party to change, you have to care about him, you want to talk about him, and then you quarrel with him and make trouble with him, then when you don't care about him, you don't want to talk about him, and you are not easy to quarrel with him, and it is not easy to quarrel with him. I think that if you quarrel too often, you don't have to divide it, but the most important thing is to find each other's problems first.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. It's also normal for you to quarrel and break up. What's the most important thing right now?

    Give each other or each other a moment to calm down. Wait until this anger is gone, and then talk about what to do in the future, do you want to get back together, or do you want to redeem it? Those few words you.

    It's normal for you to quarrel and break up. What's the most important thing right now? Give each other or each other a moment to calm down.

    Wait until you know that this anger has subsided, and then talk about what to do in the future, do you want to get back together, or do you want to redeem it? Those few words you.

    Hello, it's because I don't think he usually cares enough about me. Nothing to pay. And then I complained a lot about him.

    He thought I was verbose. Sometimes before he came to see me, I asked if he had someone else Chi Zheng Oak, and he was very angry that I misunderstood him. He said I had misunderstood him a few times, and that he had blackened me two days ago.

    Then I went to look for him, it was driving, but I always misunderstood that he was very angry that he was willing to die and did not have a relationship. Then I hit him on the head in the car and bought medicine for him, and he didn't want to drive me out of the car.

    In fact, you guys have a responsibility on both sides, the first is that you feel insecure. It feels like he's not there enough for you, right, a lack of trust in him, so I want him to make some changes. His question shows that he is most likely a relatively straight man.

    What do you do, what do you do? I won't beat around the bush, I will just go straight, and I don't know how to communicate with you.

    However, after the key was changed, I went to him again on the second filial piety and said that I didn't like him either, and that I was in the car with his kind of money. Then clap your hands. I said if he wasn't as good as he was yesterday, I'd tell him well.

    I brought up some of the things that he didn't usually care enough about me. Just say that since you have broken up, what are you still talking about, and you are fierce to me again. I'm leaving, and I'm angry.

    After a few minutes he added me. He said that since they all broke up, what are you still talking about so much, everyone is at fault, and he said this again. He said something I didn't do right, and he said again, and he said that since you want to say it, then I'll add you back, and you say, if you have anything to say, I'll listen to you.

    In fact, he is very conflicted in his heart now, and this problem is actually very easy to deal with, and a few nice words to say to you, is it clear that you will be coaxed to clear Zheng A few words will pass? Do you have to hurt your feelings by self-harm?

    I don't think you're very compatible with each other in terms of personality. There's no need to say it's retaining, he'll never change to what you want, it's too straight.

    But liquid hail feng is his inauguration Sun I WeChat, and he knows that everyone is at fault. He felt that I was usually too verbose, and he was driving, so he was afraid that it would affect his mood. The next day I found him, and the other day he said yes, it was mutual. He was fussy and thought I didn't care enough about him.

    Actually, love is mutual, there's nothing wrong with that, hail feast but as soon as something happens, he hurts himself, this behavior is very scary, what can you say slowly, isn't there a need for you to do this? This way I feel that the average person in the world can't accept it, do you feel that your three views are the same?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since you all want to reconcile. So why don't you just take the first step? There is no one who comes first or the other in matters of feelings. Don't be embarrassed, or embarrassed.

    Don't take the first step. Even if you don't find out that he wants to get back together, you have to say it. What's more, you feel like he wants to reconcile too.

    I hope you take advantage of it.

    Don't let yourself regret it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's normal to quarrel, you are very emotional now, your brain is not calm, so it is possible to say anything, it is because two people are together with love, so they will quarrel very fiercely, in fact, they are just trying to save face for themselves, if you really break up, you will regret your recklessness after calming down, so, let go of some unnecessary face, reach out and not hit the smiling person, lower your posture to face the person you love, if he knows how to cherish the opportunity will not care about you anymore.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

    Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, when girls are angry, they will talk about breaking up, which is what many girls do, but we are all duplicitous

    In fact, I just want to make you anxious!

    Didn't she say you're unmanly?

    I thought: You should have explained to her several times in a good voice She has heard you say that you think it is the woman on the Internet, are you like this?

    Perhaps, you should really come to a manhood to give her a personal experience Call ** over, first say to her in a good voice: Don't be angry, okay? Are we okay with each other?

    Tell her that you are sincere to her and your feelings for her. If she still doesn't believe it, or ignores it. It's time for you to get angry :

    What the hell do you have to do to trust me??!

    What you want to say to her in your heart is pouring out like a river overflowing out of control!! Finally, tell her again: Don't you want to be manly?

    Do you see that now? I'm not without manhood, I've always been gentle with you. Then, call her by your affectionate name, (*This time it's really a misunderstanding, what I said before, it's just a joke, are we really going to break up for a misunderstanding??

    I truly love you. In the past few days, I have been suffering from quarrels with you, and I really have no energy) and then look at her reaction, if she is really so tough, then you have to be more patient and persevering, or choose to give up, and then you choose for yourself

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