How to choose when faced with the person who pursues you?

Emotional things do have to be experienced by themselves.

If you feel good with the other person.

Just fall in love.

If you are very cherished.

If you don't want to get hurt.

Just think a little farther.

Long-term happiness is true happiness.

So family conditions are actually not too much of a problem.

Because all happiness can be created through hard work, isn't it?

The key is to be a boy.

Be diligent and not afraid of hardship.

That's how you girls feel like you're a dependent, right?

Choose the words. You also need to have a common language.

The gap in your knowledge should not be too large.

There should be something in common in your lives.

Because these can be used as conversation topics.

Think a little farther.

Can you accept that your husband who is a soldier will set off as soon as he receives a mission.

And then what about you being alone? Are you sure you can tolerate longing?

Soldiers are something to be proud of, and they train very hard.

Some tasks are simply self-contained.

Don't underestimate a person because of some current situation.

Our rural children are not from good families.

But we are willing to suffer.

The cause is based on little by little accumulation and struggle.

It's not a divine reward.

It doesn't matter if a person is from.

What matters is where he's going.

The boyfriend you're looking for.

It should be a diligent and hardworking.

There is no need to be too handsome in terms of appearance.

The key is that he loves you very much and can really give it to you.

and those with whom you are willing to stay.

In the face of all difficulties.

Rely on each other to move forward.

Never backing down. Work hard to overcome difficulties.

Create your happiness.

Enjoy together. I wish you the best of luck in the eyes of heroes.

Find your happiness.

Third, there is no cause to fight for, it can be solved artificially.

The problem of distance is not so easy to solve.

Of course, the premise is that he likes you and you like him.

Love you, priority, don't love you, have money, leave you aside, it's not oo yet

Choose what you feel, otherwise how will you live the rest of your life.

I believe that you will also have such an idea in front of the screen, that is, to find a person who really loves you and live a good life, but you should also appreciate him and like him in any relationship, so that you can become a lover. Everyone's criteria for choosing a mate are different, if there are many people who pursue you, how will you choose?

1. I will choose people who are motivated at work.

I think when choosing the other half, the other party's self-motivation is very important, because in the process of living, not only the nourishment of love, but also the entanglement of firewood, rice, oil and salt, if many people pursue me, I have a lot of right to choose, then, I will first choose someone who has a good job, and he is more attentive to the work, and wants to do a better job, that is, he has lofty ambitions, I think it is necessary to choose such a person to be my lover, and we may become husband and wife in the future, With a good job, I have a certain material foundation, and I will not worry about some small things, and I am also planning for the long term.

Second, I will choose people with good moral character.

We all say that if you find a good person, you will marry, what kind of good person is? I think this should be a person with good character and quality, such a talent is worthy of our relationship, so that we can hand ourselves over to him and entrust them with a lifetime. If a person's character is not good, and he has no friends, then, in the future, we will be very tired, and he may do something morally corrupt, which is unbearable for me and disgusting to everyone.

3. I will choose a filial person as my object.

Filial piety is the first, filial piety is fundamental, choose lovers, you should choose to respect the elderly, filial piety to the elderly, if a person does not love their parents, how can they love your parents? Maybe if you buy a little fruit for your parents, he will take care of it, and if you give your parents a little gift, he will also quarrel with you, how can such a person be with him for a lifetime? For the sake of your own happiness, you must choose well.

I will choose a person who truly loves me, from their attitude towards pursuing themselves, as well as their character, I will carefully examine their character, and then make a choice.

I will choose a person with good character, good conditions, and a good family, and I will also choose a person who is suitable for me and good to myself.

To be a person with ideals and pursuits, you should first set a lofty goal for yourself. Secondly, you should constantly improve yourself, learn more, learn more from people who are better than yourself, and get rid of some bad work, study, and living habits.

With ideals, goals. You should take one step at a time to move towards your goal, and don't give up easily. The road to pursuing one's ideals is always full of hardships, and I firmly believe that my dreams can be realized through my own efforts.

People should make a difference and pursue something when they are alive. Everyone's philosophy of life is different and the lifestyle they choose is different. The path taken is different.

The pattern is different. In order to achieve the standard of living you desire. There must be pursuit.

Otherwise, the goal will not be achieved. People who have no ideals and pursuits. Life is blind.

It doesn't make sense. Have a purpose in life. Where there is a goal, there is a pursuit.

Notes:

You can usually pay more attention to the things you are interested in, and you like to spend your time on **, of course, chasing dramas and playing games does not count, it depends on which things you are interested in can generate beneficial value for yourself.

For example, sports, reading, painting, and traveling are all activities that are beneficial to oneself, and long-term persistence can bring rich returns to oneself, which is not necessarily financial, but also spiritual. Before you find your goal, you can stick to what you are interested in for a long time, cultivate your interests, and after a long time, maybe one day in the future, your interests will become your own specialties and careers.

When we meet our suitors, say that we really don't like themThen we should also be tactful in the way we speak, and express our attitude, so that we can avoid not being embarrassed when we meet again next time.

1. Treat suitors as friends. The acquaintance between two people is also a kind of fate, since we have not become lovers, then we can become friends. Although it will seem a little embarrassing, but after getting along for a long time, they will gradually forget some such things with each other.

Because a friend is a friend, he can't go beyond the boundaries of lovers, let alone really become a pair of lovers, so everyone must be aware of such a point, and adjust their mentality to look at it, so that we will not feel embarrassed.

2. Smile at your suitors. In the absence of hatred between two people, we can smile and treat our suitors, because smiling can shorten the distance between two people, and it can also make people feel intimate, so smiling is also a way to get along. After all, I had a similar experience myself, when there was a boy who had been pursuing me and I had someone I liked, so I told him that I already had a boyfriend so that he could get out of the way, and I kept smiling at him, and eventually I became friends with him who didn't talk about anything.

Whether we are getting along with someone who has pursued us, or when we are with someone we have pursued, we should calm our minds and deal with them rationally, so that we will not appear awkward in the process of communication between two people. At the same time, when we are looking for topics, we can deviate from the love problem to ask each other, but ask each other about their recent work and some things in life, so that we can get along with each other very well, I hope everyone can have such a concept.

Summary. The most important thing is that because you are an independent individual, you have to learn to think and judge independently.

The most important thing is that because you are an independent individual, you have to learn to think and judge independently.

For yourself.

It depends on what kind of person you like.

Many people pursue material life, money, power, beautiful women, all kinds of luxurious material things. But there are those who especially enjoy the spiritual life.

However, we should all pursue people who are responsible, kind-hearted, sincere, and principled.

The world is big, so big that there are so many people we haven't met. We spend our whole lives just to love and be loved.

You should pursue a person who has a big pattern and can take you to run forward and slowly get better together.