What to do? Continue or Separate 5

There are many people who will be nice to you.

If you don't fit, leave.

Why bother yourself.

Just give the people around you more opportunities.

If you have sexual problems, let him go to the hospital for a check-up, and it will be fine.

It depends on your personal pursuits, if you want sex, give up, if you want material things and people who love you, don't give up! ～

Advice: Nothing is perfect.

Summary. Hello, separated because of a misunderstanding. Many people who break up, in fact, sometimes it is really because of misunderstanding, for example, it may be that the man thinks that the woman is too ambiguous with someone, or the girl or the boy falls in love with someone else, so they break up.

And many lovers break up because of a misunderstanding, thinking that the other party has changed their minds, in fact, sometimes it's really just a misunderstanding, and it is not until many years later that they suddenly wake up, but unfortunately it is too late.

Hello, separated because of a misunderstanding. Many people who break up, in fact, sometimes it is really because of a misunderstanding, for example, it may be that the man thinks that the woman is too ambiguous with someone, or the girl or the boy falls in love with someone else, so they break up. And many people who are in love break up because of misunderstandings, thinking that the other party has changed their filial piety, in fact, sometimes it's really just a misunderstanding, and it was not until many years later that they suddenly woke up, but unfortunately it was too late.

In fact, lovers who broke up halfway broke up for the following reasons: 01, separated because of misunderstanding. 02, I don't know how to cherish the macro collapse when I am young. 03, the shirt has long been blocked by the other party's parents and family.

Go your own way, and take your own ideas

I'll give you a few suggestions;

One, your mother's words are right

Although you feel a little cruel and a little incomprehensible, she is the person who loves you the most in the world, she is afraid that you will not be as good as others, afraid that you will suffer, afraid that you will suffer What's more, you are a single-parent family, how much she has silently endured for you behind your back, do you understand? After all, she has experienced more than you, she thinks more comprehensively than you, and you are still young after all

2. Marriage is not only love, and life is not only love

Love is just a part of your marriage and life, more of a material, more of an oil, more of a trivial matter, more of a responsibility, besides, you also said, your he has not given himself an accurate position until now, he can't do his job anymore, he goes to school again, he can't take care of himself, and he doesn't have a good background at home, can he give you a happy and stable life? I don't know how you think about it

Three, I ask you, what do you love about him?

You are still the first love, impulsiveness is greater than reason, have you ever compared? It's been 7 years, and I've been thinking, what a dangerous relationship this is? Is it true love?

Or don't have the courage to face one's life? Haven't you ever been numb? You know better than me that after being sad, wandering, and chilling again and again, is it the naïve unwillingness that supports you to continue?

4. Does he love you?

What is it that can sustain you for 8 years? Is it true love? He knows better than you, don't tell me about his merits, who doesn't have merits?

If you are really righteous enough and really get along well with the people around you, why not think about your tomorrow? Didn't he really think about his later life?

Five, think about your happiness.

Life requires us to give up something, even if it used to be your most beloved, because, we still have a long way to go

There are indeed many disadvantages of long-distance relationships, but if you really love each other, then do more work as parents, no matter how close you live, it's useless not to love each other, isn't it?

Landlord, I'm a man.

It's very simple, ask your boyfriend to make money to death. Then marry you. That's all, bye-bye.

I suggest you choose to separate.

Because it can be seen from your text that you don't love her that much, and the face of you and your family is more important than her, so if you can't accept her past, then I suggest you stop the loss in time.

Here's my opinion:

I think the most basic thing to do in a relationship is to be sincere, and you can't choose to cheat because you don't want to lose, I think it's all an excuse. White lies can be replaced by sincere communication. When dealing with past love history or marriage history, don't distort the facts, don't deceive, don't deliberately conceal it, just express it frankly and truthfully.

If you choose to deceive, then paper will never be able to contain the fire, and after a long timeNo matter how good a relationship is, it can't stand up to speculation and suspicion。So I think a good relationship should be happy and happy, if you are deceived, then I think this relationship should be stopped in time.

If you had known that she was divorced, you wouldn't have chosen to be with her, would you? Since it is already a fact that she is divorced, and your parents will definitely not accept her, then choose to break up and stop the loss in time while the relationship is not deep now.

Let me share with you the example of my classmate:

I have a junior high school classmate, and after she got married, she found out that her husband was divorced and had a child with his ex-wife, which was a big blow to my junior high school classmate. She felt cheated, and this incident became a thorn in her heart that could not be removed, and now that the two are married, they always quarrel over this matter.

Therefore, I think there should be no deception in getting along with people, and those who are willing to believe in you love you, and we should treat them sincerely.

I hope my advice is helpful to you and finally have a great day!