Does friendship have to be single minded?

Friendship is broad, love is selfish.

Friends should trust each other, not who should be dedicated to whom, and that kind of friendship is a bit selfish, as if it is a friendship that has changed its flavor.

We always want our friends to be dedicated to me, but have we ever been dedicated to our friends? We also want to have a lot of friends, and that's too much.

To be clear: are you a man? Are the other two falling out two women? If so, then it means that they don't feel like friends or friendships for you, but a crush or a crush between people of the same sex.

Healthy friendships are multi-directional, no one will ask for specificity, but different from different friends will have a depth of friendship.

Of course, sometimes, it is possible to choose to distance yourself because your friends are friends with some unruly people, but this is not the case with you, so you need to think about it.

Everyone's opinion is different, some people treat friends as if they were their lovers, which is very good, because some people regard friends as a kind of sustenance, as a secret in their hearts, and as a kind of attachment; Some friends make friends with gentlemen, light as water, seemingly plain, but they are responsive and good friends. I'm a well-made friend like you, you can talk to her and become good friends with them, but it's a little difficult because everyone is different, everyone's ideas are different, and you can't influence others.

All I can tell you is that friendship doesn't have to be single-minded, it's all about trust.

I'm sorry! That's all I can say. Because I'm not a very good person myself!

All right! I feel like you should give up your dignity and face now.

Looking at your story, I feel like I'm going back to when I was in school ten years ago, and I had the exact same problem as you at that time, which seems to be a copy of my time. I understand your feelings too well, the three of them calm down, communicate sincerely with each other, let go of all their self-esteem, getting together is fate, friendship is sincere, you need to understand, tolerate and maintain May you start from your heart :)

The problem of possessiveness will be understood after a long time. Friends aren't like that

No, but sometimes it is tempting to know who a friend is best for. Hehe.