How do I choose between the person I love and the person who loves me?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The person I love "can't like himself, but he still has freedom, and hates to be bound."

    A single person lives a lifetime, and he is also loved by a person.

    Ann's words, I like it very much-"It's good to be able to walk alone all the time, look at the scenery along the way, and not stop for anyone." ”

    Choosing someone who loves me is tarnishing my own ideals, which are also intolerable to the mind and body.

    Perhaps it is because the noble blood inherited in the bones of the family makes us unable to integrate into the simple happiness that everyone has, and we are destined to be lonely.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Now I know why everyone wanted me to choose the person who loves me in the first place!

    Choose someone who loves you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The person who loves you will give everything for you, and the person you love will make you give everything!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's so tiring to be with someone I love!

    It's plain to be with someone who loves me!

    Should be with someone who loves me more than I love him!

    No matter how it ends, I will be happier than him, not as painful as him!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I once heard people say that it is easy to meet someone who loves you, but it is difficult to meet someone you love, I think you are lucky to be able to merge both, and I believe that the choice is no longer a problem for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's better to find someone I love as a lover;

    Find someone who loves me as a husband and wife.

    Kill two birds with one stone, life is so wonderful! Hehe.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it were me, I would choose: love each other! Otherwise, there will be no happiness in life, and there will be too many regrets!

    It doesn't matter who falls in love with anyone first, the most important thing is to love each other! Otherwise, it can't talk about love, it seems to be a deal!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Cough Emotional people usually choose: "the one I love".

    Rational people usually choose: "the one who loves me".

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you should choose someone who loves you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I want to be a lover with the person I love, and I want to be a husband and wife with the person who loves me!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are a romantic person, you choose the person you love. If you are a real person, you choose the person who loves you, choose the person you love, you will be very hard, choose the person who loves you, and you will be happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you fall in love, choose someone you love, if he loves you in the end, everything is easy to talk about; If you're tired, you'll know what to choose later.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Why not let the person you love become the person who loves you, or change the person who loves you to the person you love, depending on how you adapt.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it were me, I would choose the latter, no matter how much you pay for him, you won't get anything in return, it's too painful.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you make friends, you have to choose what you love, and when you get married, you have to choose those who love you

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't know how to choose, it seems that it's all painful

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The one who loves you, maybe you don't; The person you love doesn't necessarily love you. In the long run, it is still recommended that you choose the person who loves you.

    You don't need a reason, it's because he or she loves you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If the person who loves you doesn't annoy you, I suggest you choose "the person who loves me".

    To love is to give, to be loved is to enjoy, and the lucky person who "loves me" and "I love" is the same person.

    There is also a large part of the "love me" and "I love" are not the same person, love is very hard, choose a relatively simple "love me" life will be smoother.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on your character, if you are willing to give for the person you love, whatever you want, then choose the person you love. But if you like to enjoy and be held in the palm of your hand, then choose the person who loves you!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think I should still choose the person who loves me, because if I choose the person I love, I will unconsciously lower my posture in front of him, and I will make myself more humble.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The person you love should be chosen. Even if the person you love doesn't like you, you have to work hard to express and pursue. Even if you are rejected, you are worthy of yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can't choose it, if you really can't choose, you don't choose, choose a stranger, slowly cultivate feelings, and when you look back, you will find that the person who loves you is really good, the person who loves you is full of love for you, the person you love, you are full of him, one is active, one is passive, you choose yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If the person I love also loves me, then I must choose the person I love, if he doesn't love me, then I will choose the person who loves me, at least he will be good to me.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Compare the two points or choose a person who loves you, because only the other party loves you, can make the relationship between the two of you more harmonious, if it is the person you love, but the other party does not love you, this is no result.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If I had to choose, I think I should choose someone who loves me, because choosing someone who loves me can make me feel pampered and happy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you can only choose one of the two, choose someone who loves you, so that at least you will feel that the other person cares about you. The best outcome is to find someone who loves each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you want to get married, I think you should still choose someone who loves you, because marriage is very complicated, and a person who loves you is willing to tolerate you and give you everything.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The best choice is to have them all, love doesn't have to be so clear, sometimes it's good to be confused and follow your heart.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then it depends on the person who loves you, do you hate to see him, if you don't hate it, then find someone who loves you more, so that the love you will receive is doubled, and you will fall in love with him over time.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If it were me, I would choose someone who loves me, not choose someone I love, because choosing someone I love, there will be too many uncertainties in life, but someone who loves me will make me happy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Generally choose to love you, if in the long run, you should love each other!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The people who love me and the people I love, I will definitely choose the people who love me, the feeling of someone to love, very happy.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The person who loves you, you don't love him, although you can feel that he loves you everywhere, but you have no motivation to give him your love, even if you go back and try to love him, you will feel that you are returning the favor, and you will feel tired.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Someone who loves me. The person I love must also love me in order for me to be happy, but the person who loves me can be happy even if I don't love it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    What's so hard to choose, you're really too much, of course, think about the person you love, if that person also loves you, this is the best choice.

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